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writes:My partner of 5 years child and ex husband are going overseas for 4 weeks. For the first time ever she has gone over twice this week to iron his clothes as she want to help them prepare. she and her ex after years of not really getting on , now get on well since he met a woman he really liked but this woman now wants to be friends. He still likes her though. My partner has been giving him advise on how to win this woman over.She is going again tonight to help pack and iron as they leave tomorrow. She never really asked me to go over. The child lives with his father.I asked her this morning what he ex said about her going over and she replied he ex was asking if i was ok with her going to do their ironing.She has suffered from sever guilt for the first three years and has been better lately, especially since he found this friend/potential partner. He always wanted her back until he found this other woman and was even giving us his blessing.Now that this woman just wants to be friends with her ex then the door is again open for him to want my partner back, especially as they are on good speaking terms etc
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reader, Aquarian64 +, writes (12 July 2011):
Aquarian64 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, she did leave for me. She has gone back to him two times over the years on short occassions and come back, once after two days and once after 10 days.
So, yes i am insecure.
Now they chat and get on well. He always wanted her back until this other woman. Now this other woman is not interested in him so he will want ex wife back as the child is with the father and my partner can go over and help when she likes
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2011): Did she leave her husband and child for you?
Just wondered what was making you feel insecure
When the ex met someone it meant that your partner could relax knowing he was finally interested in another woman / women - meanig he was over her and that they could be just friends at last.
As for doing the ironing for them before their trip - its probably a relief to be able to do something caring for her son - before he goes away for 4 weeks with his dad
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