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*goodheart
writes:Ok I'm in.love with two women ones my wife the others is both of ours best friend . My wife is some what open about sex and we had a 3 som . Ok and then after me and her keeped in tuch and talked about eveything we ended up saying I love you and we both do bevy much so well my wife found out and when nuts I love my wife I would take a bulit for her. I just want some help I don't think she will go for the two wife thing she said that she owns my hart how could I ever care for her if I care for some one else to I have a good heat I'm not doing this for sex I really care for them both .
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reader, Husbandsexwife +, writes (16 December 2010):
I understand where you are coming from. I have started having feelings for my ex wife and we have been having sex, him and her alone, she and I alone and all 3 of us. I actually would like for her to come live with us. We already refer to her as his 2nd wife. I dont see anything wrong with it. U can have feeling for 2 people at the same time. My husband and I have an amazing marriage and this just makes it even better!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 November 2010):
 Wow, apart from the atrocious spelling I have to say, you have no respect for your wife what so ever. I doubt you would know what love is if it came and bit you on the ass.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): You've had a 3some. Simpley neither are the marrying type. You've made a mistake, now you've got to live with it!
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (29 November 2010):
 I personally don't understand why your wife would consent to a threesome or why you would for that matter. Is marriage sacred anymore?
You had a threesome, which your wife consented to and you kept in contact with the woman behind your wife's back and told her that you love her? You say that you would take a bullet for your wife, are you ready to divorce her for this other woman? A threesome is one thing, but you are actually trying to get your wife to share you with another woman.
What about children? Are you going to have children with your wife? How do you think this would affect your future children growing up in a house like this?
You took vows. But, I don't think that means anything to you (or your wife) God says man and woman, not man, woman and their best friend.
You need to pick. Your wife. Or the other woman. YOu can't have your cake and eat it too. Pick one.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (29 November 2010):
 Sure. You love your wife so much you would take a bullet for her, but you don't love her enough to respect your marriage vows.
Your user name is "agoodheart" I think you are telling yourself lies, if you had a good heart you would not be hurting your wife by firstly meeting this other woman behind her back and now trying to introduce her into your marriage.
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