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I have a boyfriend, but I like this other guy. What should I do?

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Question - (24 October 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi guys, I am 13 years old. I have a boyfriend, and there is also a guy that really likes me. I thought since I have a boyfriend I can't go with him. But later on I got used to him, and he was really nice and sweet. But in the past few days he's ignoring me and not talking to me. I want him to like me back. What should I do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007):

Hey i am in the same nut hole i have a boyfriend but it turns out he has had sex 3 times allredy but he is nice and funny in that perverted kind of way but i like this other guy who care about me alot and dosent want me to get hurt buy my boyfriend but the other guy also has a g/f and i dont know what to do wich one to go with.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2006):

hey girl the reason the guy is ingoring you is cuz you are giving away to many hints and singals you should just ingore him for a while until he comes around then he just might like you back Amanda am 14 yrs old

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2006):

Do you know something? He may be ignoring you because he doesn't want to mess up your relationship with this current guy; which is kinda sweet. If not, then he just doesn't want to be around you because he's hurting. If you prefer another guy when you have a boyfriend that says a lot about your boyfriend because he's obviously not making you as happy as they other guy. If you ask me, it's more worth going out with the guy that makes you happier (which is the guy that you're not going out with). You care that he's not speaking to you which shows that you DO like him. I personally think you should finish the lad you are dating now because this guy is obviously not someone you want to lose. You don't actually mention anything about fancying him now but if you do I'd leave it a while before you went out with him otherwise your current boyfriend would think you had dumped him for another lad, and even though that may be the case, it would be unfair to hurt him. XxXxX

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2006):

easy find one and stick to it.. don't go jumping around lookng lost

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (24 October 2006):

Toria agony auntYou are only 13 therefore probably not ready for the committment of a relationship and nor should you be, at 13 you should be meeting new people and enjoying yourself not committing to one partner.

I would say you need to give yourself the ability to enjoy being 13 as you only get it once and you can commit to one guy when you've had the time to enjoy just being young.

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