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writes: My boyf has a female collegue/friend that fancies him and they dated about a year go for a couple of weeks. He claims that she wasn't right for him. She is now seeing and sleeping with 2 men at the same time. He feels a little sorry for her as she is feeling down and he is to take her out to dinner next week. I am feeling very jealous and insecure. I think he is being rude as I would not consider going out to dinner with another man who fancied me whilst in a relationship with him. Am I being unfair? How should I proceed?
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reader, Helen05 +, writes (2 August 2005):
You need to trust him. if he wanted to be in a relationship with her he would be. if it was anything more you wouldn't be hearing about it! I would feel put out, even the most secure woman in the world would but show him you trust him.
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reader, sunnydays +, writes (1 August 2005):
This is definitely a hard one for you. But at the end of the day he is with you and not her. If she still fancies him and if he fancied her, then he would be with her. My current boyfriend still sees he last two exes. One is still interested in him but he still catches up with her now and then. At first it kind of bothered me as it is not something I would do. But he is with me not her. So trust your man. At least he is telling you and not hiding it from you. You can't stop your partner from having friends and he would just resent you for it if you tried to. But in saying all this, if this girl is making it obvious she is still interested in your man and making moves on him then I would talk to him and try and make him see it from your point of view. Good luck!
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