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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

To threesome or not to threesome...mature answers only please!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years now. Recently, we've hit a few rough patches and I'm trying to spice up and revive our relationship. One of his fantasies is to have a threesome with a woman that neither one of us ...

Huge strain on our relationship because BF still talks to his ex and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4884 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hi my name is Mila, I am in a relationship and I am not sure what to do. In January I started talking to a guy in my college, I had seen him before but did not think much of it. After the first day of talking to him he seemed like a good guy ...

Questions regarding a threesome...

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

30 June 2011 (?) - My boyfriend really wants a threesome. It will be me and him (obviously) and one of his friends, who is male. I have told him i wasnt interested but he is kinda talking me into it. however i do need some questions asking. Is it a good idea to be ha...

AM I OVER REACTING, OR AM I RIGHT TO BE WORRIED?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - My partner of 5 years child and ex husband are going overseas for 4 weeks. For the first time ever she has gone over twice this week to iron his clothes as she want to help them prepare. she and her ex after years of not really getting on , now ...

He is cheating on his new girlfriend with me, I just want him to hurry up and dump her so we can be back together again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Boyfriend and I just broke up about 2 months ago due to some just plain unfortunate stuff. Were living together over a year, dating quite a long time. Had to move out and to my mum's far away. Ended up leaving on good terms, and with mutual wants to ...

Should I persue this guy, or stick with my long-time boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I was drunk and met a guy that I felt very strong feelings for, but I have a boyfriend of 2 years. Should I hang out with this guy again just to see if I really do have feelings for him and it wasn't the the booze talking, or should I not let it get ...

Does it sound like my BF cheated on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - This girl told me my boyfriend had cheated on me with her in her car. He denied every bit of it (there has been several rumors of him cheating) so I told him to call the girl in front of me so I know he wasn't lying, well he refused to do that. ...

I felt ditched and now I'm angry

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - so this will be a simple and basic question. I was at the beach with my friend, she said she was on her period I guess as a way to justify being mean to me? is that fair? I was saying I want to leave this club because it wasn't fun anymore but she ...

Crush or boyfriend? They are both best friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Ok so I need some help. I was dating this guy for almost two months then i broke up with him because i kinda have trust issues, since I was really young. Well we broke up for like three days then I went back to him because I really liked him still. ...

Are they just friends or am I being played like a fool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hello everyone! My BF of 1 1/2yrs has a "friend" at work. She is married and has 2 small kids. She texts my BF all the time, calls him all the time and even has a pet name for him. I have stressed to my BF that i dont like it and his response is ...

Are his friends more important or am I over reacting ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hello, Where do I even start? me and my bf have been going out for 9 months. he has just moved flat and now stays with two guys from his uni - one guy of which, i have a dislike towards sometimes as my bf has ditched me before for him and also...

Can you be a FWB with an Ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I'm 18 and still friends with my ex. She recently dated a much older guy [in his twenties] and split with him, although they still sleep together for the fun. She is a very open person, and before we dated, she was keen on casual activity. I want to ...

I love my kickboxing teacher but he has a girlfriend, what can I do to get more of his attention?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I really like my kickboxing teacher he is really fit and dreamy he always laughing with me and hugs me a lot which i love. i defo love him but he has a young girlfriend, so does he love me and what can i do to get more of his attention ? X ...

BF was turned on by FWB idea. He insists nothing but I can't get it out of my head. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Hello. I desperately need to get this out my mind..so please bear with me. I'm having a LDR with my bf of 3 months. This is the third month and we're talking about one of his friend. Iasked my bf is his friend is seeing someone ? He said.. he g...

A threesome that went bad. Is b/f blaming me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has been asking to have been wanting to have a 3some for the last 7 months. One with a girl and one with a boy. He have been talking about this female who would like to. But she was concern if I was sexually attracted to her. So we ...

I am in a great relationship, but have met someone else who is amazing, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - I've been in a successful relationship for almost 2 years. It's been perfect, we both love each other dearly, we spend more than 5 hours daily together (be it physically (when possible) or via phone, skpy, etc.). Honestly, it's even better than ...

I like a guy but my best friend loves him too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - I like a guy but my best friend loves him too, he liked my best friend before but now he says he love me again. But he don't know that I love him because I do not want my best friend learn that and the guy once told me on facebook ' I'm gonna try ...

What is wrong with me? Two months now. Will I ever get over my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - What is wrong with me? when will I get better? I loved my ex boyfriend so much. He was so nice and sweet. I was so happy with him. But he broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship. Two months later he rang me saying he wants us to be f...

Is my gf still in love with her ex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

25 June 2011 (M) - I can't stop thinking my gf is still in love with her ex. They were together for like 3 years. She tells me she's not and that she loves me but she has told me she wants me to meet him (wtf--why?) And I said I didn't want to. She hung out with him ...

Husband cheated on me with 2 girls and has babies with both, but refuses to leave me. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - Hello, I have a question. I have been with my husband 11 years. We have 2 kids. I just found out at the end of the year he has cheated on me twice and has two kids with two different girls. I feel betrayed and don't know what to do. I don't know if ...

How did I get myself into this? My dream girl on one side and my GF and kids on the other side!1

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

25 June 2011 (M) - I'm currently in a 7 year long relationship w/ kids but here goes I met this girl on fb started to chat, she didnt look too good but was funny and was making lots of sexual innuendo and she caught my eye at some point. I invited her to the beach an...

Should I leave my current bf, who bores me a little, for this new guy, whom my friends also likes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - Dear cupid Ok well I'm 19 now and my bf and i got together at a club. We met twice before that and he's friends with lots of my friends. When at the club he kissed me. I was slightly drunk but i sort of knew the situation. I was having trouble w...

I just found out the guy my wife lost her viginity to had a bigger penis

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - hi just found out the guy my wife lost her virginty to was my 2nd cousin after 22 years of married life when she blurted out his name by mistake i asked her his name and found out he had a bigger penis and said she was sorry had i known this i would ...

A complicated love triangle! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - Hi. I'd been best friends with him for awhile and then started to like him. I told him I liked him. He said he liked another girl. Then a month later he stopped liking her. He came over to my house and we made out a few times. In a couple of ...

I am really torn because I don't want to stop the affair but I am also afraid of moving forward.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I really need some help. I am a married man with a young child. For the past six months, I have been friends with a woman in our circle of friends whom I am very attracted to. We have flirted and it is clear that we have a connecti...

Torn between two lovers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - I'm in love with two men. The other one is my ex boyfriend (Jan) and the other is my friend (Matthew). Jan just broke up with me recently this month. He actually broke up with me twice for two consecutive days. He broke up with me because he is so ...

He has been cheating the entire time with a girl online! Should I break up with him? Or forgive him and trust that he wants me, not her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - Totally shattered. Please read - I have been with my boyfriend since one year. All the relationships I've been in before, the guys cheated on me. I was emotionally vulnerable when I met my present boyfriend, we had common friends. Both of us a...

Is there something going on with this so called friend of his? I made fun of her on Facebook and now my boyfriend is mad, should I take all the blame?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - There is this girl that I hate very much... I met her a year ago in not so pleasant incident. She is a friend of my bf but it all started when I found out that she has been flirting with my bf for a long time and I wasn't aware of it. Early last ...

My girl slept with my brother before we met,should I be angry?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

23 June 2011 (M) - I just found out that my brother had sex with my gf of 1 1/2 yrs, it happened before we were together but I'm really pissed at them for not telling me. I knew that they were friends (thats how I met her) but I think he should have told me before we ...

I slept with another guy while my boyfriend was away, do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has been away on a business trip for 3 months now.He has not been contributing to us finacialy,we have an eleven month old son.I have asked him for help,all he does is tell me stories,am realy upset with him.I dont even know if i still ...

I don't want to be his temptation anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - Hey guys, im 14 and im having a bit of a problem. theres this guy i like alot, hes all i think about. hes really sweet and stuff. he likes me too. and hes said that he is temped to kiss me, but he refrais because he has a girl friend. he dosent like ...

I feel like I came between them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - Its been about two months..Im in relationship with my bf..but we were very close friends from about two years.. He had an ex who is now our good frn..I never had any problem with their friendship..bt nowadays I feel insecure coz she still likes him ...

Does he still want to be involved with his ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - What if your boyfriend keeps liking the facebook status of his ex-girlfriend knowing that the status is for him? Does it mean he isnt over his ex and still likes her??...

My boyfriend wants me to have a threesome with another guy! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - i am an asian girl,my bf is western,he's always feel proud of that i am his girl,he said i can make every man horny as he said i am a very sweet girl which i never notice.i really don't care they are horny or not,but recently he seduced me to have a ...

Not sure how to proceed with this girl....she is in a relationship with my friend but I get the feeling she likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

23 June 2011 (M) - hi guys im i a real mess and im sorry if i ramble on but please help. i'll start off with my mum and dad are splitting up and it only just hit me yesturday when my mum phoned me at mny friends party. i have been down about it all day today. ri...

Helpless in love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - Hello, Well it was 2 years back when me and my boyfriend met. We were in love. After 3 months he told me he can not be with me coz his dad got to know about us and he can not go against his parents. He asked me to leave him and live without him. I t...

Should I ask my brother if there is anything going on with him and my girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

23 June 2011 (M) - I kind a have 2 questions , so I'll start at the beginning: My younger brother(19) has always been best friends with a girl "katie".They met each other in elementary school. Katie and I started dating dec 2009. My brother was cool with it, th...

I'm not usually one to break up families, but I can't help the way I feel about him.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - I've got a bit of a dilemma and would really like some advice. I've fallen in love with a man who is already in a relationship with another woman. He said he loves me too, but the only problem is, is that he lives in Wales, and I live in England....

How do I get over a 4 year love affair?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - I am so glad I came across this site. I need some suggestions on how to get over my lover. I am a married woman with no children and I have been having an affair with a married man for 4 years. His wife has just found out due to some old emails a...

I daren't tell him I like him because I don't want to look stupid. Also, he already expressed that he wasn't interested in a relationship! So if nothing is going to happen, then is there any point in me even telling him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - Hello Dearcupids :-) I need some guidance on a situation, don't really know what is going on. There's a guy who recently started paying a lot of attention to me. Initially, we didn't really talk much but i'd often notice him staring at me du...

He is bisexual and chose a heterosexual life with me but is missing out and even brought up the subjects of threesomes.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - We've been together for 11 years and have a beautiful daughter together we both adore and cherish. He's a Bisexual man who has chosen a heterosexual life with me. But I fear he is missing his bi lifestyle. recently he's brought up the subjects of ...

Does my friend's girlfriend like me? Does she want to be more than friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

21 June 2011 (M) - i used to really like my friends gf. at one point i thought i loved her. were really good friends with each other better friends than i am with her bf. i thought she used to like me cause she always put hello you and things like that on fb when ...

Trouble at home and a new girl has come onto the scene....what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

21 June 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We have a 2 year old son together. We have not been getting along well and she has not turned out to be anything i thought she was. I've found that she drinks alot, started smoking, and has been smoking ...

My ex is getting in the way of a potential relationship with my crush, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - Hello, I'm 18, and 'm confused. Recently, I had a crush on this junior(J) . However, we are not that close and I don't know how to approach him about it. It doesn't help that my ex boyfriend (X), who's 3 years my senior wants to get back togethe...

Pot Head GF choosing weed over me. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

21 June 2011 (M) - ok so ive been going out with my girlfriend for about 5 months now. she has a problem with smoking weed. it is to the point of addiction and don't tell me otherwise because ive seen it ruin peoples lives. i have talked to her three times about this ...

Her friend texts me to stay out of my GF's life. Now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - Me and my gf just broke up and it's killing me badly. We dated for 15 months and it's killing me so badly. I suffer from manic depression and I'm dealing with counseling and medication. I do things out of my control sometimes and I ...

BF spending lots of time helping ex-wife during her cancer. Where should I draw the line?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

20 June 2011 (F) - hi everyone , well i ve been wit my boyfriend 5 yers now , things were going well up untill his ex wife caught cancer . now it feels like he s more interested in her an wants to help her out an is running up an down to hospitals , he also has two ...

I'm going crazy thinking that my boyfriend is cheating on me. Is he??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

20 June 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2.5 years and we live together. There has been no change in his behaviour or mood towards me which would make me suspect anything is wrong. Just a few weeks ago, he was showing me an email from a family member ...

She wants to be friends but I like her; what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 June 2011 (M) - I need to move on and fast because I love my neighbor but she loves me as a brother and since we live a minute away from each other I want to stay friends but its hard because I have feelings for her. Yesterday was terrible I was staying with her ...

What am I to him? Why did he lie about having a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

20 June 2011 (F) - I am super confused and i need relationship advice now so here is my scenario: I recently started going to a new high-school and i met a new guy. I have never been the dating type so i was a little skeptical at first. We kept our distance from e...