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writes:Oh gosh im in love with my boyfriend were both 16 and im bisexual. He wants too try a threesome and im not sure if I should cause it might mess up our relationship. Hes cheated on me before and I know he dont desrve me. Im not sure if I should leave him because he wants it with my BESTFRIEND ! /: and id doo anything too please my man. But I feel like ima regret it. Awfully im too young too be in love bt I have mad ass feelings for him. We been having sex since we were 13 ! But I know hes been cheating on me but everytime I try too leave he makes me feel bad saying that ima throw everything away of what we had and everything we been through.. Pleassse help and advice me ! Ill take it im soo tired of him making me feel like im never usefull. Should I just keep going and 3some with it. Risk it ? Dont risk it and stay ? Or just leave him. It would hurt deeply thouggggh /:
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHeeey Guys thanks (: I left him & I feel much better. Being away from all that feels great. Thanks soo much it actually helped & showed me how is a pretty girl with that kinda person. 33 He didnt want me to go but I still left him, me & my bestfriend talked about it & she said she woulda never done that too me. (: Hes now telling me how much he messed up & all. Sometimes I wanna take him back but it would hurt even more. Im now happy with where im at now ?
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (29 November 2010):
He's a cheat and is probably pressing you for a 3sum a) to say he's had one and b) to have a go on your best friend.
He's not interested in you or your feelings and you should dump him and you know that.
You will get over the hurt and realise the more you grow up and mature how much of a loser he is and how you are much better off out of it.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (29 November 2010):
 He obviously isn't committed to you or your relationship or he wouldn't pressure you into having a threesome that you are uncomfortable with, especially with your best friend.
If my bf asked me to have a threesome with me and my best friend, I would tell him to kick rocks, because that obviously tells me that he finds my best friend attractive which is bad and wrong and it also tells me that I'm not enough for him if he feels he needs to bring other people into the relationship.
Get rid of him. He should repect that you aren't comfortable with this and he has also cheated on you. Why are you still with him?
You don't deserve this and you CAN find someone who will appreciate and love you and respect you.
You deserve that. So dump this loser and move on.
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reader, Deeyawn +, writes (29 November 2010):
Haha Your Honestly In A Bad Relationship, First A Cheater NEVER Gets The Picture If He Gets A Threesome, Not Only Will He Think less Of You, But He'll Have Won Yet Again... I Would Never Ask Of A Threesome, (Only If I Were Asked Of Me) Guys In My Mind Dont Get That Choice... He Doesnt Deserve You (Unless You Have Made The Same Mistakes) And In My Own Words HES A SCUM BAG!!!
You Should Try Dating... Someone With Brains And A Good Head On There Shoulders... Instead Of Thier Pants
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): This kid is a loser and clearly is putting his own weird fantasy before your feelings.Kick him to the curb.Threesomes can wait till college, when YOU want one, not at your age. You're WAY TOO young for the emotional complexity that they bring. Wait for the right time, and the right person (which is usually NEVER your best friend). You'll hurt even more if you give into him and he keeps making additional demands on you and then starts bragging about what he did.
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (29 November 2010):
 Leave him. None of this is your fault. A 3 some would only lead to problems. Would he allow you to have a 3 some with his best guy friend. Probably not. If he dares blame you for throwing away your relationship turn it on him. He made it all meaningless by cheating on you. By manipulating you into feeling bad. He doesnt want to leave you but he wants to have sex with others? Is that love? What if he starts liking you best friend? What if he keeps asking for it. If he loved you hed take into consideration you being uncomfortable with it. Dont make excuses for him. He doesnt deserve them or you! You say ud do anything to please him, but what has he gone out of his way to do to please you? Dump him. He will make you feel bad, but that should further your reason to leave him. What guy would try to hurt the girl he loves???? Message me if you need anything else :)
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (29 November 2010):
 Threesomes are fun but there is a right time and place and the time is not when you are 16.
Please take it from a bad old dog, DON'T do this. A 16 year old boy who is already cheating on you and then manipulating you in to staying is not going to love you more because you agree to a threesome, he will simply respect you less.
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