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*herryblossommieko
writes:Me and my gf just broke up and it's killing me badly. We dated for 15 months and it's killing me so badly. I suffer from manic depression and I'm dealing with counseling and medication. I do things out of my control sometimes and I always screw up friendships. Today we had a bad argumennt and her friend text me telling me to stay out her life and called me a bitch. It hurt my feelings so bad and I'm just on the edge. What do I do?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (21 June 2011):
 No worries darling glad to help! i hope everything works out!! x
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reader, cherryblossommieko +, writes (21 June 2011):
cherryblossommieko is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you so much. It got me thinking & I do feel alot better now. We talked it out & came to a conclusion.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (21 June 2011):
Im really sorry to hear about your break up, you suffer from the same illness as my girlfriends does so im no expert but i know a bit about it.
Does you ex and friends know about your illness, if not you should tell them as it will make things more understandable to them.
If they do, do they actually understand it and understand why you act in certain ways, that was my issue at first, although i knew my girlfriend had it i really didnt understand what it was so thereofore didnt make the exceptions and other things that i needed to do to help.
Now as upsetting as a break up is, you cant let it ruin all the hard work you have put into yourself with the councelling and medication, as hard as a break up is it does not make you less of a person or change anything about you, many peoples relationships fail it is not a reflextion on them.
If you and your ex are still argueing that is not healthy for you, so maybe for the time being you should not speak to her unless you can be sure it wont end up updetting you. you should try and surround yourself with good supportive friends and family who are a positive influence on you and help you feel up.
If you start to feel really low or you feel like you are getting to down please feel free to drop me an email and im sure my gf would love to chat with you as you are both in the same boat with the depression.
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