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writes:I have been with this guy for seven years and during the process of five years we were facing problematic issues because he was cheating.It happened that he made love with this other gal and she became pregnant, I left this guy immediately when I heard about that. It happened that 2 years later we got back together again.Three years ago I met another guy while I was still dating him and decided to end the earlier relationship with him.I became very close with this new guy and we also ended up having a baby together.Then our relationship didn’t go too well and it happened that I met my ex and he wants to marry me I don’t have a problem with that, but my question and problem is would she leave his baby's mother for me?? Because his family loves her so much but he say he doesn’t want to spend his life with her.He says he does not care that how his parents take this thing of marrying meplease respond I really need help on this*
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (25 December 2012):
I have to agree with sageoldguys answer, it is a very mature and well thought out suggestion, especially as kids are involved and their welfare come first. good luck.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (25 December 2012):
 I'm reading a story (your submittal) of two people who are not only unawares of what "committment" really means... but who prefer to remain blind to the fact that fathering children is a little more complex than going to the grocery store for a loaf of bread ......
I suggest that neither of you make any changes in your life/love status for AT LEAST six months. At the end of six months (That's about June 25th, 2013) pull up this submittal and print out a copy and SHARE it (the copy) with your man-friend and the (second) girl, who is raising his child.... AND any guys that you have begun fooling around with, in the meantime....
Schedule an entire evening of meeting and discussing what has - and will - happen amongst you... and see if you (all) can come up with some adult way to continue with your lives...
Good luck....
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