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writes: HiI went out with a guy for a week and it got very serious very quickly... He seemed to really like me, calling me beautiful and that he would be dreaming about me etc... then he told me on our econd date that he wanted me to be his friend.. when I asked him why, he said "I see you more as a friend".He works next door to me, and a few weeks ago his boss came and told me that the boy really likes me.THe problem is that he won't even look me in the face! And if I'm serving him (I work in a bakery) he'll want my co worker to serve him.When I IM him, he is always complaining about something.....On Saturday, I went out for a coffee with another co worker, and we went back to the bakery afterwards. The boy saw us, then looked at me and then away.He does that an awful lot anyway, so I thought nothing of it.I was talking to him and he said he has a new girlfriend. I said it was cool.He then asked me "So you don't care?" and I said "well, if it makes you happy then it's cool..." He said "Fiine" and logged off.Have I upset him? Do you think he still likes me? because I'm starting college(I'm from wales) and he will be there and we will see each other al ot..please help meLyndzXXX
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (29 August 2005):
 It seems that he does really like you but is very shy and frightened of getting hurt (this may have been why he suggested only being friends). He may not even have a new girlfriend and was just testing you out. He sounds very unsure of himself.
The thing is, do you really like him? Despite him calling it off before?
If you do, then what you could do is ask him if he would like to go out somewhere sometime. Find out if he does have a girl-friend first by either asking him or others. Tell him how you feel about him and that you were confused when he only wanted to be friends before and why you were confused.
If he likes you, he will respond in some way. If he doesn't, it will either mean that he isn't mature enough to handle a relationship (which seems likely) or that he does only wish to be friends.
Its worth a try.
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