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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Email, SMS and call all in one day from ex-husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - What do I do? My ex-husband remarried very soon after our divorce. This was a couple of years ago. He has never totally let go. He has constantly stayed in touch every few months or so. This last call was very heart wrenching as he laid bare his...

I want my ex back but he's not interested. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I still like my ex but he does not want to get back with me. We are both in our thirties, and our relationship was very complicated. He had kids, I have a child, ex-partners etc etc ......it was very difficult at times for us to be happy. We live in ...

Why would she deactivate her profile after mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

28 February 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I know I'm young. I know I've got my whole life ahead of me. But I was with my on/off girlfriend for a couple of years. Rumour had it she cheated. The usual stuff I guess when you're young. Anyway, things got a little messy. W...

Should I back off and forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - About a month and a half ago, I was at a local bar with my best friend and his younger sister and her friend. One of their guy friends came over to the table. I will call him Michael. I had seen him around before and thought he was good looking but ...

Is it silly to date an ex? Has he really grown up and sorted himself out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - My ex has changed so much in the past few months, it's like he is a different person. I can't stop thinking about him and now he wants to get back together but I'm still hurting from the way he acted when we were together. So, we were together fo...

I resent that his ex-wife expects me and my family to run errands for her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - I am frustrated and unhappy and thinking of leaving my 3 year relationship. My live in divorced boyfriend's ex wife seems to think it is appropriate for everyone to run errands for her and thir child. She instructs him to tell me to pick up art ...

She's upset because I didn't change my FB status, am I in the wrong here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

26 February 2014 (M) - Thanks for reading - not sure who to ask so going to ask you lovely people :) I have been on a few dates with a girl - i am 26 and she is 24 and she is very pretty and when we had our first date, we hit it off. She gave me butterflies and ...

Why is the ex back in touch? Is he just playing games or is he for real?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

26 February 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid... Its me again.... its been over a month now and I have not talked to my ex, he started calling me back about a week ago and he is still calling and sending me text messages.I have not responded to him at all. I mean he said that he did ...

His ex limits my access to their daughter, but she's about to get a sibling

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - I'm hoping someone can give me some advice about the situation that I have found myself in. My boyfriend and I are expecting a baby in the summer, and my boyfriend's daughter from a previous relationship is really excited about having a baby bro...

Things were a bit of a blur when we saw each other and I'm not sure how to respond to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - Why did my ex contact me, and what should I do?. Last time I saw him, I went to his place. We have met a few times recently. We went out for drinks. It went well at first. I had some cider, which I am used to drinking. However, he gave me some ...

Will he be better to her than he was to me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

25 February 2014 (F) - Will he be different with her? My husband and I divorced mainly because he was very emotionally/verbally abusive and he walked out. We have a child together-so I try to maintain a civil relationship with him because of that. He has a girlfr...

Is there any way to improve this situation? My ex is now working here and is dating a guy with a bigger job than I have!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

24 February 2014 (M) - So I guess there are two parts to this that need explained. First my job. I've been working in my job for a while now; it's a job in the intended career path I've chosen for myself (got a degree at university to do this line of work). I'm go...

Hurt me once, shame on you. Hurt me twice, shame on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - I dated and fell in love with a guy in the summer/ fall of 2012, but who ultimately went back to his ex (a prior very long term relationship) and was living with her. We reconnected some months thereafter where we talked about how much we still ...

I am losing sleep and feeling really down on my self because he is having trouble getting over this, he makes me out to be such a horrible uncaring person!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Okay I am having issues getting through a little speed bump with my boyfriend. There has been absolutely no cheating or lying just something from my past he cant get over. We had known each other for quite some time but only started seeing each ...

I am friends with a guy but it's too soon after my recent break up to take it further. What can I do? I don't want to lose him as a friend or potential partner.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - I broke up with an ex about 6 weeks ago and for the past 3 weekends I've been hanging out with a male friend. He's been wonderful helping me get over my breakup but last weekend he began dropping hints how he thinks I'm "wonderful", he said loves ...

Why was my boyfriend more experimental with his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - I know from little conversations we've had here and there that my boyfriend had much more experimental sex with his ex. Questions like: have you done this or that before? To which he might say yes.. We have a great sex life anyway, he tells me I'm ...

He lied to me about being married and now I feel wrecked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi, I met this guy who seemed to b really nice he treated me pretty well I don't know he was a married man, we had sex a couple of times but within 3 months he felt like he needed some space to study about a month, I felt hurt like i was gonna a ...

His breakup excuse has confused me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend broke things off with me after 3 years saying that I am an "amazing" person but his "taste" has changed over the years since we have been together. What does that even mean?? I feel awful. I am a beautiful girl and was nothing but ...

Does he want me or not? Why stalk me but not speak to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - i had a relationship with a man that was at the point of engagement. while there were some communication issues to be worked out, he left the relationship before sorting anything. now that we are apart, he does not want to be together and won't ...

Do I stay or let him go? Just found out that my Bf is expecting a child with his Ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

22 February 2014 (?) - I have just found out that my boyfriend (whom I have crazily fallen for, never had a man treat me so amazing) is expecting a baby with his ex. I am a jealous person (unfortunately) and I see myself becoming pushed down on his priority list when thi...

Do I preserve my family or go with the love of my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

21 February 2014 (M) - Hi all, im after some advice please , around 12 years ago i met the love of my life, we saw each other for a year and went our seperate ways due to seveveral miss understandings, weve always kept in contact losely but over the past year we got...

How to clarify where I stand with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - After almost 2 and a half years my partner decided to end things out of the blue about 6 weeks ago. I am heartbroken and shocked. It's now been a week since I moved out of our joint apartment and he texts me constantly. He hasn't deleted our rela...

Advice for a broken heart.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I reunited after our breakup back in November. We were hanging out enjoying each others company, almost like it was new and exciting again. He started to become distant and having less contact with me in the past few weeks. I as...

My ex who tried to ruin my relationship has contacted me. I don't want to hurt her, but I don't want to hurt my partner. What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

21 February 2014 (M) - Me and my ex broke up back in June after being together for a year and a half. We tried being friends but this proved impossible after I started seeing someone four months later. This lead to something of a bitter parting for us. She and her family ...

Should I contact my ex? It's 6 months since I finished the relationship, and this would have been our 6 year anniversary.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Hi aunts, I'm feeling a little low. I was in a relationship for 5 and a half years. We were childhood sweethearts and got to together at the age of 17. I loved him to pieces but the relationship fizzled out after around the 4th year. We stayed ...

She broke up with me, acts like we're still in a relationship, but is talking to other guys

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

19 February 2014 (M) - So my girlfriend broke up with me after a year of being together. We moved in together after three months of being together so we have a close bond. My ex states that she doesnt think she loves me enough and that she isn't happy within herself so ...

Do I keep blocking him or unblock him? I think how I've moved on is the best revenge?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - I had a few posts here and got really good advice. My ex dumped me nearly a year ago. We talked a few times. I initiated contact most of the times. I couldn't let go and get over him because we planned to get married before we broke up and he's my ...

I got involved with a male colleague who's not single. Now he's cut me out of his life. How do I move on and forgive myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - Hi all I'm not asking for niceness but I feel extremely low. I stupidly fell for a guy that was attached, we were good friends and he helped me through a lot of personal stuff, he was with a girl he bought a house with. He told everyone at work...

Should I let one ex help me get over another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I have just come out of a horrible relationship of 10 months. Another ex contacted me to ask if I was ok. He has been really supportive listening and taking me out to cheer me up. We broke up amicably last year because he wasn't over his ex and I ...

How can I meet someone who is the average only?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I don't know what else to do with my life. I am at my wits end. I just came from a break-up from my 4 year relationship and I am trying to meet new people. I am in a location where it's really difficult to find a new partner. It's either peop...

I have the most amazing partner in life, can I stop having random dreams about my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I'm 22. To cut a long story short(er), last year I broke up with my ex after having discovered he'd cheated on me numerous times during our 3 year relationship. To make it worse, I had no clue nor did he do anything that raised my suspicions, ...

I am writing because I feel so low .............

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I'm writing this because I'm feeling so low, and maybe any answers might help. To cut it short, I met this guy many years back, we started off as friends, He lived away from me, but when we met up, it became more than friends. I then found out he w...

I don't see my boyfriend as long term material and I wonder about my ex FWB. Any ideas what I should do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a month now. Actually, we have dated before, over a year ago and it lasted about 10 months back then. We remained really good friends while we were not together, even though I was dating someone else. Afte...

Getting mixed signals from my ex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I need some advice! So my ex boyfriend and I are on and off, I haven't seen him in 2 weeks, I got the impression he was losing interest and distancing himself from me, so I left him alone. He sent me a text on valentines day n...

Should I have talked to my Ex Husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

16 February 2014 (?) - My ex husband and I have been separated for 3 and half years, due to his constant online cheating. After the split, things got ugly and he turned into a very ugly person, calling me names and threats, our kids dont talk to him. I saw him this wee...

He broke up with me but I keep hearing how emotional he is about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - I'll try to make this as short as I can... About a month ago, my boyfriend of a year dumped me. His reasons for dumping me were, because he wanted to be single, he thought we were more like "buddies", and he was "tired of hurting me". Our ...

I just cant forget and get the trust back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - I took my boyfriend back after he cheated on me. the thing is I truely love him and cant let him go. He broke myy heart and i still feel numb. I know it's over between him and the girl, he endedit (she told me- after he ended it as she was angry ...

This Is For The Broken-Hearted on Valentine's Day

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

14 February 2014 (?) - Hello,readers! Here it is again! The day you see those gigantic red symbols called valentines; which are supposed to be hearts. They don't even look like a heart. Well, if they stick a knife through it, tear a hole, then fray the edges, it will b...

Would it be a bad idea for me to get in touch with my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - I'm not sure whether to contact my ex or not. We haven't spoken for a year and a half. The last time I spoke to him, he told me that he didn't want us to contact each other again. We used to have a lot of arguments, and now that I am older and a lot ...

Wondering if he sent a Valentines Day card to his ex-girlfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - We have been engaged for 3 years now. The first year we dated I found out he sent his ex-girlfriend a birthday card. She had broke up with him and he was hurt pretty bad by the breakup since he loved her, wanted to marry her and he proposed to her ...

I can't get my boyfriend's ex off my mind..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - So this is my last resort.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while with a little break in between (my choice). And in that break, he got in contact with his ex. He told me he only did it to make me jealous. And it worked.. I started ...

What is the problem with me and dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

13 February 2014 (?) - Hello cupids. I ended my last relationship on the 30th of december 2012 and have been single for over a year. It hurts me that non of my relationships always see new year and am also always single on vals day so is going to be this vals day. The t...

My ex can't cope with me seeing another guy I dated before him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - I dated a guy last year for two months who wasnt over his ex and we broke up. We had a great time but I could see he was still hurting over her and bowed out gracefully. Soon after I met a separated guy who was close to divorce after a 4 year s...

My ex-boyfriend is telling people I cheated on him! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - My ex-boyfriend is telling people I cheated on him. I never cheated on him. When we broke up, I dated a couple people but we were broken up for about 4 months. It is so devastating because my ex best friend hangs with him and his friends and they ...

Why is my ex adding me on social media sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - Ok, so a couple months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. We only went out for about three months. He was nice and sweet I guess and I liked him a lot, but I didn't really ever get close to him. After three months I was still very shy around him. ...

Do I just tell her outright that I like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

10 February 2014 (M) - Ok so there is a girl at work who I get on with really well, we have loads in common and we are really on the "same page" with all our thoughts/opinions. I'm 22 and she is 19. I like her, but she has a boyfriend of two years. All of my colleagues ...

I sent an embarassing drunk text to my ex. Should I apologize or leave it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - My ex broke up with me 5 months ago. We sometimes see each other in mutual events. We are friendly with each other at the events. Sometimes we talk to each other, sometimes we don't I drunk texted him two times before. The first time was on my b...

Should we stay 'just good friends' at the expense of my heart, or should I cut & run, even if it hurts both of us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - I'm romantically interested in a guy who isn't over his ex, who left him in extremely abrupt circumstances approx. 4 months ago. We get along brilliantly and he's the first person I've ever truly 'clicked' with in terms of personality. The problem ...

Could my ex have undetected HIV if he received a blood transfusion years ago, before blood testing was standard procedure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

9 February 2014 (F) - I have a concern, not mentioned on the site before to my knowledge. It involves HIV from blood transfusions. I've noticed that in the years where a potential partner would be born was when they didn't test for HIV in the blood. So basically is it ...

Awkward ending to a night out with the guy I used to date. Should I contact him or did I blow it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

8 February 2014 (F) - Have I blown it with this man, and should I contact him or wait and see if I bump into him? I briefly went out with this man last year. I wouldn't exactly call him an ex, we didn't date for long, and we didn't have sex.He still contacts me from...