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writes: Hey All , i am a 24 years old i have my perfect CALM life .. i never felt i needed love in my life .. many guys wanted to be with me but till now no one of any captured my heart.in those past couple of days, a guy came to our house asking for marriage.. he's a very polite guy he has the money the brains and everything .. full package as they say .. but the promblem in him is that if i accept .. i would travel to live outside my country with him,but that's not only the problem .. the thing is my college friend when he heard about the news .. he came to me and asked me the same thing .. now i have a choice to make and i am lost// both are gr8 .. both love me .. i'm sure both we'll make my life be perfect.. but i am LOST..i dnt wanna break any of them's heart.. and i want to make the right decision.. any help pleasee???
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reader, Sissy 1992 +, writes (26 November 2010):
Just follow your heart and believe in yourself... Tell them you need time to decide spend some time with them get to know them more and in about a month decide...
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reader, chigirl +, writes (25 November 2010):
Can you explain more of your cultural background? For me it is very unusual to not date before getting married, and a proposal in my culture only comes after spending a lot of time together, getting to know the other, and love each other.
Do you love either of these men? Exactly where do you come from?
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