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writes:hiThere is this boy I like, he is my ex and he dumped me for my best friend. I really liked him and I still do, a lot, and I think it might even be love.Since then, I've had a boyfriend who my ex was quite close with. We flirted with each other and my boyfriend became suspicious and I like my ex even more so I dumped my boyfriend and my ex took my side. He is really nice and I have never felt this way about anyone. But the problem is that he tells me that he loves me but then he goes on to another girl and can't stop talking about her and then he tells me he loves me again. It's so confusing. I really want to go out with him because he is the only boy to have a special place in my heart but I don't want to hurt again like he did before.Is there any point in me trying to get him? Please help!!
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reader, pops +, writes (25 August 2005):
NO. Both of you are too young, and have no idea what you are talking about, much less what love is really all about. Spend some time learning and listening, and don't be in a hurry to find a guy. There will be lots of boys and men in your life, and you will like most of them. But, you will slowly learn that not everyone is mature enough to care solely for you. boys usually get there later than girls do, so don't get a lot of expectations about a serious relationship until you are at least 22, and preferably, 25, and the man in your life will be 3-5 years older.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (24 August 2005):
 I don't see the point honey. He is obviously a confused lad and is just having you confused as well. You need to break free and decide what you want for yourself. Start afresh with someone who knows what they want for themself and has respect for you as a person.
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