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writes: My b/f and I have been together for a month and very recently had sex for the first time. The problem is my friends. Jamie* is my first ever serious b/f and it's because of this that my friends always question me about our relationship. I can't find a pleasant way to tell them what they have to hear. I just wish they would back off and leave us to get on with our relationship in peace please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, xJoannex +, writes (12 August 2005):
When i first got with my boyfriend i had a hard time off my best friend she used to say i could do better, im waisting my life being with him and he will never amount to nothing. I told my boyfriend what she kept saying and i didnt know what to do! my friend and i drifted apart (not beacuse of what she was sayin) and my realtionship with my boyfriend improved. We later got engaded and she was at our engadement party she was very drunk and told me the only reason she made it hard for me and my boyfriend is beacuse she wanted to be with him! I was shocked to find this out and told her what i thought of her, we still speak but i have lost alot of respect for her. Myself and my fiance are very happy and very much in love and expecting our first child, he now hates my friend for trying to split us up. Im glad i didnt listen to her it would have been the biggest mistake of my life! Make up your own mind how you feel about him and tell them honestly to keep out of your buisness if they are truly your friends they will respect your wishes. Goodluck in whatever you decide to do!
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reader, Ann +, writes (11 August 2005):
Just tell them, " Is this your boyfriend noso please let me handdle my relationship please." I know it will be hard to tell them but you got to do what is best for you and your boy friend so no problems come between you and him.But you got to also look at your friends point of view too they are just worried about you and making sure you will be happy. But yes it is none of there bussnes but you got to tell them the truth.
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