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writes:why is my partner like to flirt on facebook i been with him for a year and half he was married for ten years his ex wife never new why is he doing this two me i give him anything he wants i love him so much when i ask him about it he just smiles about it i been married twice my slef and thay was bad ones he even dont care about me but i carnt leave him i love him so much
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2012): My partner of ten yrs flirts on facebbook about 2 yrs ago our daughter set him up on facebook where he plays games ie zinger poker and started adding women from there. When I first saw his messages I was so upset. We are now working things out where he has took some of them off his face but still has them as friends on the games but he now let's me see what been said you need to talk and find out why he flirts and how much it hurt. Get out more as a family or together what a good film together cuddle up while watching. Show love care but if he carrys on after you tried everything either walk away or stay and learn to live with it but hope talking will work it did for me so reallly hope it dose for you
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reader, HoneyMe +, writes (15 December 2010):
 If you suspect that his NOT cheating then i think maybe it's just play. It's not by any means right at all but it's been said than done. If has been cheated on maybe he wouldn't want to cheat on you because he know's how much it would hurt you because he has been there so because his not touching then he will then think it's ok to talk and flirt. I would be worried if he carried this on for a long time, because you will have to ask him bluntly '' what the hell is wrong with me.'' Try having date nights too because realtionships can bore men very easily esp if they get too comfortable. So make date nights and have role play if it helps like you guys have just met. Make sure this facebook flirting is not starting to take over your realtionship. If it makes you unhappy and he is not willing to stop then honey his not worth it because your self happiness and self pride and respect is so much more important than being a part time lover. Take care xxx
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 So he doesn't have a previous track record of cheating..He tells you he flirts with these other women? Have you asked him to stop, and that you don't find it appropriate since he has you. What does he say when you ask him to stop? Are you guys married? If he doesn't respect your wishes to cut the flirting all together then I would seek couples counseling. Perhaps you're not giving him enough attention where he has to flirt with other women. There's more to your story than you're letting on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): his wife was cheating on him in there 10 years married together he flirts with women he likes them big build which i am my slef and he has told me he likes to flirt also his friends sends me messages asking him to stop sending messages
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 December 2010):
Period, much?
What was the reason for divorce in his last marriage? How do you know he's flirting on Facebook? Have you snooped on his Facebook? Who is he flirting with? Men, women?
You need to be more specific in your post and you'll get a better answer.
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