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writes: hey! okay there is a guy that i like and i was talking to him and he was like i like u to but then he wanted me to like flash him and all other stuff and i said no and then he was like oh i thought u were different and he all this stuff and i dont think that he likes me any more, which is stupid just cause i dont want to do stuff! but yea i still like him and i dunno wat to do Reply to this Question
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (1 May 2006):
 Congratulations for having the strength of character to say no to him. Boys are a bit preoccupied with sex and stuff in their teens...not sure they ever grow out of it :-) However, surely such an intelligent young lady as yourself can see straight through his superficiality and has already made up her mind to abandon someone who is out of sexual thrills, to wait for someone who likes her for mind as well as body???
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reader, Frontline Soldier +, writes (1 May 2006):
Hey, This guy is obviously not worth your time.. Even if you can find a happiness, Guys like this will always crave more. There is a high chance that you will just get hurt in the future if you chase after this dude.Just sounds like another perve to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2006): This guy is totally not worth it hun. Get him out of your life.Flashing is when somebody wants you to reveal yourself to them by taking some clothes off.If you aren't comfortable doing that hun, you should never ever feel obliged to. This guy is a pervert, and is only interested in one thing from you.When he says he thought you were different, he means he thought you were a complete slapper who was well up for it! But you showed him you aren't, which is good for you!You tell him that your not easy, and don't go around flashing to guys for the sake of it. If he can't respect that you don't feel comfortable taking your clothes off for him, he's a loser hun, you can do much better believe me.Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2006): Why would you like a guy that wants you to flash for him? Like Angel ron said - he wants you to flash because he is a pervert and will get a sexual thrill at seeing your naked body. Arn't you worth more than that?Never listen to a guy that asks you to do sexual things to him or for him. Any self-respecting girl will say NO to any guy that asks this.Save anything sexual or personal to someone who you are in a relationship with. Only do something you are both comfortable in doing.A guy who really likes you and respects you will NEVER ask you to do something you don't feel comfortable doing. Please remember that.
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (1 May 2006):
 sounds wierd to me what is flashing. Flashing to me sounds very pervy. If I were you dum p this guy find someone normal.
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reader, jimmy2 +, writes (1 May 2006):
 Hi,I think that personally you could find a much better guy than this. If any guy makes requests or demands of you that you are not comfortable with, and you say no, then he should accept this, not play the card of making you feel the one who has done wrong. Move on, it's his loss, not yours.
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reader, bonym +, writes (1 May 2006):
 Listen, if this guy seemed only interested in you for your body, then he is a real loser and a jerk. I bet you are an absolute stunning young lady, believe me, you will find a decent more respectable guy, dont worry about this loser, if he thought you were "different" then he has a warped mind, what did he expect you to do, just strip naked in front of him? He seems like a weirdo, forget him. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2006): Reckon you are better off. Sounds like he veiws women as objects and for his entertainment. Sorry to say, but he may have just been trying to use you, and and was only pertending he "liked" you in that way.Don't ever allow yourself to be pressured into doing anything you're not comterable with. Seems like you've already made the right chioce!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2006): He didnt like you in the first place I'm afraid to say, he just wanted to see "your bits". No real friend would make you feel guilty about doing something like that. In fact, no real friend would make u do that at all.
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