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writes:I seriously love a girl whom i've been knowing for a long time too.....problem is that she is too much confused...she is in a relation with another guy...and certainly she is not happy in that relation...so she want's to get along with me...but again she is confused...so how can i help her for getting over the past relation and be with me...please guys help me... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2013): What the hell here? You just turn into the new dear Abby and Ann Landers? You crazy? Listen man you just tell her hey I am into you but the other guy has to go. Don't accept any bullshit stories or honey I am afraid. Come On.. Yes she is confused because the other guy is slamming her and your the second fiddle. Confused no, your just screwed up. Why even bother in tackling this large problem she might have. Drop her and move on. Unless you got a PHD in front of your name you wont be able to help this women. She loves the attention you are giving you and she loves the attention the other man is giving her. When it is all being said and done your the one who is going to get the leftovers. Good-luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2013): She wants to get along with you because you are being the nice guy that her boyfriend is not. You are actually making it easier for her to stay with her boyfriend by being so nice to her and spending time with her. Without you around she only has a jerk, but with you around she gets both a jerk and a nice guy. The best thing you can do is move on to other girls. Don't totally stop being friendly with this girl, but you do need to stop offering all the emotional support that she isn't getting from her BF. The sooner she gets tired of going without any nice guy in her life, the sooner she will break up with him and look for a nicer BF. But that probably will not happen any time soon no matter what you do. So move on to someone else. Be respectful and friendly to her, but do not keep being the shoulder to cry on all the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2013): Hey buddy, well it sounds like she is with a bad boy, women like that are brained washed, I know how it is, know matter how good you could treat her, she's in love with him, sorry to say you don't have a chance, I know it hurt's, am still going through the pain a year later, partner just walk away, do not call her, tex her, or if you run into her don't even smile at her, she love's him, I hope the best for you, I feel your pain, good luck. S he might want to be friend's, but for your own feeling's, don't have any thing to do with her, she really don't care about you only her self, it's not her fault, she been brained washed, it hard to believe you can love some one, an they don't even think of you, just how bad they are treated. She lost.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (7 May 2013):
There's no easy answer for that. Some women prefer men who don't treat them well; if she wanted to leave him she already would have.
You can attempt to treat her as if she doesn't have a boyfriend and ask her out. Maybe she'll decide to leave him, but I wouldn't hope for much.
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reader, Chris2467  +, writes (7 May 2013):
 Well if she is unhappy about the relation she's in don't you think she would have broken up with him so this happened to me once just play things cool just go with it until you are really sure that she is eager to break it off with this guy
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