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We met on holiday, and live so far apart... Do we have a chance?

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Question - (29 August 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2005)
A female , *eart_broken_teen writes:

hi my name is alex, 16, from Newcastle.

I see a counsellor about my depression, as I used to be really fat but then I lost loads of weight and I am now happy the way I am, and also about the bullying back home, and the fact that I feel that I cannot trust anyone.

but I recently went on holiday, had the best summer ever, met loads of friends, who I thought I could trust more than my so-called friends back home. I also recieved a lot of self confidence,and got all my happiness and bubbliness back.

Then I met a guy who was the sweetest, fittest and cutest boy I have ever met in my entire life. He was there with his family who I also got along with, he looked like he was 16 but I found out that he was 14.

He looked so old, he was so mature, tall dark handsome and so easy to get along with. He liked me for me and told me I was the nicest girl hed ever met, he told me before I left that I was his best friend! I left the hotel and he hugged me and waved me off, I was so upset, I cried my eyes out on the plane home, and haven't stopped crying since!

I got loads of pic of him so I wont forget him, but what if I never see him again, I ve never felt this way about anyone ever, I think I fell in love with him, his family told me that he really liked me to, but I feel like dying coz I might never see him ever again, coz he lives in ipswich!

will this long distance relationship ever work?

I gave him my msn address...but does it stand a chance!?

help me ! alex!xxx

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A reader, kt United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2005):

kt agony auntlong distance relationships are always hard, if i was you i would ask him for his phone number so you can ring him and even his home address so maybe you can beg you parents to go see him or catch a train down there and ask him to meet you at the station. if you really want this relatioship to work and if its ament to be it can but both be willing to work for it.

good luck!!

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A female reader, Gal With A Zest For Life +, writes (30 August 2005):

First of all congratulations on all of your self-confidence. You really deserve to feel great about yourself and it looks like your posotive attitude has effected your love life too. Another good reason to keep it up. You sound like you and this guy really got on well and like each other a lot. Maybe even love in one or both people. I can't promise anything and I'd be foulish to do so. All I can say is that what happens is what's meant to happen. What will be, will be. If you two are meant to be together then you will be. If not as a boyfriend/girlfriend then as very good friends. After all, you are both quite young. But, it is possible to fall in love so young, I have. If you really love each other then I'm sure you're capable of a relationship, yes even a long-distance one. Even if you don't manage to keep it going, you have to keep that posotive attitude. It's so good for you and will help you with even more dating in the future. Good luck and keep smiling!

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