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Archived questions from: October, 2006 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I honestly want to just help her and get her away from him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - I have a female friend who I love and care for very much. She is recently divorced ( for three months and were seperated for two years). She filed for the divorce because he had an affair and is keeping it going. She gave him numurous chances for ...

Why do I have to choose one of them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months now and we are looking into spending our lives together very soon. My boyfriend is going oversea for six months to travel on his own, hoping to gain more experience in his life (which he truly lacks). He ...

He is coming to stay with me for the weekend but is seeing some other girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Ok, The guy of my dreams is coming to stay at my house for the weekend. Neither of us are into flings, and he has told me he likes me, and i like him a lot.. he has made a move on me a few times before, and i have always said no, thinking i was his ...

I had a dream that my bf was texting my ex-friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hi! i have abit of a problem but im not surr if it is a problem or just my paranoid mind! i fell out with my best friend in june sometime and we havent been in touch since then but my bf had her number in his phone but it wasnt stored under her name ...

I'm jealous because he can't let go of the mothers of his children

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i met my partner two and a half years ago, we had an affair, he left his wife and moved in with me eighteen months ago. he has two children with the wife and another little one who lives ten minutes from us. my problem is that neither of the two ...

Do I tell her or wait or wait for an exs cousin to tell her??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - My mother had my ex boyfriend arrested when I was 16. He was 20. He was mad at me for a little while for her finding out. I live with my grandmother nad I still sneak around just to see him. My birthday is in 12 days and I won't have to worry about ...

Is my boyfriend interested in this other girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I need some advice! I wanted to ask people whether they thought my boyfriend could possibly becoming interested in someone else. Being emotionally involved its hard for me to make a decision about whether he is or not! Why I think he is, is ...

Do I risk it all for a younger guy, with no certain job prospects that I love with a constant desire I have not felt with my bf? Is this a long-dull-period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I fell in love when I was 19 and have been with the same guy ever since (now I am 25). 2 years ago he went overseas to pursue higher education and we've been dating long distance in the meantime (I stayed on to study locally). We always plann...

Was he keeping her on the backburner

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - last nite we were watching some parts of a movie( we are together for a year and a half) and it was about a guy and a girl who are just friends and obviously they wind up not being just friend---i casually say--guys and girls can't just be friends ...

My wife's sister is seducing me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

28 October 2006 (M) - my wife's sister seducing me for long time now,she is older than my wife(32),more cute and very nice french body,she is visiting us regullary,and spend some nights and days with us,and her mum too.going to the beach,hotels,swimming pools with us,she ...

Meeting with him again would be playing with fire

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up at the beginning of the year, after three years of being together. Things had been difficult for a while - there were various things about our lives we were not happy with, and our relationship suffered as a result. I ...

My best friend also likes my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - Hey guys. I really like my boyfriend and I care about him. And there's my best friend (aka also a relative of mine), I talk to her about everything. We are practically like sisters. But one problem is that she likes my boyfriend. She is always ...

Sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Ok, so I broke up with my bf 4 weeks ago after an on/off relationship of about a year. We were then sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday when he got a new girlfriend. But then the day after that he rang me saying he was lonely, came over and had ...

He acts like he doesn't care at all and now he's emailing another woman! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 1 1/2yrs now. Lately his career has been giving him many opportunities to travel and he picks up as much as he can and loves it. With hunting season and his being gone I haven’t seen him but two times in the ...

I broke his heart and left him. Now I am heartsick at the idea of him finding someone else! Why am I this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I was with a guy for nearly 7 years and was so happy with him. We moved in together and things started to change after about a year. I started to notice things about him that i could not stand and i began to feel bored of the routine and the ...

My friend is having a tough time getting over an ex! How can I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

26 October 2006 (?) - What advice can i give my friend about getting over her ex?...

I told him I didn't like the idea of sharing a hotel room with two cute blondes, one with big breasts who he's slept with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - Last week a woman called and left a voicemail for my boyfriend, stating that she would be in town in a few days and wanted to see him. I grabbed the phone before she hung up and introduced myself as his girlfriend (he wasn't at home at the time). ...

Is he really over his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hi,there's this guy who i dated for awhile...after some stuff that happened with us,we realise it's better to be friends. However friends meant...he would still call everyday and let me know what he's doing. We were still very close even though we ...

Time has not healed how I feel about him - even though he is in love with his GF!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Recently this year I was involved with a guy who had a long-term girlfriend. He was my perfect guy and I was convinced throughout that they were going to break up and he was going to want me to be his girlfriend. Of course, I was fooling myself - ...

I'm in love with my affair who only calls me when he wants something!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I have been having an affair for the past year, and I fell in love with the man. He was most romantic and he made me feel beautiful. After a while he asked me to buy him a reel which he could not afford. I bought it for him, but told him that he ...

I saw him first and am in love with my friend's boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - help im in love with my best mates boyfriend, i met him first and had a brief fling with him, a year later and my best mate is dating him. I cant help looking at him wishing i was with him and not her. What should i do?...

I am bored with my bf's gal friend and he thinks I don't like her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - hi, my bf and have been together 5 years, i am 18 and he is 24, there is this girl we both know , he is more friends with her and has more in common with her that what i do, which is ok, the thing is i find it hard to make converstation with her as ...

My ex gf was kissing me and hugging me! Was it because I told her about another girl I liked?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - Hi all, well i kissed my ex gf at the weekend after she asked me if she could kiss me and as we started kissing she started holding my hand an we both started to embrace each other and i asked her later on that night if she regretted us kissin...

I have a boyfriend, but I like this other guy. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hi guys, I am 13 years old. I have a boyfriend, and there is also a guy that really likes me. I thought since I have a boyfriend I can't go with him. But later on I got used to him, and he was really nice and sweet. But in the past few days he's ...

Unsure I love my wife, but I fancy a work colleague. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

24 October 2006 (M) - Have been married 11 years and have a son who is 9. I have recently been having feelings that I no longer love my wife or even find her attractive anymore. I have told my wife that I am unsure whether I love her or not and she pursuaded me to ...

Should i divorce and hurt my son?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - I am married man for 18 years, i have a son of 13 ,the problem is i lost all intrest in my wife, over several years i have cheated before, just typical one night stands, now i have met a woman i work with , been sexually involved with her for ...

Im going to give her the ultimatum, its me or the friend!!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - PLIZ HELP!!!follow up to the earlier question about my girlfriend and male friend. You see I've already approached her and asked for moderation of the relationship between her friend, but shortly after she's saying I miss you to the guy, saw the ...

Is there something going on between my girl and her male friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - I've been dating my girl for over a year now and its a seriuos relationship, we both intend to take it to the ultimate i.e marriage one day, but there's one problem she's got this male friend that I feal is a big threat, at first I didnt think it ...

How can I deal with the distance, and his 'new' friend better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 9 months, and recently we both started different universities. I am having a really hard time dealing with the distance and separation, and on top of eveything he has made this really good friend at ...

I love him, but his ex is still a big part of his life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - hi, i have been seeing a guy for the past four months, everyhting was going great for the first month, then his ex got in contact with him telling him that she absolutely loves him and wants him back, he told me that he doesn't want her and that ...

My ex bf wants me again but there's this problem-he has a new gf! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - I am eighteen years old and I have had a secret crush on my ex boyfriend since we broke up, almost three years ago now. He is my best friend and we spend a lot of time together.. or we used to. He recently joined the army so I haven't seen him for a ...

While hubby is in Irag, the old bf shows up on the scene and old feelings have come back. What on earth do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Ok my storys kinda complicated... Before I got married to this guy Ive been with for four years, we were having problems and we started seeing different people. At the time my girlfriend had introduced me to her brother who is still currently i...

How do I find a way to stop being attratced to my bf's best friend? Any good tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - Hi, this question isn't going to be quite what it sounds like at first so be sure to read everything! I'm 26 and I feel as though I've been in enough relationships to understand how they work and what helps to make them work. I've been with my boy...

My marriage is over and now my online bf says our relationship is over, too! I am devastated! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - I need some advice I have been married over 15 years, but in that time my hubby has had 3 affairs. The first when I was pregnant with our first child. Then again about 3 years ago whilst he was on a break from a 6 year affair. I now realise ...

He had sex with me and when I went to a party..there he was kissing a girl in front of me! What can I do to make him want only me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - what shoudl i do? i've been going out with a guy for about 6 months, we're not oficially dating, but kind of, the thing is that we broke up because he was not ready for a serious relationship, the worst excuse,, i know but every time we meet (on...

My guy freind's new gf hates it when he communicates with me! What should I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - hi, i know this man for almost 4 years. we are very good friend from the very start.i been alone at that time and also him but we never out of our limits being good friend. we are so open to each other we dont have any secret and when we write a ...

I love my bf so much but I am attracted to his best friend, too! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - I'm 26 and in love with a guy who's been through a lot of things with me. We're serious, and have even talked about getting married. The only problem I have is, that no matter how in love with him I seem to be, I can't stop a very strong ...

Should I go back to Jim for the sake of our child or be with Bob-who I am in love with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - Hi all anyones help will be great. Here is the problem I have been married for almost four years now and have a beautiful three year son. However, a year ago my husband we will call him Jim and I split and have just started talking about trying ...

I still love my boyfriend a little bit, but I really like this other guy. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - ok so heres the start of my problem. iv bin with my boyfriend for over 3years now and i thought i really loved. about 4 weeks ago now we had a huge fall out which left my boyfrined wantin to leave me. that same day before the arguement i recieved a ...

My hustband told me he was in love with my friend. How can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - my husband informed me he was "in love" with my friend 2 1/2 years ago. i still hevent been able to forget or move on. we do heaps more together now but he still goes to work everyday where she also works and we are volunteer ambulance officers in ...

I am crazy about a girl, but she has a boyfriend. Why is she confusing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

14 October 2006 (M) - i live with this girl that i'm absolutely crazy about. and i know she likes me too, as we talk about it. problem is, she's with someone right now. but their relationship is rocky though, and might end. they've been discussing just being friends, ...

Would having sex with my married male friend...change things between us? If so, how?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - To those people who answered my question about 'how im friends with a married guy', to me its not really a 'sexually thing' as such but i dont know. But i definatly dont call it an affair because im not cheating on anyone, so how can u call it an ...

How do I get this girl that I like..to break up with her bf??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 October 2006 (M) - Why wont she break up with her bf? Well Im in love with this girl who has a bf. She says she loves me and I actually do believe it because when im with her its different but when she's with her bf she acts as if i dont exist. She's all up on ...

My bf wants a threesome but I'm scared! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

13 October 2006 (?) - Ok people so this is a common problrm but its somethin i cant seem to get my head around. my bf wants me to have a threesum. well he wants to watch me havin sex with another guy. now the thought of the fantasy does turn me on its just the thought...

I've broke it off with my lover but how do I now behave around him as we see him all the time!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - I've broken up with my lover, of more then a year, to stay with my boyfriend. Don't know if I did the right thing. When I started having an affair I was in a very rocky stage of my relationship, we were broken up. I got support and friendship from ...

I love this girl but I don't know if she loves me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

13 October 2006 (M) - i love this girl but i dont know if she loves me I love this girl who says that she loves me but she has a boyfriend. She says that she loves him too but why would she say that she loves me as well. We've had sex already and that makes me believ...

This girl has a BF but she sleeps with me and tells me she loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (M) - I love this girl who says that she loves me but she has a boyfriend. She says that she loves him too but why would she say that she loves me as well? We've had sex already and that makes me believe that she loves me but then again why is she stil...

Family divided, please help me. I feel like it is all my fault.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - My family has been torn apart and things get worse every day. I married a beautiful girl in 1998 and we had a daughter in 1999. We now have 3 children. Around this time, my sister (K) met her boyfriend (M). When they would argue, he would say things ...

He spends time with his ex and round her mom's house!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been been together for a year now. But when we first started seeing eachother, he was in a relationship with another woman. He stopped seeing her so that he could be with me. Everything was going good, or so i thought, a ...

He seems to try to make me jealous. Is he gay? Why is he like this and what can I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I have known this 22 yr old guy on and off all his life, but we became close 10 months ago whilst he was going through a really painful break up with his ex of 5 years (she lied and cheated on him) and we became bf and gf 4 weeks ago after he had ...