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writes: By the things i have wrote on here it doesnt sound like i have much of a relationship or a guy worth keeping ... but anyways ... my guy that i have been with for a year and sum months ... we were having some problems ... and things like he didnt notice me anymore and it was kinda slipping away ... like difting apart ... I guess it was his best friends b-day and this girl that i use to be friends with well there is a long story behind her but anyways long story to short ... he cheated on me with her with we were only going out for like 4 or 5 months ... and he seen her that night at the b-day ... and supposedly it happened again ... and when i mean cheat i mean kissing not sleeping with ... both time's he was pissed out of his mind drunkiness ... I took him back the first time ... but this happened just like 3 weeks ago ... he came up with all this crappy stuff like im sorry your the one my only one im soooo sorry i relaized i love you more then i thought i cant live without you please forgive me ... im not with him right now but i dont know wat i should do ... right now im just waiting it out ... I'm so confused ... i love him so much and it's killing me and i know for my part i need to learn how to communicate better but i mean should i give it another chance??? and work out the kinks that made us began to drift at first??? i think it's worth it but i just needed another opinion ...
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (28 April 2006):
 I know you are probably hurting at his betrayal but the fact he was drunk when he cheated is not an excuse...it is easy to hide behind alcohol. Basically you have got to ask yourself if you can trust him and will you be worrying if you rekindle the relationship about future opportunities where he may cheat again. Only you can decide this one really, but it doesn't sound like the relationship was great before his confession...
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