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writes: Hiya, I'm a 22 year old girl and I feel so confused. I've been going out with a lad for 3 years and he's wonderful, but last weekend I went on a night out with his sister. We were drunk and we ended up having sex. This was my first time with a person of the same sex and it really turned me on. She wants to see me again. I don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend but his sister is so damm sexy. Please help!
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reader, vern  +, writes (26 August 2009):
That's a very familiar story, as a matter a fact I know of this one female that did just that to all her bothers wife and a girlfriend....coming to find out when I was dating him she never tried any thing on me but! what the sick thing of it all..the stupid broad was having sex with her own biological brother when they would get plastered together alone from downing almost gallons of hard liquor...she would never tell him I called or tell him the message's I had for him. But what it comes down too either she got animosity towards her brother or some kind of a scheme to break you guys up..watch out because he will eventually find out and it will not be the same. Don't ever do it again and ask questions about their past too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2005): Well i disagree with that wman who had a go at you for gettin drunk & doing that- i mean fair enough if it was with a male, there's no excusing that kinda thing but the fact it was with another girl changes everything, it's just a bit of a bugger that it's his sister! Nevertheless he's gonna be just as much fascinated as angry i'll bet!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2005): This type of relationship isn't just about the two of you, it's about him and his entire family. Before you take any steps further, you really need to discuss this with her and think of the painful consequences this can cause..if you two are ever found out. Think of the the pain and hurt you will cause your bf and the destruction of his relationship with his sister.
You can't always control your feelings, but you can control your actions. And before you act further, you need to consider his entire family and what something like this could do to your bf and his sister's future as siblings. Long after you hit the road, they still have a long life ahead of them where they will always be interacting at family functions and it's crucial in any family that a sense of fairness, respect, togetherness, support and love co-exsist...keeping the family unit functioning in a healthy way. Please...give this some further thought.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (16 August 2005):
 I remember in a girlie magazine, they used to have a column titled the worst trick you played ...I think your story would fit..I know it is not a trick but regardless of you getting drunk or not...this should not have happened at all. I may sound harsh here...but getting drunk in the first place and losing this much control of your senses was irresponsible. This is your boyfriend you are talking about here...someone you share a love with. This would devastate him. My honest advice would be ..you need to think about what you want and make a decision...either way it is going to hurt your boyfriend. If you break up with him for her...the family will be in turmoil...if you break up with him to experiment on your own...he will be in turmoil...decide because hurting someone who loves you for irresponsibility is just cruel and awful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2005): Depends what you want?
Could you handle the same scenario in reverse? If you love your boyfriend why are you considering an activity which could not just tear you apart but could shatter his family life? His sister may have issues of her own and this may be why she is so disregarding of her brothers right to a relationship uncomplicated by dishonesty which she is party to. Im sorry to sound harsh but i think you need to work out what exactly is missing in your relationship, when you have worked that out then by all means sort it or seek that solution eleswhere. Being excited at the prospect of a forbidden encounter is fine, getting into a situation because you are drunk may be permissible. Planning to cheat with your boyfriends sister is potentially cruel and dangerous. Good luck with the decision
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2005): One Man's Point of View:
The sister sounds like the better option in my opinion. Guys are a dime a dozen, hot girls are much harder to find. Unless you're me.
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