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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

My partner's great, but my ex has come back into the picture ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - This will be long so I apologise in advance. A couple of years ago one of my very best friends became my boyfriend. He is a wonderful man who treats me better than I ever thought possible, he adores me and would do anything for me. I found it very ...

I'm torn between 2 boys. One is an ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4193 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - Im torn between these two boys "A" is a ex who I've always had an amazing connection with we were together for a bit last October after we admitted feelings for echother finally i kinda used to put him in the friend zone beacause the thought of us ...

Torn between fiance and ex boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I have been in relationship with H since past 6 years, our relationship is good, as I remember a lot of happy times and yes a few bad ones but that's how life is. I have had 3 relationships before H which all lasted less then 1 year. My las...

I don't know which guy I like more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for about 5 months now and i'm beginning to really like him, we flirt every time we see each other, he has a great personality and he's been coming round every other weekend, and we would end up kissing and cuddling. ...

My ex's gf is driving a wedge between my kids and their dad. How should I deal with this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid Im writing this through rage and tears... Me and my ex broke up 3 years ago, we have two amazing children together, He has moved on and has a child with another girl, their relationship is rocky most of the time, My ex has a bad Alc...

Is this single guy looking for a threesome with me and my BF? Who makes the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - So here it goes. I have a male friend he split up from his girlfriend a year ago and is still looking for someone. Recently he spoke to one of his other female friends and asked to have a Fwb relationship. She agreed but ended up getting back wit...

I had sex with a girl and then had sex with her sister too. Should I try to talk to the one I like, or would that make it worse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - I have a pretty odd situation I'm in right now that I'd like some advice on: Basically, I was friends with a girl for about 2 years, she used to have a boyfriend during this period, so it was always friendly chat, I never tried to flirt with her o...

My boyfriend is attending a wedding, his ex will be there and it's also my birthday. How should I read his request that I not attend the wedding?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - Hi, I am confused about what to do and how to feel... My boyfriend will attend the wedding of a high school classmate. They are not close friends. They haven't seen each other for 2 years. He invited him to his wedding 3 weeks before the weddi...

Am I facing a big problem here? Could my boyfriend be interested in this girl who talks really inappropriate sexual stuff with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm sorry but this is going to be a long post. I am really upset here and I need some advice. A girl my boyfriend knows (they're not really friends, but know each other) is always trying to talk to my boyfriend about stuff that I fee...

I'm drawn to my girlfriend's friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. We have had our ups and downs like anybody and currently we have been getting along great and having a blast together. But for the past two years now, I have not been able to stop thi...

I feel jealous now that my ex-boyfriend has a new girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - I've dated this guy when i was in school. He was my first boyfriend but we broke up after 5 months, we were still young and didn't know how to work things out. Now that 7 years pass we remain friends, we still keep in touch and some days we would...

How could a guy like him fall for a girl like her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Thank you for taking the time to read my question. I have been dating the most wonderful man, Jeff, for about a year now, I have met his parents and he’s met mine, we’re planning to get married early next year. Everything’s perfect and I may be j...

No sex since January. Am I being paranoid? My instincts say he's messing about, but hides things. How can I be sure of it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Am I paranoid or is he up to something? I recently have noticed my boyfriend is acting like he's up to something lately. We haven't been intimate since January. I put this down to him having a low sex drive and he had made comments about not gett...

Broke up a month ago. Does he still love me? He said his "real friends" are stopping him from dating me again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend around a month ago. we've dated for 2 and a half years, though i was the one who suggested a break up, i miss him so much, and i actually want him back. The reason why, i suggested a break up was because we always h...

Do you think he has started having different feelings? If so I might as well end this relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - So for the past 5 months I have been in a fwb relatioinship with a friend I met thru a friend. The thing is I'm married and he's not married but is already in a relationship himself. So we work on eachothers schedule. Now the sex isn't always the...

Should I come out so I can see him before he goes? Should I be worried about the 3 year age gap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

22 May 2013 (M) - I'm 16, gay, and in a crisis. I've got to know this guy from my school quite well. He was a sixth former when I was in year 9 and after he left school when I started year 10 for uni we got closer and we both discovered that we were both gay. O...

Is it normal for guy friends to touch each other?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Is it normal for guy friends to touch each other so much? My boyfriend says all guys do this, but I don't think so. In their group of friends they are always joking about having sex with each other, and they grab each others asses and squeeze it. ...

This girl seems a bit too interested in my fiance so after she hung up on me repeatedly I told my fiance he couldnt drive 5 hours to pick her up from the rodeo. Did I over-react?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - I have been living together with my boyfriend for 7 years now, we are engaged, he's very naive and always try to cheer people up if they look upset especially his female friends.. One of them is his step cousin, his step Dad brother's wife niece ...

My boyfriend maintains a friendship with a woman who has a crush on him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - There is this girl my boyfriend has been talking to online. I found out she has a huge crush on him and has been trying to hook up with him for weeks now. What's worse is that I found out she sent him a naked picture. I'm upset because even tho...

My boyfriend has been acting strangely since he discovered I deleted his ex-girlfriend's number from his phone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship now because he is from the UK and I am from North America and I have to finish university until December, then we can be together. We have been dating for about a year and a half now and have...

My girlfriend chose me over him, but now she's depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - we have been going through a rocky patch for the last 3 weeks. my girlfriend called me friday night and appolagised for breaking up with me,she said that she had kissed another guy she had feelings for she said that she was sorry and had to tell me ...

I'm in a long distance relationship, but I've met someone local

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - For the past 5 years, I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of 8 years. Due to our circumstances, we'd only be together twice a year at most. It has been hard for the both of us, there were times when we'd stop talking for ...

Should I confront my ex-bestfriend who is now sleeping with my soon to be ex-husband?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - My best friend and my husband are now lovers. She left her husband, he left me. She has two kids and we have one. She and he have discussed kicking me out of our family home and them moving in. I suspected something was going on for so long...

5 years together...and then a new girl enters my life.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

18 May 2013 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 5 years. And I admit that i'm a good and committed lover. In-fact, this is my first relationship. Well Everything's going well. The honey moon period is over, we had our good and bad times together as a coup...

I still want to be with her but she was my bestfriend's lover. What are my options?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 May 2013 (M) - three months back my best friend introduced me to his galfriend,a few days from there we became friends with ma friend's galfriend.. Before i knew it we fell in love ,within days of the affair we got caught and i lost a friend,to make things wors...

At the moment, I am not ready for a threesome to happen in our relationship. My Bf would like it to happen. How long into a relationship before agreeing to it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - Hi, Ok I would love some fair and informative advice here on my boyfriend wanting to have a FFM threesome. We have been going out with each other for 8 months and moved in together three months ago. At the beginning of the relationship he...

Should I be worried that she is cheating on me? Or am I just being insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

18 May 2013 (M) - I have been hurt in the past by women and 3 months ago I met this girl who I think is the most amazing girl I've ever met in my entire life, she is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the out. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. s...

After 8 years of marriage I became totally dependant on my ex-husband to support me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - i am 28 and i don't want to work. I'm still living with my ex husband and his girl friend, he has moved on and i relied on him so much for 8 years. i have become comfortable living like that. i don't work or pay any bills. i don't do anything...

I'm confused about this girl's actions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (M) - Alright, so long story, I'll attempt to make it short. I'm 18 and I've never had a girlfriend. I asked a girl out last year and she said yes. Come to find out, she had a boyfriend that I wasn't aware of. I cut my ties and said forget it. Yesterday...

My husband has been hiding that he's talking to his ex-fling on FB. What to do about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - We've been maried for 3months now. i'm just 22 and hes 24 maybe too young for marriage. We've been LDR for 2years then got married. We've been LDR again for about 2 months now, and he did it again, chatted wih his ex fling, admits he did but refu...

My husband doesn't understand his ex-wife and her daughter are manipulating him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (?) - hi,im 34 myparthners 52. we have 3 kids together. i love him but for some strange reason he thinks I don't love him but I love his money or etc. hes terribly wrong! he lived with his ex for 20 years.they have no kids together.we would have a har...

Do I have any right telling my boyfriend to stop talking with this girl that I feel uncomfortable with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F) - Do I have any right telling my boyfriend to stop talking with this girl that I feel uncomfortable with? This girl has only known my boyfriend for about a week and she has been talking very openly about how much she likes sex and been telling him...

I'm in love with my girlfriend's best friend and she feels the same way, but I don't want to lose my girlfiriend either! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4207 days ago

15 May 2013 (M) - i have a girlfriend for 2 months.. but before that i met a girl in wich i was interested in.. but i didnt tell her.(she is the best friend of my current girlfriend) and we are best friends now, i found out that she is in love with me as am i with h...

Having second thoughts about my current boyfriend of 2 years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F) - Im going to try and make this short...I was married for 12years to a very controlling and emotionally abusive man. The guy I am with now is 13years my junior. He is mature in some ways but others not so much (financially and education wise) Anyway w...

His friend flirts with him big time -- why does she do it when she knows he's in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F) - Hey everyone. Hope everyone is good. I posted on here a couple of months ago about having problems with my boyfriends female friend who constantly kept flirting with him. I got mixed opinions about the whole situation and what I should do. I'm ...

His wife has moved back in with him and he cant divorce her, but he wants to continue seeing me. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

14 May 2013 (F) - Hi, how I’m going to start this. I read some of “my boyfriend has a wife” discussion and I’m in the same situation now. We start as a friend since then all of our friends knew that his separated to his wife. He has a kid, and that is the only thing ...

Have I lost the love of my life? She has feelings for someone else and wont stop seeing him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

14 May 2013 (M) - have i lost her? i have been in a relationship for 10 years, i left this girl for over a year and started a new relationship, i broke her heart and we eventually ended up back together. i have never treated her right and have never committe...

Sister and husband had an affair, and I am expected to act all happy at family gatherings!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

13 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'd married my first love for more than 10 years. we have one college daughter. Few years ago, I found out he cheated with my younger sister. I filed for a divorce, but never left our house beacause he was begging, crying ...

How can I stop missing the other man? He was a selfish, controlling, manipulative jerk.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

13 May 2013 (F) - 18 months ago, I ended an affair I was having with my neighbour. I was married and so was he. I not only ended it but told my husband, his wife, sold my house, moved to a different neighbourhood and never contacted him again. Even though I've...

Which one do I let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

12 May 2013 (F) - I am having to choose between two men and its killing me inside, i was with one for a year, we got engaged after a week, we have both had a lot happen, his mum died, then my dad but before his mum died i found out he had been texting his ex over a ...

My boyfriend's behavior has shaken me to my wounded, abandonment-fearing core. Am I the one who needs to work on my issues? Or is his behavior unacceptable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

12 May 2013 (F) - Can I trust my boyfriend? I have trust issues stemming from childhood (parental divorce, alcoholic parent, stressed out parent, etc). I've improved in the trust department, but still have a long ways to go. I live with my boyfriend of 2.5...

I hate my boyfriend being friends with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I have been with my boyfriend for the past 3 years. I have a major problem and I hope I won't be judged or get hurtful comments about what I am going to say. My boyfriend is friends with a girl who lets say...sleeps around..a ...

My boyfriend's drink was spiked and the woman he woke up with now says she is pregnant!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Help me, please. My boyfriend of a year just told me that about a month ago, he went to this girl's house to help her with her abusive ex. He didn't have a way home, so he sat down and she asked him if he wanted anything to drink. I guess it was ...

Is my B/f still not over his ex? And is she the reason why he wants to go for the party?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 8mths who I live with, has been asked to go to a 30th birthday party. He asked me to go with him, and I said yes. It was a Facebook group invite and I have since seen that his ex (who broke his heart ) is invited. He has been ...

How can I stop obsessing about the fact that my Bf used to sleep with his baby momma after they separated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

8 May 2013 (F) - My bf used to sleep with his baby momma after they separated, on and off from what i can gather. I know its not while he has been with me, but it makes me feel insecure or that he still has feelings for her. How do I stop obsessing about this?...

This is hurting ,me: I love him and I don't want to lose him. But what to do? He wants to try other girls, not for love, just sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

8 May 2013 (F) - Hi guys, Well I have this problem. And I appreciate you not judging me nor laughing. I have been with my bf for 7 years, we break up several times and lots happened but we still come back to each other because we do luv each other. But lately ...

I think I love her. So how can I help her get over the guy she is seeing? He makes her unhappy. I think she's confused.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

7 May 2013 (M) - I seriously love a girl whom i've been knowing for a long time too.....problem is that she is too much confused...she is in a relation with another guy...and certainly she is not happy in that relation...so she want's to get along with me...but ...

His controlling female friend is damaging our marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - Hmm...I have thought about this issue for many many months but this is the first time I have written it down to try and talk about it...It's such a mess I almost don't know where to begin. My husband and I have this friend..well..he has this ...

Why can't he tell her to move on 2 years after they broke up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I´m with my bf almost 2 years, everything´s great, but one thing. My bf´s been always friends with his ex of 4 years..It always bothered me. And finally, after almost year and a half that I hated her I had to really speak about her ...

She acts like she's interested in me, says she's unhappy with her boyfriend, but she's still with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4216 days ago

5 May 2013 (M) - Hello everyone, I wanted to share a story of mine and ask for your advice. So, basically, a colleague of mine that I have known for 2 years now has been sending me mixed signals and I do not know where I stand with her. Initially, I thought n...