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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Why did this girl walk away the minute she moved into the house with her boyfriend and not speak to me for a couple of years and then get back in touch, mess me around and fob me off and then shut me out again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Hi there. Four years ago I had a relationship with a girl who was about to move in with her long term boyfriend. I know it was wrong but I was lonely and inexperienced and she had issues with her bf and had recently lost her father. We met at ...

My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging and I'm tired of some creep touching me because my B/f wants to sleep with his wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging. Rather it be me and another girl with him or a full couple swap. At first I was alright with it, didn't put up much of a fight and probably even enjoyed it. But now it's like he's obsessed ...

I love him , he loves her, she doesn't love him . Can he love me ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4283 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hi All, I love my friend for One year i know him, he's so shy and a very good person he is kind to everyone ,i never met a person like this . So i told him that i love him more than anyone else , he keep silent . After one month i discover...

Who do I chose? My g/f or my best female friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Well, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 months. and she gave me promise ring but I havent seen her for almost 3 weeks cause her car broke down and then got sick from her a bff female and the kids. But I have a bff female that we have bee...

Should I be worried that he's still not over his ex yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six months. He is 30 and I'm 29, and we started living together about a month ago. It was around this time when he first told me he loved me too. Things are going really well. We get along great and are very sex...

We've shared kisses on a regular basis. What do the "looks" she gives him, when he flirts with me, mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - It started around 4 months ago. I went to my best friends house for a few drinks as it was Christmas Day and it's tradition, only this year her friend came and we started talking straight away. He is the same age as my best friend (20) two ...

Could he be falling in love again with his ex? I am so afraid of being abandoned all over again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - So devastated I can't eat, or sleep, am an absolute mess. Suppose you're in a relationship with a divorced man... His ex-wife is aware of your relationship, and she harbors hatred and spite towards you... they get on well and see each other ...

I am in love with my good friend and he knows this. But he is not yet available. How can I deal with the despair I feel over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I really need advice I am so in love with my good friend and he knows this Last year he confided he was having issues with his girlfriend of 5 years. He said he was really unhappy we got a bit close and kissed twice I was so happy Then he s...

How should we handle this rude and nosy neighbour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Can anyone please off me any advice on how to deal with my competitive and rude neighbour? Basically my husband and i moved to our house about 2 years ago and we get on with all our neighbours but we have 1 particular neighbour who is very ...

My wife wants to be alone with another man before I join them for a threesome

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - I have been married for 4 years, we have 2 kids together. A couple of months ago she wanted to try a threesome (mmf) with one of our friends (a 23 year old guy). it was not that bad, but its like it has been going on every month. Today she aske...

I think my husband might be cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I just want to hear other thoughts to my husbands actions. Ok in december 2012 my husband was supposed to be at a certain place getting fencing post for a friends farm. ok so when he got home i noticed he didnt look dirty and i just had that fee...

I don't know what to do! If I do break up, with the girl I love, how do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - ok so my fiance and I have been dating nearly a year and we've been friends almost like 2 years. We've had ups and downs but for the most part it's been great She's my better half and I love her. Hell she's my fiancé! Anyways she shows me and tel...

Am I with the wrong sign?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I'm a Scorpio and in a relationship with a Virgo. We have been dating for about 5 months now and it’s been fun and kind of romantic. We've known each other since childhood but he decided to tell me he was in love with me during my 17th birthday ...

How do I find the strength to move on from my ex who cheated and lied to me and his abusive GF who has also been very nasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - When I first started dating my boyfriend in college he introduced me to this female classmate of his and the three of us hung out together. Everything was great. Then I started to notice something strange... She and this other girl baked him cook...

Help! My Boyfriend keeps on hanging out with this other girl. Pays no attention to me. Should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Hey so I have a problem as my boyfriend is always hanging out with some other girl. By the way we are all in the same class. I always tell him to hang out with me but he never does. That's why I have kind of moved on from him I don't hang out with...

Please help! How should I act with my friend now that he has said we should just be friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I need some help as im not sure what way i should be acting with a certain fella. Im usually a push over so im not sure if im entitled to be angry in this situation or not. So please read and tell me how i should act now with this person. ...

My BF was still hung up on his ex when we got together and I feel resentful. How can I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - Are breaks in a relationship ever a good idea? Just to give some background: my bf and I have been together ten months. We love each other, we've been honest with each other, we trust each other, and we want to make this relationship wor...

I'm in a LDR and falling for another man. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - I've been with my current BF for more than 2 years, but we've spent more than 1.5 years in LDR. Honestly, it's a torture, but we managed to pull it through and in a couple of months we'll be able to see each other again for good (i'm going back ...

I asked about our relationship status and it comes out that he thinks we should just call ourselves 'friends'! I'm totally heartbroken, should I just say good riddance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a little over a year now and everything seemed to be going well and the relationship was definitely progressing. Because we're long distance however we don't see each other as much as we'd like (but up until this point ...

Dating 2 guys at the same time and I don't want to hurt either of them! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Well am 19 stil with my 1st boyfriend (from 16 and he was 19) we had our ups and down..he was cheating on me while i was loyal to him...we broke up after a year then i met another guy we fell in love ......then my ex came back to me and we dated ...

My wife is interested in a non-intercourse foursome with our best friends!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been happily married for 4 years. No real fights everything is great. We have two beautiful girls together. In the past year and a half we have become extremely good friends with another married couple. My wife and the woman ...

EX and my BF are friends which is becoming crowded

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4283 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - So, I'm in a LDR and I have been for almost a year with a guy that I'm really in love with. My only problem is that he spends a lot of time with his ex, and she's been his friend before and after their relationship, but after they broke up, they ...

I cheated with my housemate but didn't know how to break up with my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I realized that I'm unhappy about a year ago, at the beginning of this year I moved into a house with a whole bunch of students because I started college. I started falling for one of the guys I stay ...

Is it reasonable for me to tell my wife to stop kissing other men on the lips?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (M) - I really do not like it when other men kiss my wife on the lips. These are friends - just 2 or so. They do it as a greeting, when, for example, we first meet up for the night, and then again when we say good bye. I am fairly certain it has nothing ...

I am his Gf yet he treats me like the other woman. Should I end this relationship? Worse, he's also started being mean to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I need some sort of advice, i been driving myself crazy going over and over this issue in my head. I am single no kids never been married. I been dating this man for 3 years things were great as any relationship it has its up and downs. Some of h...

He never told me had a Gf, but I found out. Then he claimed he broke up with her. Based on his actions has he returned to his Gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4291 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I’m a varsity student and sometime last year I met this guy who is about four years older than me. I found him very nice and funny. We went out on a few dates and he came to visit me a lot. When we went back to school he told me that he had a gi...

What can I do? I Slept with BF's best friend, broke up with BF, but still can't stop thinking about his best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Hi everyone I've now found myself in this awkward predicament, please give me some advice. Three months ago I made a huge mistake. I cheated on my now ex-boyfriend with our mutual male best friend. The friend and I have always had a close rel...

I loved the first brother, but he disappeared and has just now returned. Meanwhile I fell in love with his brother. Should I walk away from both of them?

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24 March 2013 (F) - I'm in a very sticky situation and I don't know what to do! I was dating this guy(let's call him “X”)for 6 years I met his family, and he proposed one fine day and we were going to get married, but then all of a sudden “X” decides to distance...

Why would my man choose to have fake Facebook pages? He gets angry with me. I'm troubled by why he does this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - My husband and I just got married last year but we had a long relationship before that. We are expecting our first child and everything seems to be great. The only thing I just can’t understand about him is that he keeps having fake Facebook acc...

Who do I choose, my current boyfriend or my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for a long time now almost a year n a half so i have an ex who is currently back in town. He is demanding to be back with me nevertheless i have moved on he is telling me that he does not care wether i make him ...

Is feeling unsure, after taking back a cheater, a normal response? Could he still be cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years. In the last year he asked me twice to marry him, after I said yes, he asked me 2 time to run off and get married in December last year and last month. However this month I found out he was cheating ...

Attractive young woman got drunk, made overt moves on me and kissed my wife. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

19 March 2013 (M) - TLDR; Attractive young woman got drunk, made overt moves on me and kissed my wife. What to do? This past weekend, my wife and I attended a party with a few friends as we try to do every other weekend. There has been a recent addition to ou...

I'm really falling for him again, but the problem is that he is still with his girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

19 March 2013 (F) - Hi! So this is a very long story about and old crush. In 2009 I met this guy and I totally crushed on him for about 2 years in total. I never told him how I felt, but we were both really great friends. He once asked me out but I took at as a j...

What is the appeal of threesomes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

17 March 2013 (M) - My girlfriend of over a year (who I am very close to) suggested that we have a threesome and I declined immediately. We have wonderful sexual experience together. The thought of another guy even touching and kissing her in the bedroom physically ...

My boyfriend wants to rent the living room at a female friend's and I don't trust her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

17 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have almost been together 3 years. We've had our ups and downs numerous times but we love each other very much. I will do anything to be with him for the rest of my life. But now, we have yet another problem that I'm having an ...

Things were getting serious -- until her ex FWB introduced himself

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

16 March 2013 (?) - Dear Cupid I have been dating a great women for three years and we are making plans to buy a house move in with each other and open joint savings and cheque accounts. We have been open with each other and neither of us have any skeletons in our ...

I'd like to tone down the sexual tension so that I can keep the friendship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

16 March 2013 (F) - my question is about the sexual tension between my best friend and myself. back when we first met, we crushed on each other , then as we attempted dating, it was rather fail, and we decided we'd just be friends, over time, we've grown closer. Our ...

Wife re-added her ex-boyfriend on facebook. What does it mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

16 March 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, I would just like to know that what you guys make of when a wife adds her ex-boyfriend on birthday that some boyfriend that she used to say was not a good person and deleted him and now re-adding him saying he is a nice guy? When ...

Is there some way for me to be with both of them? She is the girl of my dreams. But now I have fallen in love with a guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

13 March 2013 (M) - I have been in a relationship with the girl of my Dreams and i love her so much. But i met a guy that i have also fallen head over heels for him. What should i do? I love them both so much. Is there some way for me to be with both of them?...

My wife is happier than she has been in years. But does her (male) co-worker need to be soooooo close to my wife? I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

13 March 2013 (M) - About a year ago my wife was disheartened because all her friends we're either pregnant or had kids and we we're not ready yet. She sort of had a mid-life crisis and befriended a co-worker who could talk to her. Since then they have become really c...

I have a crush on the car mechanic. But is he over me? I thought things were going well, but now he seems to prefer to speak to my mother.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

12 March 2013 (F) - What do I do. I'm in love with my mechanic and I need help, I'm in my late 20s and never been in a serious relationship. I have fancied a few boys but never one like this, everyday I think about him, I crave there to be something wrong with my ca...

Help! I need some support and advice about the actions and behaviour my boyfriend's sister. Is something going on or am I too suspicious?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

12 March 2013 (F) - I started dating my boyfriend (age 21) around 5 months ago. At this point, his sister (age 24), lived with his parents and he lived out of home. Within the first months of dating, his sister's behaviour was a litle questionable, and quite frankl...

Why do I always want the ex that I don't have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

11 March 2013 (M) - Got a problem and i have no idea why i cant deal with it. So I've just got back with my ex(2), we broke up maybe a year ago but now i cant seem to get over the fact my most recent ex(1) is happy without me and i seem drawn to her again. Howeve...

Is this normal? I feel less able to stand up for myself because my Bf always likes to be right. Plus I'm insecure about this girl flirting with him. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

11 March 2013 (F) - Hi ive been with my boyfriend for 8 months. I don't know whether im definitely happy with him, but he's always saying he loves me and wants to marry me an how i'm his soulmate and hes been saying these things since we started going out! He seems...

My husband's friendship with a co-worker has escalated. Now that I know he wants to still stay friends with her. I said no. Am I wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

11 March 2013 (F) - My husband's friendship with a co-worker has escalated to kissing and pet names and intimate vocabulary via emails. We recently became friends as couples and have enjoy their company on a few occasions. Upon noticing unusual private conversa...

Girl who came into my bar has left me a bit messed up. I rejected her advances because I'm in a relationship. But what should I do if she returns?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

11 March 2013 (M) - About three/four months ago a girl and her party of friends walked into the bar, I was working at in Boston. Late into the evening, two of her male college friends approached me and informed me that she liked me, much to my colleague’s disappoi...

After we broke up he may have made another girl pregnant. We are back together but how do I cope if he's the father?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

11 March 2013 (F) - So my ex and I broke up a few months ago and now were trying to start over. But a girl he slept with is pregnant and it's a possibility it's his. She married and has a kid with someone else but it still could be my exes. How do I deal with this ...

I finally told her how much I like her. How do I deal with my feelings for her? And what do I do now I’ve told her???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4304 days ago

10 March 2013 (M) - I know this girl, who tells me I’m one of her best friends in the world. I'd do everything and anything for her. I have done everything for her. Whatever she needs, whenever she needs it, I’ve been there. I've never had any kind of romantic feel...

My boyfriend seems willing to jeopardize our future to play counsellor to his ex wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

9 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years divorced 8 years ago. The ex wife remarried and now is fighting with the current husband, her third, and it looks like divorce again. She is phoning my boyfriend up and telling him all the detail and crying on his shou...

Does this woman really want to be with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

9 March 2013 (M) - Ok, so here's the deal. It's very difficult for me to write about this, but I am in desperate need of some impartial view of the whole situation. I've been seeing this girl for the last five months, almost on a daily basis. Every time we are toge...