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*eorgiebbb
writes:HeyOk I have this Boyfriend that i really like, I think about him constantly, i always dream about him and talk about him to all my friends, but the problem is I still have feelings for my ex and he still likes me even though he broke up with me, My mum and his mum are really good friends and he comes to my house quite often, We are still friends.. But sometimes we would just be sitting on my Bed talking and he would just lean into kiss me, and I am very bad at rejecting people, so this one time when he tried to kiss me i did back off but then he looked upset and in a few minutes he tried again and i kissed him back, but this was when I was single, But now i have this amazing boyfriend, and My ex is coming over tomorrow what if he tries to kiss me and i'm not able to reject him, I realy dont want to cheat on my boyfriend.. Please help!!!
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reader, Love-Wisely  +, writes (30 November 2010):
 It's scenarios like this that make it so once you are in a serious relationship, the ex-factor should be discussed. The expectations, the boundaries, and there should be no double standards. Some ex's are truly no longer a threat, but many of them are.
In general, hanging out alone with ex's for hours is a deal breaker for me.
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (30 November 2010):
 GOOD JOB!!!!!
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reader, Georgiebbb +, writes (29 November 2010):
Georgiebbb is verified as being by the original poster of the question I rejected him!!! :) x
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (29 November 2010):
If your bf is so amazing then you better find a way to reject him. Thats a weak excuse no offense. It doesnt matter if you dont want to hurt him, do you want to hurt your new bf??? Cuz you would even if he never found out. How would you feel if you bf did this to you? MAke a choice. Your xc or your bf.
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reader, cls1990  +, writes (28 November 2010):
 If you can't 'reject' him either; a) stay in the room with your parents or b) make sure you are out until he has gone.
That way, until you decide who you want, you won't have cheated on your 'amazing' bf
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