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writes: last nite we were watching some parts of a movie( we are together for a year and a half) and it was about a guy and a girl who are just friends and obviously they wind up not being just friend---i casually say--guys and girls can't just be friends and my b/f says nope..BUT then it got me thinking--why months ago was he kind of laying it out there about speaking to a girl he once went out with and saying its not ok to be friends with someone of the opposite sex unless its someone from the past..even back then it bothered me b/c he was referring to her probably...i asked him about 2 or 3 months ago who he speaks to and he says he hasnt even spoken to her since the holidays and he didnt get a call from her on his b-day--i am thinking he would still be talking to her if she probably called him.And then i tried saying something about it--and i said well how come you thought it was ok to be friends with an ex girlfriend months ago..and then he just says well maybe i didnt mean what i said just now which is totally confusing to me and sounds like he was just trying to avoid it and then he goes on saying i can do that but you can't(talk to ex's)--which is obviously a sarcastic comment and i say oh yeah and who are u speaking to? and he just says are you kidding me?do u see my cell ringing or me making calls---but still--my original question was the one i wanted answered---was he keeping her on the backburner, did he not see us as serious---do you think i should ask him about it--say it kind of bothered me you didn not really answer or do i just let it go and i am way overanalyzing this..i am really curious about it but don't want an argument.Please write back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2006): i think that if you are a in a mature relationship then you should be able to discuss anything that is concerning you. to be honest i think that you are being a bit paranoid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2006): Girls over analyze everything!!!! He probably wasn't even thinking about the question that you asked him. I catch my boyfriend just blindly responding to me all of the time. Don't worry so much!!! If he cares about you then he will show it. Jealousy is human nature, but the jealous behavior will be more destroying than that other girl.
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reader, karlton +, writes (28 October 2006):
I think you should try talking to him, maybe he is completly inocent and is not doing anything behind your back. If you talk to him im sure you will find out whats going on, but be carefull dont go full on asking him questions. Slowly get into the mood and ask him slyly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2006): thats too long for me to bother reading but all i want to say is that boys and girls can be just friends, i have so many friends who are boys and it is just friends loads of people in my school just mix completely. il have you know my best friend is a boy. and we only met when we began hi skl.
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