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writes: Hi. I'm a 18-year-old girl. I'm in love with a boy who sits next to me in class. He's smart, tall and absolutely cute. We always talk jokingly to each other that make me so happy. Just to hear his voice every day makes me over the moon. I always help him finish his assignments since we’re in the same group. He also seems interested in me every action, but I don’t know what he really thinks about me. Should I ask him? I want him to know my feeling but if he doesn’t feel the same way as I do, I’m afraid of losing a good friend. What should I do? I’m so in love. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2005): As someone who was in this exact situation, my instincts tell me that this boy is every bit as into you as you are to him. If anyone paid ME that much attention I wouldn't waste any time!! You should grab things as they come to you, otherwise you'll spend your whole life asking 'what if?' Probably this guy is wondering exactly the same thing about you and is too scared to ask. It would be such a waste if one of you didn't make the first move, so GO FOR IT!!
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reader, helpfull girl +, writes (13 August 2005):
the only way to find out is to ask him, say something like look i dont want to wreck our friendship but i really cant hide this no more! then come out with it! but you really have to ask your self will i lose him if i tell him? if his that much of a good friend you shouldnt lose him! but you should really ask him before time runs out and he finds some body else! JUST BE TRUTHEFULL THEN YOULL ALWAYS GET SOME WHERE IN LIFE!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2005): you should arrange to meet him out of class not for a date just as friends and see how it goes, you should get to know him before you get into a realtionship you may find you get on better as friends or you may find out that he really likes you!! Goodluck!
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