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writes: hi! i have abit of a problem but im not surr if it is a problem or just my paranoid mind! i fell out with my best friend in june sometime and we havent been in touch since then but my bf had her number in his phone but it wasnt stored under her name it was just her number and he txted the number to find out who it wa sand it turned out to b my ex best friend. he told me what the texts said and that after he found out who it wa she deleted her number. then i had a dream the other night there that they were texting each other and when i had a dream about my bf texting other people it was true he was texting chat rooms. i have a feeling he is texting her but im scared to ask him incase he thinks i dint trust him but i do and i cant text my ex best friend as we dont talk anymore i really just want my mind put at rest it may be that im too para but after having this dream about them im not so sure anymore as the last dream i had about my bf texting other girls it was true!!!! i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!
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reader, xLEAHx  +, writes (31 October 2006):
 Hi Anon,
Mostly what we dream about reflects on whats on our minds,seems like this thing with your b/friend txtin other girls is still playing on your mind and your paranoid in thinking that he maybe in contact with your ex mate..and i can't blame you for thinking that..you say you trust him if you did trust him you wouldn't be thinking this,if he was honest enough with you to tell you it was her number on his phone and showed you the txts messages from her, then he was'nt hiding anything from you..im affraid there's nothing you can do only let it go if you trust him..if its really bothering you maybe ask him if his heard or had any more messages from your ex friend...of course your going to be suspicious of him when he was txtin other girls before..tell him how you feel about this and you want him to be honest with you, the only other thing is to go down his phone when his not looking ..but then that will just make matters worse especially if you get caught..and its also invading his privacy and trust.
xLEAHx
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