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writes: Ok so me and my bf have split up for nearly 2 wks now, so on the rebound i went and slept with this guy that i used to go out with it meant absolutely nothing and i was single and my bf at the time didnt give a crap about what i did.Recently i wrote him a letter explaining all my feelings that i couldnt say out loud, the next day i decide to go out for a few drinks with my mates from college and my ex was there too, unfortunately my ex got extremely drunk and started shouting out personal things about our love life, the next thing i know im being pulled into an alley way saying that he still loves me and he wants us to get back together again at first i was thinking how do i know your telling the truth afterall he was so drunk.He then asked me what happened when i stayed at my ex's house i told him the truth and he went mental and never wants us to get back together.It was a stupid rebound thing it meant nothing to me we had split and he didnt care what i had done, i feel so bad about what has happened but what can i do to make him see it was a phase that last 5 minutes hes the only person i love and care for. So why cant he see that??
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reader, dudeman  +, writes (21 October 2009):
unfortunately i know exactly how your bf feels right now. im 18 and my gf of over a year and i broke up. 2 weeks later shes having sex with a guy she used to date. she says it meant nothing and they never said they loved each other or had strong emotional feelings toward each other, but i question her so much and get so angry and spend night after night after night hurt about what she did. i definitely see her in a different light and i dont think things will ever be the same, but nontheless ive been able to accept it and believe her because i love her and have told her if she betrays me in any way ever again that i will leave her ass. just dont give him any reason not to trust you and youll be fine. be honest. be real. and if you love him, you need to answer any questions he has honestly and be faithful. he will come around eventually.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (30 April 2006):
 He's hurt. It's because by going with another man so quickly, it has caused him to question just how much he (your recent boyfriend) actually meant to you. He's thinking if you actually had anything in your heart for him, you wouldn't have gone with another guy so quickly. You had the right to do as you pleased but his feelings are hurt. He's probably a little embarrassed too. It has probably caused him to see you in a different light.
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