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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

My best friend has cut me out of his life and I am heartbroken! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Ok to cut a long story short, me and my friend have been very close for 3 years, there has been laughter/heartbreak/anger/passion everything, I fell for him and he didn't feel the same so he stopped talking to me because he didn't want to hurt me, ...

Married and feeling attracted to the 19-year-old I'm teaching karate to!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I am a 33 year old male.(most people say i look 25). I am married for three years and she is 25. I have just gone back to uni. I recently started teaching a 19 year old woman karate privately. She is absolutely fantastic, and not your average ...

In love with two women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I never thought I would go through this, especially not now, but I'm in love with two people, two women. I met this wonderful girl a couple of months ago, we see each other almost everyday and it's always great. I trust her completely and she trusts ...

I'm not happy with my boyfriend and have feelings for his best friend, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I like my boyfriends friend and I don't know what to do? So here it goes this story may be long, crazy and strange. and please don't be rude believe me i already feel weird enough... okay so i have been with my bf for 2yrs (we will call him bo...

Is he using me or her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - my ex and i are split up for about 7 month now. He go a new girlfriend that stays with him. But call me in the night, wanting me to go to his place when she is not there, we still sleep together is he using me or her? I still love him what do i do? ...

Why did my married lover walk away from me? There are so many questions left unanswered!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm newbie here. Anyways, I just wanted to share my story, a story which I held it for a long time since I don't have no one to talk to..This is gonna be a long one, but i'll try to make it short as much as I can. I hope you guys will understand ...

What do you think that I should do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - 2 years ago, I met a boy and we fell in love with each other immediately. Everyone could see that we felt something for each other. It was like a fairy tale. He was very shy and he kept his eyes only on me. We have never seen eachother anymore ...

In a working relationship, have a major crush on another girl.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - I've been dating this great girl for almost 6 months now. However, I've now met someone who I'm pretty sure would be a better match for me in many ways. I have a major crush on her. I don't have any particular issues with my current girlfrie...

I'm feeling very uneasy about this "friend" wanting to stay with my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both Actors and a few months ago he went away for 11 days to film. Whilst he was there he made a few friends but got very close with this one girl because of various divisions in the group. I first got the impression they were ...

Is his request for a threesome a fantasy, or something else?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have a lovely boyfriend of 2 years, he is a great guy and we have a committed relationship. However he brought up the subject of a threesome recently and it has got me worried. I would be open to the idea of fooling around with her for him, but ...

Should I stay with my husband or destroy everything for my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I am in a situation that I am married and have been for seven years. I have a boyfriend who I have meet at work and he is in early 20's and I am in my late 20's. We have gotten close to the point I have developed strong feelings for him. I actullay ...

I don't think my wife will go for the "two wife thing"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Ok I'm in.love with two women ones my wife the others is both of ours best friend . My wife is some what open about sex and we had a 3 som . Ok and then after me and her keeped in tuch and talked about eveything we ended up saying I love you and we ...

My ex has issues, but when it was good it was great; my b/f is devoted but dull

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I recently got out of a relationship about 2 months ago with my ex. He went to jail and we just couldnt do it anymore. He was an alcoholic, verbally abusive, and an addict; we had a lot of problems with our relationship, starting with all the ...

My b/f wants to have a threesome with me and my best friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Oh gosh im in love with my boyfriend were both 16 and im bisexual. He wants too try a threesome and im not sure if I should cause it might mess up our relationship. Hes cheated on me before and I know he dont desrve me. Im not sure if I should ...

Who do I go to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Should i go back and be with my son father or be with this other guy? now i been with my son father for 3yrs and the reason for our beak up is that he was not being the man i needed him to be for me,,and he always told me i dnt give him a chance to ...

We both hang out with other people, and I'm tempted to cheat, can our relationship be saved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - can our relationship be saved? my boyfriend begun to allow his female friends in our relationship. i will explain. he is allowing girls that are interested in him to hang out with us, when i told him how unhappy that makes me, now he hangs out with ...

He knows I have a boyfriend, so why does he want to meet up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hi guys, so this isn't a very serious question, but I'm just a bit confused about what this guy is doing. I'm happily in a relationship for almost 2 years now, we're doing pretty good, but recently this other guy is hitting on me, maybe? Met him on ...

I feel like this girl is going to take him away from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - so this boy likes me and i like him. we both know that we like each other, but this girl that he dated before, keeps on bugging our "starting relationship" periods, and when she is around, i feel like she will take him away from me, what should i ...

Unable to reject my ex but I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hey Ok I have this Boyfriend that i really like, I think about him constantly, i always dream about him and talk about him to all my friends, but the problem is I still have feelings for my ex and he still likes me even though he broke up with me,...

Is it possible to have feelings for two people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Is it possible to have feelings for 2 people? One is my boyfriend (who I love to bits) and one is another guy I met a few months ago (who I'm starting to fall for) Nothing has happened between me n this guy although I would like it to but won't do...

Heart in one place, soul in another, Help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - last weekend, for our 3 year anniversary, my partner brought her best friend over and we had a threesome. as my partner is not all that excitable, she went to sleep afterwards, and her friend and i continued to have oral and then had intercourse a ...

What to so when you think your boyfriend and your best friend might just have a thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - well I feel like my boyfriend has lost interest in me.. we have been dating for a year now and i feel like he can't trust me. we broke up like a week ago and it was just to take a break but not see other people and just not see each other for a ...

I need to let go of my boyfriend for good!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I have dated my boyfriend for about 3 years now. He is my first for EVERYTHING (first guy to ask me out, i lost my virginity to him, everything). We have our ups and downs His idea of a relationship is I do what I do he does what he does and we meet ...

I don't understand him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - i have a best friend and we like eachother but he has a girl friend and they keep breaking up and getting back togeather. one time recently they had broken up and i had gone to his house with frinds for a bond fire, and we started cuddling, and we ...

Do I come between him and his girlfriend, or do I keep it to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - I got chatting to this boy online a few months back we got really close and we met up a few times. I wanted to go out with him until he said that he had met this girl out downtown, he's now still in a relationship with her. I saw him today and got ...

Met someone else on holiday, and now I don't love my boyfriend as much anymore even though I cut off contact with the other guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. I went on holiday and met this other boy and when i got back of holiday we were texting and he told me he liked me and i liked him too! So i stopped texting him because of my boyfriend and now i ...

How do I stop this crush I have? I've already got a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

26 November 2010 (M) - I think I have a crush on my friend and I have a girlfriend, how do I kill my crush on her? =(....

We have an open relationship, but how do I go about explaining to him that I'm not comfortable with this one girl?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - My partner and I have been together for three and a half years, and have been living together for one and a half of those years. We've recently both been feeling quite trapped (he more so than I, admittedly), so we've decided to try out an open ...

My girlfriend keeps a sweater from a guy who tried to kiss her, is this a problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

26 November 2010 (M) - if my girlfriend is keeping a sweater from a guy who tried to kiss her and brought a lot of drama for her? To cut the story short, there was a guy who tried to kiss her and people accused her of cheating on me and it was stressing her out and giving ...

Will he leave his girlfriend of 20 years for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - i have been seeing this guy for about six months. ive known him forever. hes 17 years older than me. hes had a girlfriend for like 20 years or so. they dont live together, they never have. he sees her maybe four times a month, but he comes to see me ...

2 great guys want to marry me! I don't know which to chose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - Hey All , i am a 24 years old i have my perfect CALM life .. i never felt i needed love in my life .. many guys wanted to be with me but till now no one of any captured my heart. in those past couple of days, a guy came to our house asking for marr...

Please help me understand this man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - Simple. I like a certain guy even when I have a bf. Forget my bf for a while, pls. This guy looks like also likes me but I am not sure how much. We text at times where I start it and re responds always. He is working,busy. And is v sweet to me, all ...

Things were looking up and now she's back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend used to fancy another woman, and she even went to his flat a few times, although he said that nothing happened between them. He told her once that he thought she was " out of his league " and said he wished he was confident enough to ...

Should I go to the party and risk upsetting my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - To cut a long story short, my boyfriend cheated on me so we split up and i slept with one of our guy mates. We sorted things out and got back together but promised we wouldnt go to town at night without each other. Its my best friends 21st and i ...

She has a boyfriend and I don't want to come between them...but I love her. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - Hi i have a situation, i've had feelings for this girl for 10 years (yea i knw its a lot), (we went to the same school thu :( ) but i haven't told her about my feelings yet, anyways i have been getting close to her lately but she acts to be ...

Should I just give up and move on now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - so I called my gf several times and she never answered. So I went to investigate turns out she has been on tiny chat the past 5 hrs with some oher guy. Then she finnaly picked up and I asked her about that, she told me they werent flirting,...

I cheated on my first love and I am so scared that I will lose him! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 8 months. from the begginning i really liked him and and we started seeing eachother every weekend. one weekend got really intimate and had sex with him. after a while i saw that he layed back about ...

Should I just face my feelings and confess them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I regrettably have feelings towards another man. I’ve been in a long-term relationship with a man for almost my whole adult life and we have a child. Nearly two years ago this was challenged for the first time. A man with whom I work suddenly took ...

Just found out my wife is having an affair with an older man

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I am lost and don't know what to do. I have been married for 7 years and just found out that my wife is having an afair with a man who is 30 years her senior. She blames me, she tells me that it's because we do not have sex as much as she would ...

I like my best friends ex girlfirend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - ok so I like y best friend's ex-girlfriend. I'll explain how it happened: ok so my bestfriend and I used to live in the same town and one time my friend told me he was dating a girl from a nearby town that he met in a church convention. I ne...

Does this mean deep down I am not happy in my new relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Hi guys, some help would really be appreciated. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years back in October 2007. It was a very traumatic break up as he had moved abroad and started seeing someone else. He broke up with me by email. For a year my li...

He just doesn't get it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Hi there , i'm the ex partner of the guy who posted 'i think i'm wrecking everyones lives ' on november the 18 . He says he has now finished with his girlfriend of the last 7 months who i caught him cheating with when i was 8 months pregnant...

Problems in my relationship and I'm falling for another woman. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I am a lesbian and have been with my girlfriend for little over two years. Most of that time has been very, very happy. However, a few months ago, she cheated on me with my friend, but after some time apart, I decided to take her back. Since ...

Would you cheat on a guy you were falling for just to have some "closure sex?"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - I'm curious what goes on in a woman's mind when she is dating a guy she claims to love, but still has feelings for a former lover whom she only had sex with and maybe a slight friendship. I've had several relationships where I found out some time ...

My ex keeps contacting me and I can't move on, I'm lost.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - I was seeing a girl for about 2 years and we had just about started getting serious about each other and were planning to take it to the next level. However, she cheated on me while on a business trip, something I learnt about in a rather painful ...

I'm married but have feelings for another guy

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do about this. The more I try to gain control over myself the more I am slipping away. I met Mr.A over a year ago during a time of chronic stress. At that time, I had found him very irritating and annoying. Though, I tried ...

Stuck between the guy I like and the guy who likes me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Ok, I signed up to this site specifically to ask the question, because its doing my head in. Be warned, the following is stupidly long and brain cell-killing. So here goes, there is this guy I'm great friends with, I fell in love with relati...

Does he like her more than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - ok soo like this boy (lets call him umm jami) yea soo me and him always flirting and stuff. he said he had a dream about me a few times and i be dreaming about him to. hes always touching me and laughing at almost everything i say i catch him ...

Neighbour cheated on fiancee with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - Well i guess the title has got you all wondering what is going on. well ive been in some sticky situations before but non like this. if you have time please listen to my story and i ask for your best advice as soon as possible. well my nex...

How do I overcome my guilt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone thank you very much in advance for reading my problem and answering. I love this guy so much (let us call him "shah"). We've been in relation for nearly five years and i really value him and he loves me loads. The problem started ...