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writes:so this will be a simple and basic question. I was at the beach with my friend, she said she was on her period I guess as a way to justify being mean to me? is that fair? I was saying I want to leave this club because it wasn't fun anymore but she was having fun. The problem was here I told her we were going I was the one driving and my other friend didn't have a problem leaving. The next day she seemed fine again and actually that night I saw her naked for the first time cause we went skinny dipping. So after leaving the club I thought everything was fine. I have already found my biggest problem is having fun, I make a lot of things into a competition or go out with the attitude to get in a fight. I already know this is a problem but have heard lifting weights increases testosterone and that can give people an ego or the mentality that they are tuff shit. My aggression sometimes helps to find a girl but not much else. I am not mean to girls period! just making that clear but when a girl I like hangs out or invites me to do something and she meets a guy that bothers me. I know if she doesn't like me thats w/e but the way I see it is don't invite me to something then ditch me because you met a new guy. Is that at least a fair thing to ask for? Next if this guy isn't a good guy I become hostile towards him, and not much will stop me from making it clear that I don't like someone especially if he is no good for her. Now here is the problem she is a player so Im done with her for good. One day its this guy the next its someone else. So thats not cool I don't care who you are your not worth all the BS to be worth it. So ill try and sum everything up. I don't like hanging out with guys that a girl meets cause that gets me nothing. Im not gonna be a dick unless they are not a good person then all bets are off. Is it alright that I feel like I was ditched because she invited me to hang out with her then hangs out with this new guy more than me. I felt trapped so I left. hopefully thats not too confusing and sorry if it is. I just didn't know how else to write it.
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reader, Partyboy123  +, writes (29 June 2011):
 Hey,I do not blame you one bit, you have feelings for her, and when a "jerk" comes along, you don't like them because you want the best for her. If she is a player, and does these things, and they are hurting you, then don't hangout with her, lose her number, email, don't bother with her if it's going to hurt you. YOU don't need to be UNHAPPY!Hope i helped!
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