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writes: I'm in love with this boy and he doesn't notice me, even though I'm very pretty and very smart. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2011): if it is a guy i've almost never talked to beefore would'nt he think i'm wierd if i suddenly start talking to him ?
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reader, SkyBright  +, writes (7 June 2011):
Stay calm. Be yourself, girl. He'll notice you soon enough; give it time. Hang out with him, ask him to go to a local park, or to a game, or the movies. I sort of have the same situation.There's this boy; he's in my grade, my class. We hang out everyday at the park, with some over friends. I have a few other main friends in school that live around me, but can't make it to the park (I live in the middle of nowhere.) He's very smart, cute. My best friends used to like him, steal him from me. But she got over it and went to the boy that she likes-her seconds choice. My friends pushed me onto him - literally - and it makes me angry. I wish that they don't do that. Rumors that me and him are dating, they're lies. People, little kids, kids in my grade, saying that we should date. It annoys me. We talk about it and how funny that it is when they say that we are dating. Like that one time, they said they I broke up with him while he was eating a banana. I mean..really??Anyway, i'm sure he likes me. Ever since a few grades ago. We're both smart, very smart. Top kids in the class. Maybe it could happen? Well, if he likes me, he'll tell me when he's ready. Give it time, it may take a little bit, but it WILL pay off. Trust me. Summer break is almost here for me and I want this to be one of my best summers ever. I'm jealous and tired of watching my girlfriends be happy with their boyfriends. (My friends are dating. It makes me jealous. And soon two of my other will be dating too. Our group of 6 to 8 friends -up to 11 friends - My main friends have all found their match, and the other boy knows it.) The point is, don't be all over him and give him time. You don't want to creep this guy out. Don't dress up, wear makeup, be flirty, perfume; be YOURSELF. Be who you are; he likes that best in you. Be best friends with him, I'm working on this, too. Have fun - it takes time. Trust me
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): just talk to him and find out what he's interested in build up a freindship then try further. otherwise you might scare him away if you come on too strong
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): Well im a guy, and the best thing for me to notice a girl is if she is happy, smiley talks to me a bit and keeps alot of eye contact.
In looks wise alot of guys like long shiney hair, in most colours.
eyes that have a meaning.
and a sweeet smell about them.
Theres absolutly NOTHING worse then b.o to put a guy offf.
even if shes the prettyest girl in the world, if she pongs we'll soon get over her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): Hi i have the same prob he's in my englesh class and he talks to me, he's all ways staring at me evin when he see's walkin me with the rest of my freinds.
so i just talk to him now and were some perfuim and make-up!! now he's taking even more intrest maybie u should try it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): He likes you but is to afraid to look at you. He says in his mind "im not guna look at her cuz she will probably think im wierd and maybe she'll say wat and she probably has a boyfriend and i dont want any problems wit hym and i dont want to get rejected by her i just dont want to get hurt so im not guna look at her" he has deep feelings for you cuz you are realy preety but hes afraid and he probably thinks your mean so you just need to go up to hym and say hey and you should be his friend and he will ask you out so dont worry he does like you
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reader, secrets5 +, writes (27 July 2008):
ok first of all is there really any chance??? im nt being mean but theres no point going all out just to be disappointed. if you think that you could get him then you have to get him to notice you, so just look nice whenever he might see you (light perfume often helps as well). you've also got to look happy like someone he might eventually like to date, smiling can be the hottest thing about a girl. remember if his mates think your hot then they'll talk about you to him!!! i know this sound superficial but guys do aim for the popular girls, so surround yourself with your friends. if you decide to approach him then look amazing and smile, but dont be slutty and try to seem interested in him but dont push too hard.
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reader, whos that girl  +, writes (13 May 2008):
im in a simular situation so i wudnt know the perfect thing to do but i think u should talk to him and hint to him that u like him just let him know even get ur friends to find out if he likes u just do things to make u closer xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2008): I'm in the same situation, I just casually talk to him get to know him and then gradually flirt. When you see in say hi and then he'll say hi back. Then when you get closer ask him what he's doing this saturday and plan a casual day out like just hanging out in the park
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): Well is he your friend? If not, no offence, but I dont think you can be in love with him. But you must like him quite a bit. Just try and make friends but still hold eye contact showing him you are interested in what he is saying. Keep trying :Dgood luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): Same with me too. I don't know what to do.
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reader, xxluvink.himxx  +, writes (8 December 2007):
f i hate boys man what notice motice fuk LOVE MAN WTF lmaooooooooo srsly man boys r just stupid dey wouldnt notice no shit der just dumb srsly man i like dis guy from my skool i NOO he likes me his so dumb man he Over msn he talks 2 me but at skool he wants me 2 talk 2 him az if i am i dont care lmao fukknn i haste him BUT I love him so much but i hate him but i love love love him lmaooooooo i no its wiird stuff it man stuff it dey would never notice no shit der just dumb dumb dumb dats all lmao owell he will notice me ONE DAY HE WILL. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): iuno i have da same problem i like da answers but what if you dont even know his name? and dont know anyone who knows him? he's just there and its really awkard just to go up 2 him and start a convo. what if he thinks im a stalker or a freak wtf? iuno
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): hi, i rlly liked this boy in my school, but he is in none of my classes, and i barely ever see him. i tried talking to him, but i was really nervous, so it didnt come out well, so i thought he thought i was really wierd. i also kept thinking he was flirting with me, but he wasnt, it was just what i wanted to hear, then i realised he had like another girl all along, a whole summer went past, and still didnt forgett about him. i no thiis is an answer, but i rlly need help, i like this guy stil!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): Talk to him, I know how it feels to have a crush on someone. Sometimes I am shy to and I have embarassed myself with him. But he didn't think weard of me in any way! Over mxit I disn't know what to sent to him but at last I found out what was wrong. You must find something that he likes to do and talk to him about it, the next time you must say hallo and so on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2007): Just be yourself dont go off too strong because he will get the wrong impression maybe get into a deep conversation with him that should help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2006): see what his interests are and compliment him on something he's wearing or something he's working on. It will show him you care but don't be to out of the blue or he'll think your weird. I know that's how I got my man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2006): I suggest the same thing as everyone else: talk to him. If you're a little uncomfortable with just going up to him and strting a conversation, and a friend to go with you. Think abotu a few things you can say to him, so that you wont' look like an idiot, but don't plan out a whole script in your head first either. When you talk to him, pay close attention to his body language: is he paying attention to what you're saying? Is his facial expression open and realaxed? Is he mirroring your body movements? if the answer to all these questions is "yes", he is definentally interested. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2006): I think that you should talk to him. i like this one guy named jason and i think he likes me but the best way i can get him 2 notice me is talking to him. he likes you then he will keep talkin 2 u. and when you no u r goin c him try 2 lookm ur best and make funny but mysterious comments but try not 2 be slutty some guys like that but not all do. good luck and if u think he is startin to like u then ask him 2 hang w/ u after skool or somin. hope u do well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2005): Start a convo wit him and sit near him and talk or muck around with him
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (30 August 2005):
 Talk to him to get him to notice you; that is really the most you can do unless you wish to get upon a table and execute a saucy dance just for his benefit!
Try talking to him so he can get to know you and you him. Bite the bullet and even ask him out! Ask him what his interests are and say what you like doing. Then suggest that you do one of these things together sometime.
Are you sure he doesn't already have a girlfriend as this could be one reason for his lack of attention.
Once you know for certain the score, get your confidence together and ask him out.
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