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The guy I want, wants someone else. And she's not ready for anything "serious"...

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Question - (20 August 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

I've been talking to this guy for about a month now and we met on MySpace.

Anyway he is such a good guy and I really like him and I think he could like me. Only problem is he likes another girl who just got out of a messy relationship and made it known that she doesn't want anything serious now. He is ready for serious dating, as well as me. He said he won't wait for her forever, but I really like him and it just seems like he could like me if not for her.

I've had a lot of bad relationships and this guy is one of the good ones. We have so much in common and he's so sweet! I feel really good whenever I talk to him.. It seems as if this girl won't be ready for a commitment for a while now. I don't know what to do. Please help me!!

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A reader, pops +, writes (20 August 2005):

So, ask him out. Get to know him in person, and not on the web. Nothing will happen unless one of you makes the first move. Sounds like that is you.

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A reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (20 August 2005):

Wake up! I know you aint thick! You telling me you chose bad relationships? No, ... the relationships started off good then goes wrong, same could happen in this situation, i dont doubt but how do you know he is a good one, months down the road when you fidn out more you may realise that he is actually a bad one.

by the sounds of things you aint told him that you like him?

Are you going to wait for this other girl to become stable and get that guy? No..you would be heartbroken if that happened, the time is now!!

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