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writes:yesterday was my boyfriends birthday, when we went to lunch he told me about the party he went to the night before to celebrate his birthday, i was unable to go. he was going on and on about all these funny sexual birthday cards he got. i bought him a mushy one and didn't give it to him because i felt stupid and figured he'd appreciate a funny one instead. we were at target and i was looking at cards that were funny, he came up beside me and said you forgot, its too late. I felt real bad but didnt tell him until i sent him a text message about three hours later saying i didnt forget, i bought a mushy card and since he went on and on about the funny/sexual cards i felt stupid giving it to him..so i didnt. he text me back and said he realized he is shallow, but not that bad. also he said it didnt really bother him...well i didnt text him back because i was confused as to what he meant. my question is what did he mean by he realized he was shallow but not that bad. and it really didnt bother him...im cofused
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reader, foxy7727 +, writes (16 December 2010):
 Well my b day was yesterday too:)) so I feel for him and from what I understand he is saying he knew he was a lil shallow but he didn't think u thought he was that shallow to not like ur mushy card he took it as an insult that u thought he wouldn't like ur card. So bassically u said u didn't want to give him ur mushy card cause he likes all those funny cards and he's saying he knew he was shallow but not shallow enouph to not like ur sweet thoughtfull card like he wouldn't appricate what u did.give him the card and maybe just say sorry u just really wanted him to like the card and u don't think he's shallow:))
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reader, TimmD +, writes (15 December 2010):
 It sounds like he feels what he said about you forgetting was shallow of him to say. I don't think he feels he's a shallow man in general, but regrets what he said. Him saying it didn't bother him is his way of supporting that he doesn't think he's a shallow man.
That's what I got out of it at least.
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