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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Why did my ex contact me, and what should I do?. Last time I saw him, I went to his place. We have met a few times recently. We went out for drinks. It went well at first. I had some cider, which I am used to drinking. However, he gave me some whisky after that, and I think it is strong. I'm not used to drinking it. It went straight to my head!. I was laughing a lot at first. Then, he started talking about a woman that he used to like, and said he bumped into her again recently. I cant remember if he said that he still likes her now. Its a bit of a blur. When he mentioned the woman, I got jealous and said "oh, so I'm not the only person you like then?". He told me that he has liked a few people, but hasn't dated anyone. He apparently hasn't dated anyone since me and him finished. I was dating someone though after we finished. He also said "well, you're the one that dated someone. I haven't dated anyone". He told me that he didn't want to argue. We both lost track of the time, as we were both drunk. I felt bad, because he had to get up early for work. He could only have two hours sleep , as he had to get up for work then. I didn't intend staying late, and I didn't want to stay over. I wasn't feeling very well, so I wanted to go home. He told me that he wanted to go to bed and he wouldn't see that I got home ok. I cant remember when he unlocked the door, but he unlocked it, and then got in bed. We kissed, and he was stroking my face. He wanted me to stay there.I tried to wake him up to tell him that I wanted him to lock the door, and tell him I was leaving, but he wouldn't wake up. I left his place and the door was still unlocked. I hope he is ok. I was annoyed that he didn't see me into the taxi though. He tried to contact me a couple of days ago. I had five missed calls from him on my mobile phone, and two text messages. In one text, he wrote " You were wrong, ha ha ha, hello ". And in the other message, he wrote " I take it you aren't talking to me ". What do you think he meant when he said I was wrong?. When he couldn't get through to me on my mobile phone, he called me home number. I didn't answer, as I wasn't at home. My mum answered it. He asked if I was there, and my mum told him that I had gone out. He told her to tell me that he had tried to call me, and said he would call me again. He also left avoice message on my mobile phone. He said he wanted to know what he had done wrong. Do you think I should call him or text him, or should I wait until he contacts me again?. If I do contact him, what should I say?. I don't think he would call so much, and call both phone numbers, if eh wasn't interested. I don't know what his intentions are though. .
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (26 February 2014):
 I am actually inclined to believe that he wants to get back with you. Why would he waste time calling when he already go sex. You however need to decide what you want. I agree anonymous, go ahead and call him and meet and clear the air. Sounds like its time fore a frank discussion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2014): The only way to find out his intentions are to call him and ask him, LOL. This time stay sober. If your intentions are not the same as his, tell him you've moved on and think that he should do the same.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (25 February 2014):
 "If I do contact him, what should I say?". IF you're Hell-bent to contact him, you say, "Ya know that night we spent together? Welll, it resulted from YOU giving ME alcohol... and isn't EVER, EVER, EVER going to happen again." Then.....
"I don't know what his intentions are though". His intentions are as clear as crystal glass.... HE knows that YOU still carry a spark for him. AND, he KNOWS that, if he bides his time, and behaves correctly, he can get you to put out for him.... Beyond that, you know all you need to know to keep away from this guy.... UNLESS, you wish to be a strumpet for him...
Good luck...
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