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writes: hiya..I've been seeing my boyfirnd a couple of months now..it was going great at first, we enjoyed doing the same things, watching the same films.. I think i am falling in love with him but for some reason i dont trust him anymore!! I dont see the relationship goin anywhere if i dont trust him, but I want to be with him..he makes me feel special..should I finish him or give it a go? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2006): thanx for the advice country woman..i think your right maybe it is past relationships coming back to haunt me.. i intend on giving the relationship a go ...thanx
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reader, lani +, writes (1 May 2006):
hi i think you are scared that your falling in love as it takes away ur control over things thats whats making you feel this way find out how he feels about you as it might also be that your scared ul frighten him off ul prob find he feels the same way about you.
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (1 May 2006):
 I have to say that normally when a lack of trust comes into a relationship it is because there is reason of some sort.
What has happened to make you mistrust him?
Do you have any proof that he is not doing what he is saying he is doing?
If you are falling in love with him then why don't you trust him?
If you have common interests and see one another quite often I am confused as to where all the mistrust has come in.
You have only been seeing him for a short period of time and it does take some time to know someone really well.
Unless there is proof of anything untoward going on and he makes you feel special, why would you even consider finishing with him?
Perhaps your feelings of growing love for him are scaring you right now and so you think that there must be something wrong with him.
Have you been hurt before in a previous relationship?
If so, then it could be that you can't believe your luck.
Don't end something if it is just insecurities on your part, talk to him instead and try and work out why you feel this way.
The relationship at least deserves that.
BFN
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