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writes: There are three men in my life, one has been transferred back to my town and is my teenage sweetheart, though he left me for another girl three years ago with intentions to marry her, though the wedding never took off, but have a child together. He says he made a mistake and has realized he loved me all along. I know all his friends and get along with his family members, he’s two years older than me. The other one stays on a farm, 30 minutes drive from my town. He’s 35, am 23, he’s single and has never been married before, only stayed with his girlfriend for three years, until she cheated on him. I’ve only met one friend of his. We usually see each other over the weekend and I always have to spend the weekend on the farm, then he takes me back on Sunday. Reason being the farm is busy and he has to be readily available. He has never aired his feelings, but gets upset when I tell him; I want to spend the weekend in town. He calls me often during the week.The third one is long distant, in another country, we met over the phone, and we really get along, he helps me in whatever way he can, and calls me every day. He’s divorced and has two kids, his wife left him, he’s seven years older than me, he’s coming back home in two months time and he hoping a serious relationship will crop out of our friendship. I feel comfortable with him, and love talking to him.I’m not the kind who likes having many men, but I’m having a difficult decision making a choice here, because it will have to be a solid one, for I want a long term relationship with only one of them, help me, give me tips to know whose real serious, questionnaires something help please?Desperate.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (20 August 2005):
 Stop....!!! Step away from the display window. Go by yourself somewhere and think about YOU. Think about what you want...what you need...what you desire. Then don't settle for less than that. If none of them fit that ...then take care of yourself and be happy.
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