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writes: I am 22 and still a virgin. The problem is that I have never wanted to have sex with anyone. I was with a guy for three years who I never slept with. I am quite religious and I hid behind that but the truth is that although I loved him madly, and we had great foreplay etc, I always made excuses when it came to actual sex. When he found out, we broke up because he thought it meant I wasn't attracted to him which wasn't true. I have recently started seeing a guy who I have liked for ages and I genuinly think he is the 'one' but I never fantasize about sex with him, only what comes before it. I'm all the more embarassed because he is experienced. Is there something wrong with me? I really want to desire sex and can't face this ruining another relationship.
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reader, mystic_helper +, writes (5 May 2006):
Well I can safely say there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You just are not ready for the next step. Thinking about it too much can also block out any want for actual sex. You are perfectly normal and should just go with the flow. So if youre in the middle of foreplay or something, let it flow. If you feel wrong, stop. If he truly likes you, he will wait
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