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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Its been about two months..Im in relationship with my bf..but we were very close friends from about two years.. He had an ex who is now our good frn..I never had any problem with their friendship..bt nowadays I feel insecure coz she still likes him and they hang out together alot.. She always tries to get his attention..even his frns know her and talk to her bt they dont know me... He cares for her.. I feel like I came between them..I said this to him bt he says its not like that..and he loves me..I dont know what should I do..I love him so...much and dont want to lose him.. I am afraid if he will leave me...
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (25 June 2011):
HI
If you keep feeling insecure about the whole situation. then sit your partner down an tell him how uncomfortable its making you feel. I wouldn't like an ex hanging round my partner either friend or not, they were an ex for a reason, staying amicable yeah, but hanging out and all paly with his friends too is enough to make any women insecure. But if he wont understand your feelings on this, then I would concider a seperation, for your own sanity. xx
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