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*onfusedKid18
writes:Dear Cupid, I know I'm young. I know I've got my whole life ahead of me. But I was with my on/off girlfriend for a couple of years. Rumour had it she cheated. The usual stuff I guess when you're young.Anyway, things got a little messy. We said and done some horrible things to each other when we broke up. She was playing games. She did go with other guys. I believe she is with another guy now. I called her names.She would call all the time. I would call her. Anyway, a few days ago I decided to make a clean break. This wasn't doing anyone any good. I changed my number. My email. And decided to close my profile and start another one on that very popular social networking site. What I should say is she would post photos on there that I would see and my friends would see that I thought was about me but I just let it go. Broken hearts, coffee shop photos. We use to like to go for coffee together. Beach photos. We loved going to the beach too. I thought I was reading too much into it. Especially if she was with this new guy. So anyway, I closed my page and started a new one. About a couple of hours in I remembered I should block her on my new account because I didn't want her to know. Bearing in mind I'd deactivated my old one. When I went to find her though I couldn't find her. Anyway turns out she had deactivated hers after mine. I always felt like she was watching me. Just strange things have happened. But am I just being silly about this. Why would she deactivate her profile after mine? I'm just trying to be level headed about this.
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reader, DragonMan +, writes (28 February 2014):
 Greetings,
I believe you are over thinking this.
She is an ex, you wanted to walk away and get some closure. You were smart enough to block her so as not to be bothered by her but your curiosity is getting the better of you.
To be honest thinking about her reasons WHY she deactivated her account is no longer anything you need to worry about, just move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2014): It sounds like a very childish game that she is playing, the best thing is probably to forget about her and move on as you said you were trying to do. Forget about the account, if she wants to keep playing games and messing with other people's heads and hearts then let her, just don't be the fool to let her play with yours. Ignore her and get on with your own life.
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