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writes: Me and my ex were engaged in Feburuary and called off the wedding in March. Then we broke up for good and i moved back home in June. We broke up because we just argued about little stuff too much. Ever since then, I have stayed with him a few times and we get along great. We go out of town and just have fun together as friends. We both say we still have feelings for each other, but that we don't want to get back together any time soon. Now this girl has been calling and texting him a lot and he responds to her. We've known her for a while and he now says she may move in with him cause he needs a roommate to help with bills. But he hasn't talked to her about it yet. I stayed at his house all last week and just left yesterday, because we both needed to get away for a bit. Then I drove by his house this morning and her car is in his driveway. She is one of our friend's exes and he talks about how big she has gotten and just doesn't seem like his type. He also tells me he doesn't want to be with anyone right now. He says he has no feelings for her at all and never has. Should I believe him? Or do you think he is dragging me along till he finds out I know he likes her? Maybe it is about the roommate thing; she may have slept in the other room, I don't know. I'm not going to tell him I drove by there, I'm just gonna go with the flow, but what is your advice to me of what I have told you??
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (6 August 2005):
 You answered your question already sweetie...he needs to find out how he feels for her first before he does anything concerning you. I am sure that you two have feelings for each other..but use your head and see this for what it is. I am sorry if I am sounding so harsh but I am seeing it unfold in your letter what is going to happen. Here is a somethign for you to think about...how about you don't make yourself so available to him and stop staying over there...see his reaction ....take care ana
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