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Archived questions from: April, 2006 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I would like to stay in contact with my ex, but how much is too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6814 days ago

30 April 2006 (M) - My ex seems to contact me less and less, although I do make sure I send her an IM every now and then. When I do, we have some really good conversations. The other night, when I IMd her we only talked for a minute, but she seemed like she was upset ...

We're supposed to be getting married, but now she broke up with me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6816 days ago

30 April 2006 (M) - I hope this is the right place to put this post. My fiance broke up with me 2 weeks ago. Well sort of.... She told me 2 weeks ago that she needed a break for now. She said that she just wanted to be friends for now. She is a divorced mother of 2 ...

I think she's scared of commitment, what can I do to help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6813 days ago

30 April 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are both 19, i've had quite a few girlfriends in the past and she hasn't had any serious boyfriends. It hasn't been going very long and we have just had 3 weeks away from each other because of work and holiday, this means surely ...

I slept with a girl on Holiday before we dated, but I told her I didn't, I'm feeling quilty.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

30 April 2006 (M) - I have told my girlfriend that I didn’t sleep with this girl on holiday. It was before we started seeing each other. This type of thing has come up before and she has already told me that she would finish with me if I told her that I haven’t slept ...

He said we could work on our relationship, but now says he can't trust me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6811 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - Hi, Please help me with the way I'm feeling right now. Since 2002 I have been single. I have loads of guys come over to me to ask me out but most of the time i'm not interested, since I think Im too choosy! I met this guy, and felt like I...

My boyfriend watches other women...what can we do to fix this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - my boyfriend has a problem with watchin other women and we both think that he needs help,so what can we do to get rid of his obsession of watching other women?...

He says he doesn't feel it, then why does he flirt and have sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6808 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - Help! I'm old enough to know better (in my early 30's!) but I have a crush on a guy and it's killing me! I just can't stop thinking about him. To be fair he's told me he doesn't feel "it", and is just attracted to me but it'll never be a ...

I would like to want sex, but it don't happen...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6813 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - I am 22 and still a virgin. The problem is that I have never wanted to have sex with anyone. I was with a guy for three years who I never slept with. I am quite religious and I hid behind that but the truth is that although I loved him madly, and ...

He totally ignores me, should I just leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6816 days ago

30 April 2006 (M) - I've reached a point where I'm very angry, feel used and emotionally abused, and although I've always made excuses in the past. I'm sick and tired. I've written before pretaining my problems and all the advice always points in one directio...

I gave it all to the affair and now I am left with nothing.......can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6813 days ago

30 April 2006 (M) - We were best friends for 4 years and extremely close when we both discovered a deep attraction for each other. For another two years we secretly met up to spend time with each other. To be honest, she made the first move, but I felt so attached...

Should we have the official talk or should I just give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6811 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - Should I just ignore or initiate a final talk? I broke up with my bf because he always ignores me and hurts my feelings, one friday's night, I deadly missed him and wanted to speak with him, he refused to pick up my phone when he was partying. I ...

I told my friend about my feelings for her and now things are not the same!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - I recently told a female friend that i liked her and have some feelings, but only mentioned this because she was pressuring me into telling her, she made out that she knew what i was going to say so i told her because of this. She said it wouldnt ...

I think this guy doesnt like me anymore because I wouldnt flash him!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - hey! okay there is a guy that i like and i was talking to him and he was like i like u to but then he wanted me to like flash him and all other stuff and i said no and then he was like oh i thought u were different and he all this stuff and i do...

He told me hes attracted to this girl at work and now I cant trust him!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - Iv been with my bf for 2 yrs now. He just recently told me he met this girl at work who he really gets on with and was attracted to, he gave her his number and given her lifts home a few times. When he told me I was so hurt, he told me he instantl...

Her words and actions conflcit. Does she just want to be friends??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6816 days ago

30 April 2006 (F) - I just recently became friends with this girl. But back before we met and became friends, she used to have a HUGE crush on me. She would drive by my house to see if I was there (I don't know how she knew where I lived), look up my pictures online, ...

Is there any chance we can make good what was wrong??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

30 April 2006 (M) - I'm a 34 year old guy who up until recently and due to a severe lack of confidence, have had no sexual partners. Through internet dating, this recently changed and I met a lovely young woman who I was blissfully happy with but our relationship was ...

Its all over and I wish I could erase the memories we shared!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

30 April 2006 (M) - I've been in a long distance realtionship for two years with my girlfriend who has a five year old son. I found out from someone that my girlfriend was pregnant for someone else where she works and she was at least 4 months. She never told me. I ...

I like a girl but shes just got back with her ex!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6817 days ago

29 April 2006 (M) - There's a girl I really like at work. Problem is she's just got back with her ex. What do I do now. I don't want to move on, especially if she splits with him again. How do I find out if I'm in with a shot?...

How can I deal with my bfs lack of ambition??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6811 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - I love my boyfriend to bits and he treats me like a princess but i cant help but get annoyed with his lack of ambition. So far in his life everything has fallen into his lap and this is what he thinks will happen now. I am saving like mad for a ...

Where can my bf get help for his anger problems??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend has got anger problems, hes fine until we have an argument and then he starts to push me and he has grabbed me by the throat before. I would like to help him... but where can he go??I have sent him to his local docter and that was...

I slept with my ex on the bounce. Now my most recent ex wants me back but he found out about the other and has changed his mind!1

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - Ok so me and my bf have split up for nearly 2 wks now, so on the rebound i went and slept with this guy that i used to go out with it meant absolutely nothing and i was single and my bf at the time didnt give a crap about what i did. Recent...

We broke up out the blue but i still feel we can find happiness!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6811 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - Is "I wasn't happy so therefore I don't think we will be happy in the future" a good enough reason to break up after 5 years and buying a flat together? I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend and we were happily ...

I fear my fiance is a big cheater, how do I know for sure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6817 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - I need help!! I have been with my fiance for just over three years but believe me its not all been plain sailing...when he split up with his ex she was pregnant and claimed it was his, for the whole of the pregnancy she was on our case, I knew the ...

Everything is fine but for some reason I dont trust him anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - hiya.. I've been seeing my boyfirnd a couple of months now..it was going great at first, we enjoyed doing the same things, watching the same films.. I think i am falling in love with him but for some reason i dont trust him anymore!! I dont see the ...

I dated him and found out he was a she, we split but now I miss him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - This is an embarrassing problem, so if you have nothing worthwhile to say, buzz off. Nearly two years ago, I met a guy via long-distance, and ended up dating him after two months or so. He was my first boyfriend and I ended up getting VERY attached ...

She drops me and picks me up again. Should I support her now??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6818 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - I have fancied my best friend for three years and up until a few months ago we were always close, flirting and she even told me she fancied me. We both have other friends, but spent most free time in each others company (live together)- practically ...

Being without my Air Force guy is breaking my heart!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6800 days ago

29 April 2006 (?) - My boyfriend has been gone away at the Air Force for about two and a half weeks now, and I feel like I can't take the waiting anymore. It's making me crazy to be without him. Today I came home and I glanced at a picture of us I have hanging on my ...

He cares me for like crazy but this grey area is hard for us both!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6818 days ago

29 April 2006 (F) - Hello, I really love this guy who also happens to be my best friend. At one stage he said we could never be anything more than friends but now he has agreed to see if there can be something more between us. He says he will renounce the world if som...

I'd rather have him in my life hurting me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6818 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - I'm in love - very very badly so. He doesnt wanna be with me but for reasons stated above i still let him f*ck me...trust me, the only thing worse than getting with him and it never going anywhere, is not getting with him and regreting it. In abo...

He needs space to deal with his grief but I am losing my paitence!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6817 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - Well i was going out with a guy until recently when he said that he needed space since his great nana has just died and we dont know each other that well. I've been careful to let him make all the flirting and communicating and ive had to learn to...

After 5 years, she just dumps me! She claims she wants space..what should I do?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6818 days ago

28 April 2006 (M) - i have just split up with my girlfriend of five years and she has moved out to her mothers house she says that she needs space its all come about when she was admitted to hospital with a suspected brain bleed i was beside myself with worry and ...

Husband is stressing me out and I can't cope anymore, Please help me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6818 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - Dear Friends, My husband wants to move back to his home town and wants me to ask for a transfer when I have only been on the job a short time. I have asked about transfers and have been told I need to be on the job six months and have strong sale...

Did I make the right move with confused partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6819 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - k so here it is....my sons father fell in love with me while he was with his fiance that he's been with for 3 yrs. i ignoreded him for about a week and a half cuz i wasn't gonna be a third party so he left her, cuz he couldn't stop thinking about ...

Cant face partner going abroad to work, What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6818 days ago

28 April 2006 (M) - I have been dating a wonderful women for the last 2 years. I love her sprit, drive and independance; she is unlike any person I've ever met. We had planned on marrying in two years, after we each finished Uni. Recently, she told me that after Uni ...

Is it my fault that husband is not sexuallt attracted to me anymore??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6810 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - I just wanted to know if there is a problem between me and my husband. We have always had no problems with sex and now for some reason if I try to get on top he loses his erection. I don't know if it is me because I have had two kids and he just ...

Long distance lover is giving me the cold shoulder, What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6818 days ago

28 April 2006 (M) - What do you do when your girlfriend seems to not love you anymore for no apparent reason? My girlfriend and i have been in a relationship for a few years now, about half of it has been long distance, but we've got used to the situation and al...

He's always stared at other women but now I'm pregnant it's starting to get at me, I need advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6819 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - My husband is obsessed with women. We have a great life together but he can help stopping and looking at other women. And has done since we have met. I find it really hard at the moment be heavily pregnant seeing him watch other women knowing he ...

I'm falling asleep on the phone and she thinks that I don't listen!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6750 days ago

28 April 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going strong for 9 months now. It's long distance since I'm at school, so we are on the phone late at night a lot. On several occasions during these late at night conversations, she'll be talking for a while and I'm ...

He cheated but says he loves me and I am so confused!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6819 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - By the things i have wrote on here it doesnt sound like i have much of a relationship or a guy worth keeping ... but anyways ... my guy that i have been with for a year and sum months ... we were having some problems ... and things like he didnt ...

Everything was great until a week ago, now I am lucky if he picks up my calls!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6819 days ago

28 April 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is 8 years older than me and we just started a long distance relationship about 5 months ago. We visit each other every month taking turns and everything has been great. When we are apart he would call up to 4 times or more a day and ...

He abused me, we broke up and now I am going to give his ring back, but I want to tell him off good. Any good tips on what I should say?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6817 days ago

27 April 2006 (F) - Hi there, I was hoping to find some advice for my problem...I was engaged before with this Muslim Egyptian guy, but he turned out to be controlling, possessive and emotionally abusive and I broke up with him. He now wants the engagment ring he gave ...

She said she loved me, but now she says I smother her. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6819 days ago

27 April 2006 (M) - My g/f and I have been together for 3 months and she is going through a divorce and has some pretty heavy worries going on right now. I certain that we have a good bond between us and she told me only a couple of days ago that she loved me and tha...

He don't ever say his emotions and don't listen to mine...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6819 days ago

27 April 2006 (F) - i ave been with my boyfriend for a long time but he never tells me how he feels and doesnt listen to how i feel which causes us to argue what should i do?...

If he doesn't really love her, why is he with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

27 April 2006 (F) - I'm involved with a man that has 2 of us on the go! He is 36 I am 40 the other woman is 58, yes 58! He met me 4 months ago 5 weeks after his 9 year relationship with her ended,she ended it. Everything between him and I was totally fine untill she ...

We miss each other but are worried about each other being unfaithful!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

27 April 2006 (M) - I have recently broke up with my girl friend we both miss each other but we need to see more of are friends what is the best plan of action coz we are both scared of each other being unfaihful....

Our big problems have led to a 'break' but I dont want to lose her!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

27 April 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfrined have been 2gether for nearly 3 years we have had are ups and downs but laitly we have had little problems that have turned into big problems know she wants a break from me i wanted one to but know i regret it deeply i know its ...

She miscarried and we broke up and now shes sleeping with my friend!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

27 April 2006 (M) - A year ago, we lost a child. She lied to me about the date that she lost the child and rarely discusses the "miscarriage". She insisted I leave the house and not be arround her during the time she lost the child in fact we broke up. A month later ...

He's in jail because of me, but now I miss him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

27 April 2006 (F) - I am in a relationship that has lasted four years. my partner has been abusing me starting four months into the relationship. we have a two year old child. my partner has an alcohol addiction. I have had a restraining order since I was pregnant. ...

Is this guy worth it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

27 April 2006 (F) - Qestion is simple, just gave background info, sorry if too long, but I really like this guy and want to give info that could explain us better. Should I forget about having a relationship with this guy? And here is the background... M...

How can I get my boyfriend to REALLY listen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

27 April 2006 (F) - I feel like when I try to talk to my boyfriend, when I am upset, he doesn't know how to listen empathetically, even though I know he is just confused and not sure what to do. He asks me "what do you want me to say?", but of course I don't want him ...