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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

My friend stuck her used vibrator in my boyfriend's face

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - So recently ive found myself in a strange situation and its one i never thought i would expect to deal with in a relationship and i truly hope no woman ever has to deal with this. I know your all thinking you boyfriend cheated on you. Wrong. So it ...

My girlfriend's past threesome never bothered me before but now it does

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for about a year now. She told me about 6 months ago that she had been involved in a threesome. It'd happened about 15 years ago. It honestly didn't really bother me at all. I know girls experiment and everything and it ...

Our trio has become a duo and I'm the odd man out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - Evening folks, So, about two years ago, I went to this night school and I got on well with two other people. So well in fact, that even up to now, we're still close friends - and always meeting up together and stuff. However, as is expected with...

My girlfriend wants me to meet her online friend from England

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - Hello guys. I ve seen from my GF`s FB page that she sent a message to this guy from England (whom she's never met in person) asking him if hes coming to visit soon and also wrote that its been a long time since they talked. So this guy was introduc...

I don't think my wife loves me anymore, but another woman has taken an interest in me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - Me and my wife have been together for 5 yrs and married for four. we have a child together, she is 2. I have two teenagers that live with us. she does the world for them and me even when I wasn't working, but even when I was working she has been...

I'm married and had an affair with a colleague, but he decided to stay with his GF. I'm so miserable and crushed, and can't face seeing him at work.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I am married 6 years with a young child. 10 months ago I started texting with a guy I work with, who lives with his girlfriend. We had an instant connection and starting texting non stop. We fell in love...always wanting to see eachothe...

Ok I need to get this of my chest why is this girl saying this and talking this stuff about me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - Ok, here it goes my brothers gf is saying that she loves me when she hugs me every time I hug her. It was weird she went to hug me and my brother step in the way of the hug like he did not know that I was going to hug her then she step back like wtf ...

Is this guy just a user?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - When dating a guy for 2years he is laying in bed with me present girl freind a ex girlfreind calls while we are in bed making love.She tells my guy she loves him and he responds back and tells her he loves her to. Then hang up the phone and tells ...

Not sure if it is a good idea to date my ex's housemate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4335 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I feel really stupid asking this question but would it be unfair to date my exs housemate. My ex lives with 4 other lads one of the others parents rented houses. They have lived together 2 years and i was with my ex 1 1/2 years. Anyway we have been ...

How can I get this girl who fancies my boyfriend to back off? She's stirring between us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - Hey guys what should I do about this girl... Me and my bf have been together for 6 months now and we are becoming serious but there's this girl who fancies my bf, but my bf likes as a mate but said he would never date her. She isn't very attra...

She's making catty remarks about me. Do I ignore her? Or involve the guy we both may have a crush on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - this girl might like this guy I might have a crush on. I know he used to like me but I think he likes her now though I don't know for sure. He may even like Both of us. Anyways this girl is rude to me making catty/smart comments most of the time...

Feeling overshadowed by this new girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - Hi guys, I hope someone out there can help me out as I am feeling pretty stuck on this situation. I have met a lovely guy recently who I really feel I can connect with as we seem to get on so well like a house on fire and we share common interest...

A wife, another woman who I love, and kids with both. Tell me how I can fix this situation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - hi there I am 33 years old man and I have been married for 4 years now but been together for 10 years and we also do not have sex my wife treats this like a job. half a year into being married I started having an affair with a woman but only for fun ...

Did I make the wrong decision by not giving my ex a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - Long story short, I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 and a half years about 4 months ago. I had felt that he didnt have enough respect for me. we had almost no sex life and he didnt want to marry me , which i had come to terms with over a few months. ...

Was I justified to walk away from a man who would not commit? I'm finding it hard to move on.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - Hi all. Just two weeks ago I ended a relationship with a man I had deep feelings for. He was not willing to commit to me. He and I were seeing each other for a year but he broke it off and started seeing someone else. All the while, he contin...

Is he just playing games with me? He denies, to others, that he still likes me. He claims to think of me sexually, still.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - My ex and i had had the longest conversation recently, since we broke up. Word got around that he likes this other girl now. But he told me how he still has had sexual thoughts for me, not her, but me. I questioned why me instead of her. He told...

Married in 1975 and then in 2011 he cheated. He blames me for the break-up. Could we ever get back together?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - my husband and i met when we were 16 and 17 he was my only boyfriend. We married in 1975 and been married for 37 years. In June 2011 he did something unusual that he never did before it was only a phone call to me and said he had rang the wro...

LDR: Attention seeker? Hypochondriac? Or really sick? Cheated in the past. Am I wasting my time with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - I've been dating this girl for a while now. Today makes it 5 months. She's in a different country from me, so there's the first problem of distance. However, we try to overcome it. First of all, I found out she had sex with a friend of mine, ...

Is it only me who gets upset that some people cheat, and then want to keep that fact a secret from their partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - Some Posters seem to be condoneing cheaters and ex promiscus people. Why do people think that its ok to lie to their husbands or wifes??? I just read where one agony aunt said "don't beat yourself up over it you just felt a connection so yo...

Unfaithful in my marriage. Why did I do this? Can I keep this secret forever?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I have been married for over 20 years and have always been faithful with the exception of one man, twice. I met him 15 years ago at the gym and I was immediately attracted to him but kept it to myself. After a while, we began to talk and before I kn...

Slept with him, but he became a jerk. Broke up. Later slept with his brother. If they know will they both hate me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I know I will be judged for this but I really need help please? I slept with a guy a year ago. After I slept with him, he was a jerk to me and left my life, until recently. However, I recently slept with his brother. Now my ex has just started tal...

The girl I love has a boyfriend and she says she loves us both. She won't choose between us. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4338 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - Basically, I'm just looking for some sort of help or advice. This girl was in love with me a few months ago but I was going through a lot at the time and just declined a relationship with her. We remained good friends and we love and care about each ...

Why is my wife's family and my wife keeping big secrets from me? Why is my wife saying she loves me when clearly saying otherwise to others? what are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - Hello, My wife and I live across a ocean! She is doing her post grad studies back home and I am working in Europe. Two months after I left for work and medical reasons (operation) my wife started seeing some guy. She had told her friends th...

My bf likes to sleep with other people and doesn´t mind if I do either

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - I recently met this guy online who has since told me that he thinks we were made for each other. I was totally into him from the second we first met. We have mind blowing sex and he says he has never loved anyone or anything until he met me. He a...

I've been having an affair for 9 years. I know it's wrong, but how can I break away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Hi all. I love this guy totally but he's married, so am I. Been trying to stop seeing each other for years. We been together 9yrs now. Each time we fail and whenever we do, we desire each other more and get closer. We have great fun, time ...

My boyfriend says he found another girl that gives him happiness. Can I get him back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Have been dating my bf for 3yrs. Recently he started complaining about my attitude, saying am too insecure, demanding, and that he has found another girl that gives him happiness and there is nothing I can do. Truthfully, have been kind of rud...

Torn between my ex and the new guy. What should I do for the best?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - I have been torn between to men now for a few months, but I think I have decided to give my ex another chance since we have has such a long history together and we have children together. But I don't know how to let the other man go, because I feel ...

Is my boyfriend taking advantage of me financially? He also makes me feel insecure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - First of all I'm sorry for the long read I'm guessing this is going to be but I need help in what I should do. I've been with my boyfriend now for a year and well I have basically lived with him for that whole year. I give him £75 a week for rent...

Would he really leave his baby's mother for me? Or is he just telling me what I want to hear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I have been with this guy for seven years and during the process of five years we were facing problematic issues because he was cheating. It happened that he made love with this other gal and she became pregnant, I left this guy immediat...

Am I being a complete fool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a man I'm very much in love with for the past 2-1/2 years. We are both going through a separation however he's a very kind hearted person one of the reasons I love him so much but he also enables his wife quite a ...

Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

Been having an affair. If I don't tell his wife she may be ruining her own life with a cheater!

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I've been having an affair with a man who's wife doesn't currently live with him because of their jobs. I am also not sure he's even married to her yet. They live in two different states. She has decided to keep her job because of seniority and ...

Ended affair last night.What can I do? Is there any point in hoping she could leave him? Or was I just played by her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

24 December 2012 (M) - I have no one else to talk to. For past year I have been in affair with coworker. Last summer we agreed that we will leave our partners and be together. I did it, she did not so I went NC for next two months. This autumn she started chasi...

Is it time for me to step back and find a job elsewhere? My married boss flirts with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - Happy Holidays ! This guy that I have known now for three months already is the boss of a company in which I do work at. He claims to be married but I don 't think so I think it's more like common- law. We are flirting back and forward with e...

What could I have done better? How to proceed from now on? advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - I need some advice ok. I've been married for four years and we fought off and on and we have 3 children together. Four months ago my husband said he was going for a walk but never came back. Three days later I found out he left me for another wome...

My ex wants to marry me, but I now have a child with another man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - I am a fe male of 22 years old.I dated my ex for about 7 years and during that period of seven years we have been breaking up and we were managing resolve our issues,2 years back i met this other guy which i dated for three years and now we have a ...

How can I help? What can my Girl friend do about her obsessed ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - My girlfriends has an obsessed man who just refuses to leave her alone he keeps texting her and she can't change because her number is on her C.Vs that she has given in Her mother has passed away recently and today is her burial,I could not attend...

What you do if your BF and ex wanted both wanted to marry you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - If you were a gal and you had a child and both your baby's father and your ex boyfriend wanted to marry you, and you loved both of them, then,what would you do?...

I am totally into him. And he's leaving for abroad in January. But has he just pranked and punked me? Was he never into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - the whole story began in february. actually we had holidays but i did an extra uni course and stayed at the student's dormitory and so did some other students... there was my neighbour who is single. he came over to watch tv and chat a few times...

What do I do? Who do I choose? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I have a dating problem. I'm 16 years old and I've been dating this guy and have been for 7 months. The problem is that I like another guy who lives on the block down from me. We've known each other for seven years and I've liked him for quite ...

He flirts with me, is buying me a Christmas present. But he's with another girl. What to do about my huge crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4343 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I don't know how to put it into words! Erm well it's nearly Christmas and I like this boy and he likes me back. I went out with him once for like a week about 1 month ago but I broke up with him because this other girl who liked him started thre...

Should I confront my wife or am I being paranoid about her possibly chatting with other men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - We have been married for 5 years. Unfortunately live in seperate locations because of work(different continents !) We are committed to getting back together physically in a few months(move work location). My predicament is this, i believe she ...

Why are married men drawn to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I really have the hots for this guy that works at my place of business but he is married well actually the both of us are really feeling each other. I know this is wrong but why does this happen to me? it's seems like I attract men that are taken an...

How can I get my obsessed ex to leave me alone? He's not interested in his son, only me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4345 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - My child's father is obsessed with me he refuses to leave me alone I'm with somebody else now but my child's father refuses to leave me alone,his always calling me and I don't answer his calls he would text me. He is not worried about our son,my...

I reached out to the friend with whom my husband cheated and I'm afraid it might backfire

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I will start at the very beginning, my husband and I have been together since I was 13 and he was 15. We were each others one and only for a very long time. When I was 20 I cheated on him, knew it was wrong came clean within a month and it was...

Why is he still lying? Yet begging to resume our relationship? Will he change or continue to go on dating sites if we get back together?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

20 December 2012 (F) - I dumped my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago for going on dating sites and sex texting with girls. He could not even explain who these girls were, so I assumed they were from dating sites. He is still lying and says he never went on those dating s...

My wife cheated on me with another woman. How can I attempt to start working out our marriage issues together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

20 December 2012 (M) - I have been away from my wife for 3 years now. we were together for 10 great years i thought. She had two kids before i met her, then we had a child to together. We had rough times here and there. From when we lost the house in a flood to losing...

My best friend has ditched me for a girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

20 December 2012 (M) - So I don't see many guys emailing with this problem so here goes. I've recently come extremely distant from my best mate. In fact alot of people "we" know don't even see him anymore. Since hes got this new gf hes changed so much and he doesn't seem ...

My boyfriend says he is 50% happy with me but I don't satisfy him sexually like his ex did. Should I have a threesome with them to make him happy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - I purposed an idea to my boyfriend a couple of days ago. The idea having a threesome with him and his ex. Sounds bizarre, good thing I slept on it and really thought about how it will impact the relationship and everyone involved lives. Question ...

Broke ex, or well-off baby daddy or neither of them? Help me choose!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

18 December 2012 (F) - I am more confused now more than ever, I split up with the one guy who kept asking for money and he did pay me back and said he was sorry that he shouldn't have done that and that he truly loves me and wants to work things out but they are still ...