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writes: I have a problem. A year ago I split up with a long term boyfriend (3years) as the relationship got very abusive. In the past 6 months I have met two men that care about me very much, to the extent they both want to be with me. I adore them both for different reasons and don't want to be without either of them. However I know it is only fair to make a decision! James is in the army and based abroad, Mike is in the RAF and based in England. It is making me miserable as neither of them know about each other. It is so difficult as both of them mean a lot to me. James and I get on well and are very 'soppy' with one another and then Mike and I crack each other up and are always laughing. We have a lot in common. I've tried weighing the pros and cons but both always come up equal. Any help or advice would save me! Gxxxxx
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reader, bettyboop_uk2002 +, writes (27 August 2005):
i married a soldier, its very hard to keep a relationship going when they r on tour all the time, out of 2yrs i saw my husband for about 4months... i think i wud go with mike, the lad based in the uk, but the question is how long will he be around for, do u want a long distance relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2005): As corny as it may sound, you should go with your heart.... as great as they both may be, you know that you like one better...
Good Luck
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