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Archived questions from: August, 2005 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

My mates told lies about me to her, but now I'd like to get to know her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7051 days ago

31 August 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm a 15 year old boy. Last year there was this girl I really liked. But because I couldn't talk to her without laughing and because I told my mates that I thought about her all the time they told her and said I'd said I had kissed her, so she ...

What can I do to stop thinking about a family friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7049 days ago

31 August 2005 (F) - I am 16 and have just realized that I have always had feelings for someone. The problem is he is about 30, married, and a family friend. I know I am not in love with him but I can't stop thinking about him and I am finding it hard to talk to him ...

What do I say to the sexy girl at the library who keeps smiling at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7043 days ago

30 August 2005 (?) - I go to my local library nearly every day. I love it, but when I see this girl(17-20 years old) so she's about five years older than me. The thing about her is that she is damn sexy. She gives me this really really weird smile. She has a boyfri...

Three years ago, I broke up with her. I want to go out with her, but she won't say why she won't

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7053 days ago

30 August 2005 (M) - I broke up with my girl three years ago, because of peer presure and now I want it back. Everyone said that I could do better and said countless negative things about her. She had just moved into my town and had not really settled in, so she was ...

She might be the right girl for me, but I barely know her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7052 days ago

30 August 2005 (M) - Hey Cupid, I'm only 16 and been in love heaps of times, but I have found the right girl (I think). I hardly know her but she is always on my mind. She is only 14. Is there anything wrong with that? I dont know what to say to her. I dont know how t...

What can I do to get him to notice me?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I'm in love with this boy and he doesn't notice me, even though I'm very pretty and very smart. What should I do?...

We met on holiday, and live so far apart... Do we have a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7052 days ago

29 August 2005 (F) - hi my name is alex, 16, from Newcastle. I see a counsellor about my depression, as I used to be really fat but then I lost loads of weight and I am now happy the way I am, and also about the bullying back home, and the fact that I feel that I cannot...

I really like him and I want to ask him out...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7054 days ago

29 August 2005 (F) - Hi, I am a teenage girl working with this lovely fella. I really like him. I get really nervous around him. I have never had a boyfriend before. He is way more experienced than me. I want to ask him out. ...

We went from serious to "friends" to him having a new girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7054 days ago

28 August 2005 (F) - Hi I went out with a guy for a week and it got very serious very quickly... He seemed to really like me, calling me beautiful and that he would be dreaming about me etc... then he told me on our econd date that he wanted me to be his friend.....

Should I consider a relationship with my friend's older brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

28 August 2005 (F) - I am a 15 year old female that acts a lot older than my actual age. I am often drinking alcohol and I smoke up to 30 fags a day. My mate who is the same age as me has a brother of 19. Recently I have heard he really likes me. Trouble is we live in ...

Should I have sex with a boy who only "cares" for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

28 August 2005 (F) - I am a girl who had been in love with a guy for 2 years. He doesn't love me, he cares for, me but I doubt he loves me. He wants sex, and I am a virgin. Should I do it or not? The country I live in doesn't approve of such stuff but it's happenin...

Little sister reminds me of the girl I love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7055 days ago

28 August 2005 (M) - I'm 17, and a senior in high school. I just got out of a relationship with a girl who is now a freshmen in college. I love her so much, and she is who I am meant to be with. I would give anything to be with her, and her only. But she is not ...

What do I do about my friend's girlfriend starting to like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

27 August 2005 (M) - My friend's girlfriend has taken a liking to me, which she has told me herself! I also really fancy her, however I don't know what is the right thing to do! Please help me!...

We had sex and forgot the condom!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7045 days ago

27 August 2005 (M) - Hi I'm a 14 year old boy and I've been with my girlfriend (who is 16 in October) for 3 months now and it's been great. We get on very well and I really do think we can and will last, but our parents are against us. No reason, just don't like it, so ...

I'm 16 and I hate my body because I don't look like those famous, sexy women!

This question has 75 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

26 August 2005 (?) - I'm 16 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for around 3 months. My friends all make jokes about their boyfriends' bodies, but I'm so scared that I'm never going to be able to take my clothes off in front of someone. I'm not exactly fat, I'm...

We cheapened what could have been by having text-sex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

26 August 2005 (F) - Hey...I'm a sixteen year old girl, and I have got a big problem. At about this time last year, I met a guy who was in the year above me at school, but whom I hadn't noticed before. When I got talking to him I liked him straight away, he seemed so ...

Little things about my appearance are things he wants to change. Should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7056 days ago

26 August 2005 (F) - I'm with a guy who's 11 months younger than I am. Recently he has stated that there are some things that he doesn't like about my appearance. I'ts all little stuff (unplucked eyebrows, hair length etc) And a lot of it is stuff I either don't mind ...

I'm so shy that I have trouble talking with my girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7058 days ago

25 August 2005 (M) - I have been dating a girl for about three months and I think I'm in love with her, but I doubt she feels the same. I'm usually very shy and even after three months I still get really nervous around her and don't know what to say. I'm afraid I'll ...

I'm 12 and I keep arguing with my mum...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

24 August 2005 (F) - I am 12 and having problems with my mum. We argue all the time and I am getting depressed! There must be one of you out there who has gone through the same thing as I am now! Please just give me some advice on what to do....

My folks like my 17-year-old boyfriend, but they won't let us date!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

24 August 2005 (F) - I'm a 14 year old girl with a 17 year old bf. I have never met someone quite like him and I really know I love him and hope this relationship will work out. My parents have met him and said they liked him but won't ever let me see him because ...

My boyfriend says he love me, then goes on to talk about another girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7059 days ago

24 August 2005 (?) - hi There is this boy I like, he is my ex and he dumped me for my best friend. I really liked him and I still do, a lot, and I think it might even be love. Since then, I've had a boyfriend who my ex was quite close with. We flirted with each oth...

My son wears his sister's bikini bottoms!

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

23 August 2005 (F) - If anyone can help me with this problem, then advice is appreciated! I came back home from work one day to find my #16-year-old son sitting in the garden wearing his 19-year-old sister's white bikini (it was a hot day). His sister was at univ...

My parents don't approve of my boyfriend...

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

23 August 2005 (F) - I am going to be 14 in December and my boyfriend is 19. I really like him and I feel he is the one for me. My parents don't approve. How can I be with him without him getting in trouble and get jail time? He says he don't want to go to jail but...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

22 August 2005 (M) - I have known this gorgous girl for many years and I think the next step is the great idea, but she is really popular at school and I think of myself as ugly. I don't think this is just a crush, I really really like her and I feel she might want the...

We don't see each other as much, because of his working hours...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7061 days ago

22 August 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been dating this lad for 5 months and he is 1 year old than me. We both work at the same place, however now he has to quit because he is an apprentice at this place. He has to work more hours than me and so I will hardly get to s...

We were great together when we were friends, but now that we're dating... it's different!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7062 days ago

21 August 2005 (M) - Hi there's a girl that I really like and before we started going out we were great together. I could be myself which was amazing because I'd never felt that way around a girl before. Now that we are together feels like she doesn't really care abo...

He said he didn't like me "that way", but now he's different. Does that mean he likes me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7062 days ago

20 August 2005 (F) - Ok so I've liked this guy for a while now and we have been pretty good friends. A few months ago I told him that I liked him but he turned me down, saying that he doesn't feel the same way. Then a few days ago I started to like him again and I to...

We're great friends and I don't want to give that up, so I'm afraid to risk anything more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7064 days ago

19 August 2005 (M) - I'm a 16 year old male, and me and my best friend (15 girl) have started getting closer, and she has been hinting at a relationship. First, you have to understand that we were "talking" once before, but it didn't go anywhere, and it was kind of a...

He listened to friends' lies about me, but now he wants to get back together...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7028 days ago

18 August 2005 (F) - My boyfriend finished with me because he didn't trust me. He listened to stories about me from other people and belived them, but not me. He said he wanted to end our relationship. It was the worst day of my life and I ran out of school. I didn't w...

I have issues about staying in any relationship. Everything feels wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7063 days ago

18 August 2005 (M) - Hi my name's Chris and I'm 16. I have this issue, that when I'm with someone, everything feels so wrong. I never admit I'm in a relationship, and if i get in trouble of any sort under any circumstances, I feel as though I have to break up with the ...

Am I a virgin if I had a gay experience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7065 days ago

18 August 2005 (M) - I'm 15 and I've been doing sexual thing with a guy friend that I know and he is about 4 years older than me. My question is last night I went to his house and we watched a movie and then we eventually ended up on the floor and with our clothes ...

She likes me? She likes me not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7066 days ago

17 August 2005 (M) - I am 16 years of age and interested in what you think I should do about a certain situation. There is this girl in my school which I really do like. We didn't really know each other (and still don't) but I could tell that at one time she liked me...

Need some tips on ways to get this girl to meet me, just us two...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7066 days ago

17 August 2005 (M) - Help me please. I like this girl and I text her all the time. We aren't going out with each other. I fancy her but she doesn't know. I would say we are good friends with each other as well. I asked her if she wanted to meet up and go out and she ...

Boys never want me as a girlfriend. I'm always "just a friend"...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7065 days ago

17 August 2005 (F) - Hiya, I have trouble getting boyfriends. It's that Im always the friend, never the girlfriend. I've tried asking my friends whats wrong with me and they say I'm a fine atractive girl and it's their loss if they dont like me that way, but if t...

How do I approach that sexy shop girl and start talking to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7066 days ago

17 August 2005 (M) - What can I do? I love this gal. I'm a boy aged 18. The thing with me is I'm so attracted to one gal I always meet in a shop. She is a shop assistant. I meet her every time I get into that shop to buy my phone voucher thing. The main problem ...

I'm tired, I'm depressed and my grades are slipping because I just don't care any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7066 days ago

17 August 2005 (F) - Hi. I am a sixteen year old girl, and for as long as I can remember, I had always been the best student in class, teacher's pet, straight A's etc. However for the past two years or so, my grades have started slipping badly. I just feel like I c...

Don't want to break my boyfriend's heart, but I keep thinking about another guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6713 days ago

16 August 2005 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for about 1 year and a half and I love him so much. He is my first love and I do want to be with him forever. The thing is, I keep thinking about someone else who used to fancy me ages ago and I can't tell if I may...

I'm 14 and falling for a 21-year-old!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

16 August 2005 (F) - I'm 14 years old and I've recently become involved with a guy who is 21. I know this is quite a big age gap but I think I'm falling for him. He's told me that he likes me and we get on really well and talk all the time, but revently he's been ...

Should I wait 'til I leave school to pursue anything with the PE teaching assistant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

15 August 2005 (F) - I'm 17 years old and this is my last year at school. Last year we had a very young and very hot student PE teacher who I found myself attracted to. I bizarrely started to think he liked me as well, as he would ask me to stay behind after class an...

Falling for my boss... but I'm only thirteen!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

15 August 2005 (F) - Hi I am only 13 years old, which is young. Recently I have found myself falling for my part-time boss. I dont know whether this is love or lust. He is about 36 and I know it probably won't be serious. I am getting mixed messages from him. ...

Worried that I am "genophobic"!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

15 August 2005 (F) - Hi...Im a 17 year old girl and a virgin. I have heard of a condition called genophobia and i think i might be suffering from it...however, when attempting sex with my bf, I do want to have sex, I do not avoid trying to have sex...It is just that ...

Why did my chat guy go from flirty to hostile?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7068 days ago

15 August 2005 (F) - I fancy this lad, at first the chatting was friendly, then it got really flirty. He found out a while ago I liked him and kind of started to mock me a little. I asked him if he liked me he said he thought I was cute and sound. But after this the ...

We don't want to use condoms, but how do I get on the Pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6402 days ago

15 August 2005 (F) - Hey, I'm 17 years old and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for around 5 months now. I'm a virgin and we have talked about having sex several times and we are both fine with the idea of it. The only problem is that I'm a bit scared a...

Not sure if I should date the boy I fancy, or his nephew!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7069 days ago

14 August 2005 (F) - I am thirteen, and I fancy a boy. He says he likes me too. Trouble is he is one of those boys who say things like that to make you feel better. Thing is, I asked him out about a month ago, and I don't know if he is winding me up. Plus, his nephew ...

We used to text for fun, but lately she calls me 'hun' and 'babes'...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7068 days ago

14 August 2005 (M) - Help please. I kind of like this girl who I used to hang out with but now I just text her every day. Anyway when I first started texting her it was normal. But now when she texts me she says 'hi hun' and I call her 'babe' now! And now I think sh...

My lack of sexual experience compared to my girlfriend is making me insecure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7030 days ago

14 August 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm 17 years old and have been dating a girl for over a year now. I have a little jealousy problem though. When she was 14, she lost her virginity. Now, to me that seems way too young. I mean, if it was 16 or something I'd feel a little better a...

I don't know how he really feels, so, what if I ask him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7070 days ago

13 August 2005 (F) - Hi. I'm a 18-year-old girl. I'm in love with a boy who sits next to me in class. He's smart, tall and absolutely cute. We always talk jokingly to each other that make me so happy. Just to hear his voice every day makes me over the moon. I always ...

I have to make something happen with this girl before she leaves for uni!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7071 days ago

12 August 2005 (M) - About six months ago, I really started liking this girl. I couldn't stop thinking about her. But she was a senior, and I was a junior. I tried talking to her, and tried to make something happen before school ended, but I didn't succeed. Then I ...

I don't feel I can ever look good enough for him, because he always says something negative about my appearance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7071 days ago

11 August 2005 (F) - hello I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a few days now. He is four years older than I am. He's a great person overall and I love him very much. He always shows me a lot of love and so I feel very loved by him but I have one problem...

How can I get my friends off my back about my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7071 days ago

11 August 2005 (F) - My b/f and I have been together for a month and very recently had sex for the first time. The problem is my friends. Jamie* is my first ever serious b/f and it's because of this that my friends always question me about our relationship. I can't fi...