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writes: I'm 14 years old and I've recently become involved with a guy who is 21. I know this is quite a big age gap but I think I'm falling for him. He's told me that he likes me and we get on really well and talk all the time, but revently he's been ignoring me but assures me that he does still really like me. I don't know what to do! Does he still ike me? Is there a too big an age gap? and how do I get over him if that's the best thing to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): Seems like he doesn't want you for the same reasons that you want him.
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reader, 81605slygurl +, writes (17 August 2005):
it depends on the person whether they think that's a big age gap. Cruised the message boards lately? I see these posts of people getting married or being with guys 10 years or so older than them. So this answer would be up to you, maybe also since you are a minor...up to YOUR parents unfortunately. bUT IN time, if you are still together for a long time, people will consider that. But also, don't forget, if you guys end up doing anything, that's satutory rape! It's illegal and a crime so be really carefull with what you guys do, he could end up in jail, regardless if it was consensual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2005): The same thing happened to me I liked this guy who was 21 he liked me too but I was 14 but I'm over it now we're friends now
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reader, princess05 +, writes (16 August 2005):
hello, i had a friend who was going out with an older man and it did not work out, this is not always the case though. older men always have a different point of view to these things, he might be proud to have a young girlfriend whereas you feel it's not right.
if you really like this man and uyou can really trust him try talking to him about the situation, he may understand,ask him if he wants a proper long term relationship otherwise theres no need fretting, have fun first and dont move to fast. live your life with boys your own age and if you feel it's the more mature type your into move up in age.
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