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I'd rather have him in my life hurting me!!

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Question - (28 April 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I'm in love - very very badly so. He doesnt wanna be with me but for reasons stated above i still let him f*ck me...trust me, the only thing worse than getting with him and it never going anywhere, is not getting with him and regreting it.

In about 3 months we're gonna part ways and the likelyhood is il never see him again. I know this is probs for the best but the thought of saying goodbye is causing me so much pain. I can't stand to think that soon there'l come a day when the last thing i say to him will be the last thing i ever say to him, or that the next time i kiss him may be the last time i ever kiss him. He treats me like shit but i cant bare to be without him. I'd rather have him in my life hurting me. I love him so much and im going absolutly out of my mind from it.

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A female reader, Aunt Audrey United Kingdom +, writes (29 April 2006):

Aunt Audrey agony aunt

Your're with a guy that treats you like dirt but you would rather be treated like that than dump him.......

Have you ever had a decent relationship where your partner treats you well?

If he's getting out of your life for good, sure if you love him your gonna hurt, but in time when you look back on the way he treated you, you will be thankfull you didn't waste anymore time on him, you'll have had a lucky escape.

No man is worth being used like a doormat for, for your own sake make sure he's the last man that treats you that way!

Good luck!

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A female reader, Angel ron +, writes (29 April 2006):

Angel ron agony auntIf you ask me No body derseves to be in an unhappy relationship regard;less of whether the sex is good. Sex is not importnat love is. Dump this guy get rid of him and find another guy who loves you and treats you the way you want to be treated. Do not be treated like a doormat or on the bottom of someones shoe put you r self and your feelings first. Have some self respect.

Any way byeeee take care

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A male reader, cam Australia +, writes (29 April 2006):

cam agony aunti'm sry 2 say it but u can do better u luv this guy but he doesnt luv u bak u really need 2 end the relationship if he doesnt respect u then u should not be wif him

please for your sake dont let it happen anymore

good luck

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