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writes: i have just split up with my girlfriend of five years and she has moved out to her mothers house she says that she needs space its all come about when she was admitted to hospital with a suspected brain bleed i was beside myself with worry and hardly left her side exept for fetching clothes she was admitted mon and on wed night i brought her mobile phone hoime for charging turned it on and plugged it in and a load of txts came through and one was off a male friend asking her to go for a drink while i was at work whether i would have known about it i will never know and she swore there is nothing going on and i truly believe her but after the way i have seen her flirt with him add the things up how would you feel? but i was willing to accept what she had said now just recently she has told me she wants to have kids a house and a marriage so i crapped myself naturally as a man and then warmed up to the idea after a week got a house tried planning kids and asked her to marry me she wanted them all at once and im willing to take the plunge and do it all just as fast and she got out of hospital thurs before she did when i went up that morning she told me she needed space i was obliterated in an instant and my heart broke there and then as we have been together five years and i consider it something very special after all this time i know she doesnt have much reason to trust my word as i have cheated on her but i thought doing what she asks and physical evidence would have been enough to show her i was genuine for once? i do everything i can for her i wash up i cook clean wash and iron she never wants for nothing so i dont know what else to do or what i have done? ive tried loving her and playing hard to get and even somewhere in the middle so what do i do? please any advice will be much appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2006): well i think that after that hospital incident, really made her think about exactly what she wanted in her life. if you cheated in the past than that's probably in the back of her mind all of the time, i know from experience that when something serious happens it really makes you do things or leave people that we care about that aren't truly making us completly happy. i'm sorry to say, but that's just my opinion.
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (29 April 2006):
 resopect her wishes she is obviously unhappy and unsure aboyt things. she needs time and space to think things over in her mind as to what she wants and what she wants to do for the rest of her life . give hermwhat she wants. that is the only way.
anyway got to go byeeee
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2006): I understand that you love her, but sometimes a bad history is hard to overlook. Take this time to reconsider your relationship with her and decide whether or not you really want to still be involved with this woman. Can you trust her? Are you worthy of her trust? Give this at least two weeks to think about, and if, after all that thinking, you decide that you still want to be with her, go to her and ask her to take you back. If it's meant to be, she will take you back. While you are apart from her, do not call her any more than once a day. Skip a couple days too to make her curious. She needs this space to figure things out, and so do you. If past mistakes are ever to be forgiven and forgotten, some time and thought needs to go into the relationship. If you two are meant to be together, she will forgive your unfaithfulness, and vis versa, and you two will be together again. Have patience. All good things come in time. Good luck to you.
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