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writes:i am still very confused in what to do my boyfriend and i broke up just before last christmas after 11 wonderful years. he met someone else who has a child of 8 years old and moved straight in with her. he kept texting me right up to aug of this year when one day he turn up with my front door key as he knew i was working from home however his last words were if this one doesnt work out i dont know what i would do so i suspect he means that he would come back to me he also cried and cuddle me which if you were happy with your partner why do or say what he did it not adding up. however he said he would be in contact over the next couple of weeks about picking up the rest of his clothes its know oct and i have not heard a thing from since?? do you think i still got hope of him coming back to me i suppose christmas will be the time to tell as he will get thinking about things as we always went to the carribean every year. also why dont he just remain friends and send a text every so often whats the harm in that i know she put a stop to all this which i dont blame her but a 11 years is a long time to threw away??? also she gone and had a tattoo done on her left wrist with his name on how sad is that!!!!! i hope he comes back but need some support and advice i must be mad to want back but love him very dearly still
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): he is a loser who is selfish and doesnt care about your feelings. why dont you wake up and smell the coffee! cant u see that when he has probs and needs someone he comes running to you? its called USING you! then he runs bck to her and disapears with no contact. if he really valued or respected your 11 yrs he wouldnt just dropped you and move in with another women.
its sad when u say he doesnt contact you bcos of her. trust me if he wanted to be with you no one in this world can stop him. dont use the other women as an excuse. he doesnt love you. trust me on that! dnt let him use you anymore!! take back that key! get over him!! u deserve better things!!!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 October 2009):
I agree with the post below. It sounds like he's know her for some time. Don't bother waiting around. Get rid of his stuff, let yourself heal and find yourself a better guy.
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