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writes: Dear I came to know this guy in the office and one day he invited me for a dinner as he was leaving the country for some other country. And on that first night, we went to this indian restaurant. And he mentioned that he has a girlfriend, and he invited me for 3 more dinners and once with his friend with us. During the last days, he was kind of very protective, and he held me closer, and sometimes caress my neck, or my belly when I least expected it. And he takes my hand and hold it in his. And I am always nervous and didn't know how to react. I don't know if he is being friendly or not. He said he will be coming in October. nadiine
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reader, missdee +, writes (7 September 2005):
You have let this go way to far already. When he told you he had a girlfriend you should stopped it there. If you had a boyfriend would you want your boyfriend doing what he is doing to someone else. I am sure his girlfriend wouldn't approve either. The guy has no respect for women.
I would say he is doing the overprotective thing to keep you hanging on until he's back again so he will have you waiting on him. Have you ever considered he may have a girlfriend everywhere he goes? Sounds like it. Irish is right the guy sound like a player, move on. There are alot of available men out there that will be only with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2005): Nadine-he touches you this boldly and you ask if he's being friendly? I would say he's being way too friendly and is coming on like gangbusters to you. He has the hots for you and if he has a gf, whom he doesn't speak about too often..he's looking for a good time on the side. And if your not looking to be some man's little "plaything and fluff" on the side-and feel you deserve better...tell him to take a hike and don't do any more suppers with him. He sounds like he may be a player and when you play with fire you will gt burned, Nadine. Be careful. Don't see him socially, alone and move on and date available, unattached men.
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