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Archived questions from: August, 2005 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Can I love two guys at the same time?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

31 August 2005 (F) - I am 19 years old and I have a boyfriend but just recently I have been having feelings for another guy. I still love my boyfriend but every time I see this other guy I fall in love with him. Is there somthing wrong with me or it normal to have fee...

By the time I realised I was in love with my ex again, he was with my best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7008 days ago

31 August 2005 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I started hanging out as friends about a year ago. We saw each other nearly every day and we became best friends. We both had feelings for each other but didnt tell one another for about 5 months. We finally started going ou...

Don't know if I should stay and try to work things out with my partner... or leave and start over with a guy I'm attracted to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7018 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I'm going through a divorce and now find myself in the middle. I been talking to a guy friend for a while now and I think I have feelings for him. My divorce took a pause for about 2 weeks because me and my soon to be ex were, out of nowhere,...

He has a girlfriend, so his affection and caresses were totally out of the blue!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7014 days ago

29 August 2005 (F) - Dear I came to know this guy in the office and one day he invited me for a dinner as he was leaving the country for some other country. And on that first night, we went to this indian restaurant. And he mentioned that he has a girlfriend, and ...

Suddenly, I think I love a guy 10,000 miles away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7022 days ago

29 August 2005 (F) - I have a relationship with my boyfriend for 8 years now. Six years ago, I met a guy in another country of whom I found out he also really liked me a lot. We did not speak about these feelings when we saw each other. We chatted and e-mailed the last ...

Should I consider a relationship with my friend's older brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

28 August 2005 (F) - I am a 15 year old female that acts a lot older than my actual age. I am often drinking alcohol and I smoke up to 30 fags a day. My mate who is the same age as me has a brother of 19. Recently I have heard he really likes me. Trouble is we live in ...

What do I do about my friend's girlfriend starting to like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

27 August 2005 (M) - My friend's girlfriend has taken a liking to me, which she has told me herself! I also really fancy her, however I don't know what is the right thing to do! Please help me!...

He's married and 44, while I'm 18. But we have so much in common that we're falling for each other...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6988 days ago

27 August 2005 (F) - Hi, I've got a problem that has been developing over the past year. I met a man almost exactly a year ago who I 'clicked' with like I haven't done with anybody before. We have the same taste in music, art, everything really. There are a few p...

Is my girlfriend really just "best friends" with this other woman..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7025 days ago

27 August 2005 (M) - I really need an honest 3rd party opinion. My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other a little over a year. For most of that time we have been on and off again, mostly because I was afraid of commitment. The past couple of months we have gott...

Too many men! Help me decide which I love more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7025 days ago

26 August 2005 (F) - I have a problem. A year ago I split up with a long term boyfriend (3years) as the relationship got very abusive. In the past 6 months I have met two men that care about me very much, to the extent they both want to be with me. I adore them both ...

His ex knows that we're dating again, and I think she's using her pregnancy to get him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7021 days ago

26 August 2005 (F) - The guy that I lost my virginity to a year ago left me around 4 months after that. He started dating this girl "Kelly" she told him she was pregnant, and 5 months later she ended up being 3 months pregnant. Then she left him and wanted nothing to do ...

My partner tells his new girl mate personal things he "can't" talk to me about!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7026 days ago

26 August 2005 (F) - Me and my partner have been together for 3 years. A week ago I found he just started being mates with this girl who he talks to with webcam on msn. They have each others' numbers, and he tells her personal things about himself he claims he can't ...

A mystery woman is sending texts to my husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7006 days ago

25 August 2005 (F) - My husband left his mobile at home while at work and a text message came through. I opened it in case it was urgent and found that it was someone asking him to call back. On looking at his other messages I found four more from the same number, ...

Being with my old boyfriend makes me feel "old", but his cousin makes me feel like I'm in high school again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7027 days ago

25 August 2005 (F) - I'm 24 years old, and have a daughter of 4 years. I've been in a secure relationship for the past 3 years. I love my boyfriend(*Peter), we live together and my daughter knows him as her father. We also have dogs, so needless to say, I don't want to ...

Should I marry the man who's my best friend, or the take my chance with the man I was made for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7027 days ago

25 August 2005 (F) - I am a woman in my mid 20's. I am engaged, and I am expecting to get married to my fiance in a couple of months. This is my problem: A few years ago, just before I started going out with my fiance (who was my friend then), I met this guy. ...

Being with my boyfriend is more like being with a mate...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7025 days ago

24 August 2005 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for three years and been with him for three and a half. Whilst he has never been very tactile or passionate, the respect and admiration I feel for him has always enabled me to appreciate him for other reasons. ...

Four years together and I feel that we've grown apart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7028 days ago

24 August 2005 (F) - I'm 22 years old and I have been with my boyfriend since I have been 15. We have lived together for 4 years and lately I feel that I don't love him and that we have grown apart. I tried talking to him about taking a break but he just made me feel ...

My girlfriend wants to try to fix things up with her husband, even though she doesn't love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7029 days ago

22 August 2005 (?) - I am a female involved emotionally with another female. I am in my early 40's and she is in her early 30's. We have been going out together for about six months. She has told me she is very interested in me. She is married and has been for 8 years. ...

I like him; he likes me. But he's getting married to someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7030 days ago

21 August 2005 (F) - I really like an engaged man and I know he likes me too. We have been together for nights but never had sex, I feel like I have a great relationship with him but he is getting married to someone else! She lives hours away and we spend a lot of time ...

The guy I want, wants someone else. And she's not ready for anything "serious"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

20 August 2005 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for about a month now and we met on MySpace. Anyway he is such a good guy and I really like him and I think he could like me. Only problem is he likes another girl who just got out of a messy relationship and made it ...

My feelings for the two men who want me keep changing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7033 days ago

19 August 2005 (F) - Many may not think my problem I have is really a problem at all, I'm sure many single women would love to be in the situation I am but for myself this isn't the case. And I am highly confused about what I shall do. The problem is I have two men who ...

My husband has put his employee above our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7035 days ago

18 August 2005 (F) - Hi there I have been married for 10yrs and have 3 young children. Two yrs ago my mother was diagnosed with cancer. Mum came and lived with me at this time and I became Mum's full time carer. Around this time my husband seemed to distance himself...

Younger Brother thinks I'm going to dump my boyfriend for him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7035 days ago

17 August 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 years old and my b/f's 14 yr old brother keeps coming on to me! He's a nice kid but he is so so annoying. For example we were alone in my b/f's house the other day (just the 3 of us) and my b/f went into the kitchen. Whenever my b/f isn't ...

My ex wants to try to work things out, but I've agreed to an "on-paper-only" marriage to someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7036 days ago

16 August 2005 (F) - Could you please help me? I have to make some very tough, life-changing decisions that will also greatly affect other people. I've consulted psychics and now I thought I'd consult craigslist. thank you so much!!!!! JACK: 30-year-old bart...

Don't want to break my boyfriend's heart, but I keep thinking about another guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

16 August 2005 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for about 1 year and a half and I love him so much. He is my first love and I do want to be with him forever. The thing is, I keep thinking about someone else who used to fancy me ages ago and I can't tell if I may...

Four's a crowd! I need help deciding which man to see...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7032 days ago

16 August 2005 (?) - There are three men in my life, one has been transferred back to my town and is my teenage sweetheart, though he left me for another girl three years ago with intentions to marry her, though the wedding never took off, but have a child together. He ...

My ex-fiance is being dishonest about her sex life since our break up...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7037 days ago

15 August 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I were engaged to wed in March 05. Three days before the wedding she ended the relationship and although pregnant, cut all ties. March 16th we spoke again and she told me she miscarried. March 17th she calls a friend of mine to ...

I love my boyfriend, but sex with his sister really turned me on!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

14 August 2005 (F) - Hiya, I'm a 22 year old girl and I feel so confused. I've been going out with a lad for 3 years and he's wonderful, but last weekend I went on a night out with his sister. We were drunk and we ended up having sex. This was my first time with a ...

Is it my trust issue, or is there more going on with my fiancee and her new friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7038 days ago

14 August 2005 (M) - I am 31 years old, and I've been seeing my fiancee for over four years. We were supposed to be getting married in October, but due to our current problems, we've pushed it back to next November (2006). One of the reasons for our pushing it b...

Just when I'm ready to leave, he comes back and persuades me to stay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7038 days ago

13 August 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid; I've been involved with a married father of two for over two years. He is now seperated and has custody of the kids. We've had a very off/on relationship (at his choice). It runs in cycles. Just when I begin to move on in my li...

Still in love with my ex, but he's married to someone else now!

This question has 47 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

12 August 2005 (F) - Hi! I am a middle aged woman who happens to be in love with my former lover (we split up 5 years ago). Here is my love story summarized: To me (I guess also to him), our relationship was fullfiling in many ways, leading us to believe in a promi...

Don't know which guy to hang out with... I like them both!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6973 days ago

11 August 2005 (?) - I'm a 15 yr old girl, and this guy I like (he's 18) asked me for my phone number so I gave it to him. The next day we kissed. The day after we kissed this guy (21) that I have liked for ages asked me to meet up with him because I hadn't seen him for ...

Will my boyfriend leave me to go back to his pregnant ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

10 August 2005 (F) - Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been together for one month and we are engagged. I found out recently that his ex is Pregnant with his kid. At first I thought he was having an affair but she is two months gone. I'm scared that if she keeps it will he ...

My workmate asked me out, then dumped me for his ex. Now I feel foolish...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7043 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - I was, until recently, going with a friend from work, against my better judgement to seeing someone I worked with. But he was very persistent, and wouldn't take no for answer, so I agreed to go out for a drink with him, and we got on really well. W...

I snooped in her email account, I snooped in her mobile. I found out the truth about her best friend, but she's broken up with me over it...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

8 August 2005 (M) - I’ve been with my girlfriend for about year, and about 8 months of our relationship has been troubled by her best friend (female), who is in love with my girlfriend and whom my girlfriend has had sex with twice before I we ever met. My girlfrie...

I can't marry her, because we're both with different people. So what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 August 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid. I happen to have had a girlfriend who had a baby with some guy before we met. I also had a baby with my first girlfriend and she knows. Now the time came when she asked me that she wanted to go back to the father of her son and I th...

This dog is MY man's best friend. He says I'm just jealous of her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 August 2005 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend is a good man and I love him very much but he isn't one for affection until it comes to his dog (female). I am not exagerating when I write that he constantly kisses her, smells her, while letting out a mmmmmmmmm, and saying ...

He wants to move in together, with his brother in the spare room!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 August 2005 (?) - My boyfriend wants me to move in with him and I don't know what to do. He owns a 2 bedroom flat and rents out 1 of the bedrooms to his brother. It's run down needs a complete overhaul - messy, dirty, damp and has a leaky roof that I'm sure will have ...

Need advice on my unaffectionate, cheating, Internet girlfriend... What to do?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

5 August 2005 (M) - Hey, I've been with my girlfriend for the past 7 months. We have struggled to keep are relationship alive due to third parties who keep trying to destroy are relationship. Basically, she has met a lad off the net, she told me she might have feeli...

My boyfriend is a changed man and I wonder if I should go back to him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7046 days ago

5 August 2005 (F) - Dear reader I had an affair with a guy a few years ago. My boyfriend at the time was cut up over it, so I justified what I did by staying with the guy I had the affair with. We ended up having a child together. He is very bitter at life and neve...

Didn't like his possessive, controlling ways, so I left. Now I'm thinking I should go back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7045 days ago

5 August 2005 (?) - I still want to see him, I miss our sex. I left the relationship because I couldn't take his possessive and controlling ways, plus on top of that verbal abuse whenever we fought. I can't but help miss him though, he wants me to come see...

I'm interested in someone else, but I don't want to risk what I have with my current boyfriend...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend now for over 5 years. We are very settled and live together and have pets. We get along well enough - the spark is definely gone and we constantly have little fights, but overall we're pr...

My ex-fiance says our friend is only a potential "roommate". Should I believe him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7047 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - Me and my ex were engaged in Feburuary and called off the wedding in March. Then we broke up for good and i moved back home in June. We broke up because we just argued about little stuff too much. Ever since then, I have stayed with him a few time...

Involved with my boyfriend for a year, now I hear he has a wife!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - I am a 32 year old lady living in South Africa. My problem is that I was involved with my boyfriend for more that a year now but we each other for more than 5 years. The problem is that yesterday one of his friends told me that he has a wife and he ...

We dated, but he wants to take things slowly. Is it too soon to expect him to make up his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7048 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - I went back to my country in Dec last year and dated this guy I had known from childhood. He had just come out of a relationship so we both weren't expecting anything to come out of it. I went back to the US to study and we kept commnica...

He lied and said he was divorced. Now I'm pregnant and he's gone back to his wife and kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

3 August 2005 (F) - I have been with my fiance now for just over a year, that year has been so rocky. When I first met him he told me he was divorced and lived by himself. It so happens I found out just before new year that he wasn't divorced, that he was still ma...

There's an age difference and he has a fiancee. Even so, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

3 August 2005 (F) - I'm 15 and I'm in love with my ex-music teacher! He's 25 and has a fiancee (she hates me)! I recently moved schools but we were really close! We'd talk for hours about his life and mine, our views on politics, which kinds of music we like, what our...

We had a fling and that's over, but now we're scheduled to go on a business trip together...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7049 days ago

2 August 2005 (F) - Hi, I really need your help. I'm about to go on a business trip with someone I had a brief fling with. The affair is over because I'm married. The thing is, I don't know how to face the other person because I still have feelings for him. I don't ...

I want to leave my wife and be with my lover, but I can't leave my kids!

This question has 56 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

2 August 2005 (M) - We'll I'm 41 yr. old male, I've been married 14yrs and met a wonderful woman 7yrs ago and have been loving each other for the past 7 yrs. I've lied about being married still over the last 7yrs. I love this woman who's not my wife. I want to leave...

He wants to take his ex out to dinner to cheer her up... Am I wrong to object?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7050 days ago

1 August 2005 (F) - My boyf has a female collegue/friend that fancies him and they dated about a year go for a couple of weeks. He claims that she wasn't right for him. She is now seeing and sleeping with 2 men at the same time. He feels a little sorry for her as she ...