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writes:Ok, The guy of my dreams is coming to stay at my house for the weekend. Neither of us are into flings, and he has told me he likes me, and i like him a lot.. he has made a move on me a few times before, and i have always said no, thinking i was his rebound girl or that he just wanted action, but recently we discussed this , and he admitted that had i went with it he would have certainly tried a relationship with me.. hes honest and i trust him a lot soi believe him. Im pretty, im intelligent, and i have guys swarming around me generally... but i want him and him only. the problem im having ladies and gentlemen is that he is seeing someone, and that he lives quite far away.. himself and this other girl arnt official, and he likes me more.. I really care about him a lot and really want to be with him.. should I make a move on him this weekend? i mean.. he lives 5 hours away, i wont be able to see him again for another month unless we do something that will help form a relationship.....please please help me out:) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006): Firstly, this guy lives five hours away, so really you're not going to have a proper relationship. He says he has a girlfriend so I would be very careful here. I would not sleep with him when he visits and suggest that you visit him at his place sometime. If he makes excuses about not visiting his place then you can be sure that he probably is serious about this girl and is looking for a bit on the side with you. Lots of men like to have their cake and eat it and will go out of town to get it.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (31 October 2006):
 I agree with stina it's a dangerous thing thinkit over maybe it is not the best time for you to have him around if he's seeing somebody else
take care
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (31 October 2006):
 this isnt really an answer but i was reading your question and ur really vein!! even if you know ur pretty and intelligent and whatever else, few people actually admit it cos what is pretty in one persons eyes may not be in anothers!
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reader, stina  +, writes (31 October 2006):
 Hi Anon,
Instead of trying any moves on him when he visits, why don't you try telling him what you posted? Knowing your feelings about him might speak volumes more than anything else. My guess is that if he is seeing someone else and doesn't like flings, he would rather hear what's on your mind than have you try anything with him. But then again, you are his friend so you would be a better judge than I would.
Whatever you do, make sure that you feel comfortable with it and that it doesn't seem forced - like you're "trying" to make him choose between the both of you. And make sure you don't make him feel uncomfortable, either. Just kind of go with the flow and see what happens.
Take care.
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